Not understanding women?! No game?! I won't speak for other guys but I can tell you that doesn't even come into the top 10 reasons for me.
If you like the level of "service" that a lady like this sounds like then great. I see no good reason a lady would not want her customers informed and save possible cheapskates and other associated bullshit. Yes I get she doesn't want everyone talking her extended menu publicly but it's part of the business so what does she expect?
Maybe you're right i am feeling ripped off in the past by these types....because it's likely a lot of us were.
She sees you as nothing more than a wallet to squeeze as much as she can and hurry the fuck up as there's another cuck waiting to walk on eggshells to her uber sensitivity just so he can also have the privilege to pay $400 to stick his dick in her for 60 seconds before she pulls out her phone to answer a text. Be sure to get the link to her "Louis Vuitton wish list".
If botox duck lips, fake tits, and shitty attitude are things you're eager to pay just for because she's pretty, then my hat's off to you.