Chat Haven't been this addicted to something since Runescape.

[Jayjay1]

Can't seem to stop, has anyone had any successful ways of slowing down?

I don't think I can since I discovered this when I was single and now I always resort to it instead of meeting someone.

 

[Mr Gucci gucci]

Can't seem to stop, has anyone had any successful ways of slowing down?

I don't think I can since I discovered this when I was single and now I always resort to it instead of meeting someone.

Depends on the level of your addiction.

Im at 2 to 3 times PER DAY. EVERY DAY for the last 4 months. ... dont think it's a problem. It's just a habit lol

 

[Jayjay1]

Depends on the level of your addiction.

Im at 2 to 3 times PER DAY. EVERY DAY for the last 4 months. ... dont think it's a problem. It's just a habit lol

May I ask how you make your money?
Hot damn

 

[Mr Gucci gucci]

May I ask how you make your money?
Hot damn

I own 3 business. 1 in new york too.

Kinda just started early when i was 22 ish. So now I'm just building new business stuff while the hobby serves as a distraction or stress release after a long day

 

[Jayjay1]

Depends on the level of your addiction.

Im at 2 to 3 times PER DAY. EVERY DAY for the last 4 months. ... dont think it's a problem. It's just a habit lol

Honestly I couldn't even masturbate more than 2 times a day (I'm only 25 but idk why I can't) so I wouldn't even enjoy it even if it was every day.

If I can afford 1 time a week that would be good but I can't. I can afford 1 time a month for now ($240~)

 

[Mr Gucci gucci]

Can't seem to stop, has anyone had any successful ways of slowing down?

I don't think I can since I discovered this when I was single and now I always resort to it instead of meeting someone.

Its not an addiction

But do not think this is a long term game.

These girls r for rent. Not for life. When ure broke they aint gonna care. Life goes on.

Keep your money n invest in stuff that makes you happy and invest in your wellbeing

 

[Mr Gucci gucci]

Honestly I couldn't even masturbate more than 2 times a day (I'm only 25 but idk why I can't) so I wouldn't even enjoy it even if it was every day.

If I can afford 1 time a week that would be good but I can't. I can afford 1 time a month for now ($240~)

Lol it's not an addiction then.

Trust me. If the right girl comes, I'd rather have that than this hobby. But for now a single life. This hobby is good distraction

 

[Jayjay1]

Lol it's not an addiction then.

Trust me. If the right girl comes, I'd rather have that than this hobby. But for now a single life. This hobby is good distraction

That's another thing, the fact that I'm single makes me more inclined to just go to a spa than to find a girlfriend.

Sucks.

 

[Mr Gucci gucci]

That's another thing, the fact that I'm single makes me more inclined to just go to a spa than to find a girlfriend.

Sucks.

Nah
You dont have to.. find a girlfriend. Sometimes life just happens.

Focus on improving yourself. Be a better you and better girls will be attracted to you

 

[xtc27]

Honestly I couldn't even masturbate more than 2 times a day (I'm only 25 but idk why I can't) so I wouldn't even enjoy it even if it was every day.

If I can afford 1 time a week that would be good but I can't. I can afford 1 time a month for now ($240~)

...u can't even afford a gf.... $240!.... w/ that could definitely hobby twice/month.... hold on! $250=5 times w/corrupt RMT! ...

...but you gotta get yr expenses down... no respectable Frenchman would have no mistress $$$...

... Netflix... gbye... beer... cut way back...

Starbux/Tim Hortons... gbye... ....except sometimes espresso b4 going to spa can be gd... make it @ home

...gym membership & ttc... take bike, save $$$, better erections... win,win...

...hockey/baseball/fantasy sports... no fantasy sport gonna suck yr cock... gbye...

...now u cn afford a gf... or to visit spa @ least once/wk at $240 a pop... premier I guess... seriously, some pretty gd SPs way cheaper...

 

[Chubbypickle]

Don't make the mistake and think having a girlfriend will reduce or eliminate your urge to hobby. At first when it's new and exciting it definitely will, however, with time your addiction to the variety of young sluts will bring you back when your girlfriend or wife is "tired" or has a "headache".

Its definitely a real addiction. I'm lucky enough to have a side business that the wife doesn't see the books on so that leaves me with money to spend without having to account for or explain. I can't help to think how much earlier I could retire if I didn't hobby, and I'm probably on the low end of the spending spectrum compared to some here. But it seems the only time I regret it is when I have a bad session.

 

[xtc27]

Don't make the mistake and think having a girlfriend will reduce or eliminate your urge to hobby. At first when it's new and exciting it definitely will, however, with time your addiction to the variety of young sluts will bring you back when your girlfriend or wife is "tired" or has a "headache".

Its definitely a real addiction. I'm lucky enough to have a side business that the wife doesn't see the books on so that leaves me with money to spend without having to account for or explain. I can't help to think how much earlier I could retire if I didn't hobby, and I'm probably on the low end of the spending spectrum compared to some here. But it seems the only time I regret it is when I have a bad session.

...just don't see $$$ 4 sex as optional expense... either mistress, gf, sp, spas... necessity... guys who suppress it get in all kindsa trouble, way more $$$...

.. and then guys who don't NEED 2 suppress it, bc not there... do not envy them... they get 2 retire early... guess they can go golfing...

 

[Dongo]

For me it is a healthy habit that became an addiction. Healthy in the sense that even at my advanced age, I have no health issues with prostate, can get a very firm erection, can come like a twenty year old and satisfy a woman and therefore myself several times a week. I don't smoke or drink much alcohol and I work at staying in shape.
Downside is the cost, I spend a lot on spas .. no regrets though, I love the thrill and satisfaction of it.
I have many friends that had little or no sex life for years that ended up with prostate issues from enlarged to cancer.
Use it or lose it.

 

[hangul99]

Don't make the mistake and think having a girlfriend will reduce or eliminate your urge to hobby. At first when it's new and exciting it definitely will, however, with time your addiction to the variety of young sluts will bring you back when your girlfriend or wife is "tired" or has a "headache".

Its definitely a real addiction. I'm lucky enough to have a side business that the wife doesn't see the books on so that leaves me with money to spend without having to account for or explain. I can't help to think how much earlier I could retire if I didn't hobby, and I'm probably on the low end of the spending spectrum compared to some here. But it seems the only time I regret it is when I have a bad session.

Just get more than one girlfriend. Lol!

 

[Big.Erec.tion]

Spnkbang.com or ceporn.net. those two have gotten me down to 2 times a month when I was minimum once a week.

 

[LazyBoy]

Don't worry, after about 20 years, you'll feel like you've experienced it all and the urge will fade.

 

[xtc27]

Spnkbang.com or ceporn.net. those two have gotten me down to 2 times a month when I was minimum once a week.

...spas have killed porn's ability to get me going... esp now I'm into DFK... tried DFK porn, really not the same...

 

[kittyhound69]

Hey Brother hobbyist. All these responses to your post are very good advice. Pewpewpew is pretty spot on.
if your only going once a month, it’s a small splurge and gift to yourself. Some of us gift ourselves more because we have More to spend. Just don’t go into debt. If you got a little to spend each month, do what you want. when I was 25 I was clubbing every weekend . I was getting My rocks off impressing the ladies on the dance floor. Go dancing! Who knows, you may just get lucky too! I was going to a place called Hollywood’s on the Queensway for like 10 years straight. I think I spent at least $200 every Saturday night. But I had a lot of fun and met so many different ladies. You will be just fine. You are young and finding your way in the world. It will only become an issue if you let it. A really cute girl is right around the corner so Don’t be blind to new adventures.

Haha. I was there all the time too , had a lot of fun there. Great times

 

[kittyhound69]

No not really. We were a so drunk all the time lol. That was when girls were sluts and didn’t care lol fx. All that bareback sex

 

[kittyhound69]

We also used to go to the gasworks downtown a lot .