I agree with Lost. As an example, I have a friend #1 that brags about hooking up with random girls. I mentioned to him the stuff that I do on the side and he looks at me with that smirk on his face and says, " I never had to pay for women to sleep with me. " Mind you that he is no Brad Pitt. Plus I"ve seen the women that he dated prior and if the rating of 1 is undesirable and 10 is Daniella, his women would have a rating of 2.
I am not saying that we all can't hook up with women of all shapes and sizes but my other friend #2 would always say to me about standards. Where he doesn't fck any women lower than 7. I've been with numerous women and having to sleep with a woman who has a rating of 9+ and above, Pretty face, voluptuous body, amazing skill and is very sensual, is a needle in a haystack, unless I have the money. I go into this hobby because #1 I can afford it #2 I want standard # 3 Fantasy. I always separate my feelings of the real world. I never mix both real and fantasy. There are some who fall hard and risk everything.
From time to time, you indulge yourself. As what my manager used to say.