Hey Brother hobbyist. All these responses to your post are very good advice. Pewpewpew is pretty spot on.
if your only going once a month, it’s a small splurge and gift to yourself. Some of us gift ourselves more because we have More to spend. Just don’t go into debt. If you got a little to spend each month, do what you want. when I was 25 I was clubbing every weekend . I was getting My rocks off impressing the ladies on the dance floor. Go dancing! Who knows, you may just get lucky too! I was going to a place called Hollywood’s on the Queensway for like 10 years straight. I think I spent at least $200 every Saturday night. But I had a lot of fun and met so many different ladies. You will be just fine. You are young and finding your way in the world. It will only become an issue if you let it. A really cute girl is right around the corner so Don’t be blind to new adventures.