Chat Do you like a little mystery?

[UsefulIdiot]

When I first started hobbying I did not know what to expect, was shy about asking for extras and just went with the flow. The mystery about what may or may not happen added to the excitement. But this did not last. These days I tell the MPA exactly what I am looking for before any money changes hands, and if she agrees I usually skip the half assed massage and get straight to the action. If the MPA does not agree I just leave. I am not aggressive/pushy, I just do not waste time. How about you guys? Do you like uncertainty and go with the flow or are you down and dirty?

 

[Chivas Regal]

same

 

[jsmith]

The first line of your post is:
When I first started hobbying I did not know what to expect, was shy about asking for extras and just went with the flow. The mystery about what may or may not happen added to the excitement.

Pretty well sums up things when I started.

If you are not interested in the massage part at all, why don't you just book a SP? She won't be looking to spend any time on a few minutes of useless backrubbing.

When I go for a massage, I am looking mainly for a good massage as I often have stiff back muscles, sore shoulders, etc that I want worked on.
Of course, I'm always hoping for a HE, but sometimes I just don't know. When I want a guaranteed HE with the massage, I just go to somewhere (where I've usually gone before) that I know it's going to happen.

But there are still those times where a a little bit of mystery is involved.

 

[UsefulIdiot]

The first line of your post is:
When I first started hobbying I did not know what to expect, was shy about asking for extras and just went with the flow. The mystery about what may or may not happen added to the excitement.

Pretty well sums up things when I started.

If you are not interested in the massage part at all, why don't you just book a SP? She won't be looking to spend any time on a few minutes of useless backrubbing.

When I go for a massage, I am looking mainly for ta good massage as I often have stiff back muscles, sore shoulders, etc that I want worked on.
Of course, I'm always hoping for a HE, but sometimes I just don't know. When I want a guaranteed HE with the massage, I just go to somewhere (where I've usually gone before) that I know it's going to happen.

But there are still those times where a a little bit of mystery is involved.

SP is probably my next step. I am paranoid about privacy so do not want to communicate via text or phone, and I have not looked into ways to hide my identity when using my cell (suggestions anybody?). I am also apprehensive about being robbed or scammed. When I go into an MP I only carry cash, no wallet, cards, jewelry or cell. It is rare that I am asked my name, but if they do I use a fake one or course.

 

[Kurt70]

SP is probably my next step. I am paranoid about privacy so do not want to communicate via text or phone, and I have not looked into ways to hide my identity when using my cell (suggestions anybody?). I am also apprehensive about being robbed or scammed. When I go into an MP I only carry cash, no wallet, cards, jewelry or cell. It is rare that I am asked my name, but if they do I use a fake one or course.

Use a burner phone. 711 sells them cheap, pay for it with cash, and then you pay by the minute. You just need to hide it from your SO, but no worries about using your personal cell.

 

[Old No. 7]

When I first started hobbying I did not know what to expect, was shy about asking for extras and just went with the flow. The mystery about what may or may not happen added to the excitement. How about you guys? Do you like uncertainty and go with the flow or are you down and dirty?

I was like you when I started out. Very shy, didn't know how to play the game very well, but I learned and have done quite well for a couple of decades.
I'm not so much into stipulating what I want or leaving. I usually go with the flow.
When I know what I'm in the mood for, I have a fairly long list of TTT providers and I go to one of the ones who does what I want on that day.
When I'm looking for "a little mystery", I'll try somewhere I haven't been before and just take a chance as a walk in. The way I always did when I started out. I've had many good surprises doing this over the years. I've had a few duds, but far more winners than losers.
And after all this time, I still find trying different places has a certain element of mystery that serves as a bit of a turn on for me.

 

[jsmith]

Like Kurt70 just said - get a burner phone. You can buy it with cash, buy the air time with cash, activate it without attaching any name (real or fake) to it, and keep it "clean" by deleting all correspondence after an appointment

Comment on bjfan's post above. Pretty well sums up my experience (except the decades thing). Still like a little mystery sometimes, and there will be pleasnt surprises and duds.

 

[UsefulIdiot]

I was like you when I started out. Very shy, didn't know how to play the game very well, but I learned and have done quite well for a couple of decades.
I'm not so much into stipulating what I want or leaving. I usually go with the flow.
When I know what I'm in the mood for, I have a fairly long list of TTT providers and I go to one of the ones who does what I want on that day.
When I'm looking for "a little mystery", I'll try somewhere I haven't been before and just take a chance as a walk in. The way I always did when I started out. I've had many good surprises doing this over the years. I've had a few duds, but far more winners than losers.
And after all this time, I still find trying different places has a certain element of mystery that serves as a bit of a turn on for me.

What is TTT? - top tier tits is all I could on Urban dictionary.

 

[jsmith]

I'm thinking Tried, Tested and True - i.e. you kmow what you're going to get.
(but I could be wrong)

 

[snoopdoggie]

I like changing things up. Sometimes I tell her what I'm interested in, sometimes I just let her do her thing and see where it goes. It makes it exciting.

 

[Hangdai]

SP is probably my next step. I am paranoid about privacy so do not want to communicate via text or phone, and I have not looked into ways to hide my identity when using my cell (suggestions anybody?). I am also apprehensive about being robbed or scammed. When I go into an MP I only carry cash, no wallet, cards, jewelry or cell. It is rare that I am asked my name, but if they do I use a fake one or course.

There is no privacy anywhere, you, your vehicle have already been caught on so many cameras everywhere.
Spas often share footage of customers with others.
But what really can happen?
Except for a few embellished bullshit stories on here, nothing will happen if you text/call any SP.
Just don’t save any contacts to you phone, it’ll look like a random mis-call/mis-text if they do contact you again.

Only discuss time and location, only discuss $ and needs in person.

Stay away from white SP’s and Mississauga, and your good to go, lol

Forget the burner phone, unless you’re single, how the fuck will you explain an extra phone to your SO or family?

Put your phone on lockdown, set your notifications correctly, don’t let anyone borrow it. Everyone and their granny has their own phone now.

 

[Old No. 7]

What is TTT? - top tier tits is all I could on Urban dictionary.

jsmith got it, Tried, Tested, and true.
Means exactly what it suggests.

 

[Old No. 7]

Stay away from white SP’s and Mississauga, and your good to go, lol

Care to elaborate on why for this statement?

 

[cupcrazy]

explore a bit.

 

[Hangdai]

Care to elaborate on why for this statement?

Most white SP’s are drug addicted, tattoo scarred trailer trash that look 60 when they are only 25.
Except for a handful of exceptions, most make me want to run away.
Give me a 50’s asian milf any day of the week.

Mississauga? Had waaaay too many bad experiences while meeting SP’s there (of all races).
Nice place to live, and shopping at Sq One is great, but a no go for prostitutes for me anymore.

 

[Macx96]

Spend a little more and you will find better quality product,applies to hobbying also.

 

[UsefulIdiot]

Most white SP’s are drug addicted, tattoo scarred trailer trash that look 60 when they are only 25.
Except for a handful of exceptions, most make me want to run away.
Give me a 50’s asian milf any day of the week.

Mississauga? Had waaaay too many bad experiences while meeting SP’s there (of all races).
Nice place to live, and shopping at Sq One is great, but a no go for prostitutes for me anymore.

Recently someone came to my door looking for a woman at 2 am. On seeing me he was upset, got a little belligerent and I turned him away. Two days later another guy came in the evening looking for the same woman. After a little prodding he revealed that he found her on Leolist and she had given him my address. The poor fool had paid a deposit. She just picked a random address. I found her ad on Leolist, made a police report and then told her via email to back off. No trouble since. I looked up her ad and the woman is enormous - I guess these dupes are a chubby chasers.

 

[krayjee]

When I first started hobbying I did not know what to expect, was shy about asking for extras and just went with the flow. The mystery about what may or may not happen added to the excitement. But this did not last. These days I tell the MPA exactly what I am looking for before any money changes hands, and if she agrees I usually skip the half assed massage and get straight to the action. If the MPA does not agree I just leave. I am not aggressive/pushy, I just do not waste time. How about you guys? Do you like uncertainty and go with the flow or are you down and dirty?

Same here but I prefer starting with 10-15 minutes of massage to break the ice. No kiss, no deal for me.

 

[UsefulIdiot]

Same here but I prefer starting with 10-15 minutes of massage to break the ice. No kiss, no deal for me.

A lot of MPAs do not like kissing (me anyway) so I do not demand it, but I really like it when they do.

 

[krayjee]

A lot of MPAs do not like kissing (me anyway) so I do not demand it, but I really like it when they do.

No kiss no go for me. It works out 90% of the time and that's how I found my gems. KL hate me for that...