Cheating on your favorite MPA.

[From Cow-leaf-or-ny]

I thinks you've nailed it Sukdeep. "Guilty" is probably a better word. Your analogy is apt.

Sukdeep also said he feels "betrayed" when one of his customers talks to a competitor. Guilt and betrayal are strictly human emotions so it just shows we are human.

When I bought my first car I spent a lot of time with one salesman and he with me. I finally bought that car AT ANOTHER DEALERSHIP because lower price and yes I felt guilty. I surmised that he felt somewhat betrayed. I don't know because I felt too guilty to ask him if he felt betrayed.

 

[pinhed_1976]

Well, I would wonder how you would feel once when you are in the hurt wife shoes? MPASquared, you might be the most caring, receptive and sexaully expressive gf or wife but your man still might stray. A lot of men crave variety and eventhough their wife is sensitive and accomodating to his desires, he still might stray. I wonder how you would feel when that happens? I guess you'll know when and if you ever cross that bridge.

I think we can all agree that men and women are inherently different. They have different needs, desires and forms of expression, however, once one starts to lie about their behavior and seeks comfort outside the relationship, it's difficult defend their actions.

 

[Due October 1st!]

I think this whole thread is a bit stupid, when the client pay's for the services at a open place of service for any adult, then there is no cheating at all
throughout the day sP's/SC Dancer's/MPA's offer their services and companionship to any gentleman who is willing to pay for their time, so from where the word cheating comes from any where for either the client or the ladies too! There is no emotional attachment in Adult Industry move on guy's. Just read Tiffany's_69's reply its an open slap given to guy's who think its cheating in any way

 

[mars28]

I think this whole thread is a bit stupid, when the client pay's for the services at a open place of service for any adult, then there is no cheating at all

This thread has morphed into something a bit more profound and it appears that "Bitter Wife" has started her own thread on men who "cheat" on their wives with MPA's.

 

[Jas]

I think this whole thread is a bit stupid, when the client pay's for the services at a open place of service for any adult, then there is no cheating at all

LOL Solution!!!!!!!!!! Just start Pairing your Fav Sps and MPAs in Duo 's.

Hey maybe invite the SO or Wife and spice that relationship up.

 

[Guavas]

Well, this no dick, daty skilled lacking kind of guy says your bad reviews are also due to poor hygiene, a shit hole work place, ridiculously stretch marked body, combined with loathing self-promotion due to low self-esteem.

Isn't this fun?

 

[oooo]

Yes It is lmfao. Guess that why we sell out here 4 out 5 days a week hun. Been huge changes.

 

[Deleted member 79939]

WHA

I'm a guy with 4 or 5 favorite MPAs. I seldom stray . I go through periods where I'll favor one over another but I love them all. Last week I visited one of my all time favorites who I've frequented for almost 10 years. I haven't seen her in 5 or 6 months, but when I did she reminded my why I have always liked her. Kind, sexy person, amazing body, and very dependable. Someone I've always had chemistry with.
Yesterday I called to make an appointment at the same spa with another favorite who works there. I usually try to avoid going on a day when 2 or more of my faves are working the same shift. Anyway I made all the arrangements and said my name before I realized that the person I was speaking to on the phone was the provider of the lovely session we had had last week. She said who she was and there was a really awkward moment where I was really embarrassed. I know lots of you will go on about how it doesn't matter, they are professionals, and it's a business transaction and all that, but I felt like I had been caught cheating.
In the real world of relationships that kind of 2 timing is verboten, a relationship killer. It's hard not for that value not to spill over into the world of long term MPA/client relationships. Very embarrassing. But not enough to make me change my hobby habits. It will be interesting to see how favorite #1 will treat me when I see her again. I'm sure she will be cool but I'll be a bit on edge when I see her again.

WHY IS CHEATING ON YOU REGULAR MASSAGE LADY, CALLED CHEATING /

 

[OG_funguy]

I'm a guy with 4 or 5 favorite MPAs. I seldom stray . I go through periods where I'll favor one over another but I love them all. Last week I visited one of my all time favorites who I've frequented for almost 10 years. I haven't seen her in 5 or 6 months, but when I did she reminded my why I have always liked her. Kind, sexy person, amazing body, and very dependable. Someone I've always had chemistry with.
Yesterday I called to make an appointment at the same spa with another favorite who works there. I usually try to avoid going on a day when 2 or more of my faves are working the same shift. Anyway I made all the arrangements and said my name before I realized that the person I was speaking to on the phone was the provider of the lovely session we had had last week. She said who she was and there was a really awkward moment where I was really embarrassed. I know lots of you will go on about how it doesn't matter, they are professionals, and it's a business transaction and all that, but I felt like I had been caught cheating.
In the real world of relationships that kind of 2 timing is verboten, a relationship killer. It's hard not for that value not to spill over into the world of long term MPA/client relationships. Very embarrassing. But not enough to make me change my hobby habits. It will be interesting to see how favorite #1 will treat me when I see her again. I'm sure she will be cool but I'll be a bit on edge when I see her again.

Even though this is a 10 yr old thread that our friend M777 revived, I see that you (i.e. the OP) is still active on this forum. So question - how did your fave react when she found out? Now that it's been 10 yrs, you still seeing these faves of yours?

FWIW - I totally get how you would feel that way...obviously not for the majority of MPAs but some of us have special relationships with our faves. Maybe 'cheating' is not the right word but I would definitely feel guilty and embarrassed. I go out of my way to avoid situations like this, but only with my faves. And yes, it gets tricky as hell when you're seeing other MPAs at the same spa or you might even be seeing some of her 'friends' at other spas. I know most guys would say these MPAs have no feelings, it's all business, etc. etc. but pretty sure if my fave(s) found out, she would be really hurt.

 

[krayjee]

I got caught cheating on Perly twice. Once with a girl who is working now at Orchid as Lily and once with Jenny her co workers whom she was not very fond of while she was away in China. Someone must have told her about it , she called me from China and gave me shit. I told her why can't I see someone when you were away and you are fucking with all other guys at spas every day. Her answer was that was her job, what I did was cheating...lol

 

[OG_funguy]

I got caught cheating on Perly twice. Once with a girl who is working now at Orchid as Lily and once with Jenny her co workers whom she was not very fond of while she was away in China. Someone must have told her about it , she called me from China and gave me shit. I told her why can't I see someone when you were away and you are fucking with all other guys at spas every day. Her answer was that was her job, what I did was cheating...lol

Yep...they will say they have no choice who walks in that door but I have a choice where I go and who I see lol...

 

[Deleted member 79939]

I think this whole thread is a bit stupid, when the client pay's for the services at a open place of service for any adult, then there is no cheating at all
throughout the day sP's/SC Dancer's/MPA's offer their services and companionship to any gentleman who is willing to pay for their time, so from where the word cheating comes from any where for either the client or the ladies too! There is no emotional attachment in Adult Industry move on guy's. Just read Tiffany's_69's reply its an open slap given to guy's who think its cheating in any way

Acutally, you got a point.
It's like dating a hong kong model.
It can happen.
Some of the ladies in hong kong use ony one PLY****** so they might like party with other mistresses.

 

[Old No. 7]

FWIW - I totally get how you would feel that way...obviously not for the majority of MPAs but some of us have special relationships with our faves. Maybe 'cheating' is not the right word but I would definitely feel guilty and embarrassed. I go out of my way to avoid situations like this, but only with my faves. And yes, it gets tricky as hell when you're seeing other MPAs at the same spa or you might even be seeing some of her 'friends' at other spas. I know most guys would say these MPAs have no feelings, it's all business, etc. etc. but pretty sure if my fave(s) found out, she would be really hurt.

I used to see one MPA very often and she always encouraged me to see others at the same spa, but she reminded me very time that she was number 1.
I had so much fun because they would always ask me to "do that thing that drives your number 1 crazy".
Then she became very close with another MPA, they hung out, travelled together, and were even a bi-couple.
At my number 1's insistence, I started seeing the second one and things got pretty close between us as well.
My best duo sessions were with those two. Miles better than any other duos I've ever had. The chemistry made all the difference.

They are both retired.

 

[Deleted member 79939]

I used to see one MPA very often and she always encouraged me to see others at the same spa, but she reminded me very time that she was number 1.
I had so much fun because they would always ask me to "do that thing that drives your number 1 crazy".
Then she became very close with another MPA, they hung out, travelled together, and were even a bi-couple.
At my number 1's insistence, I started seeing the second one and things got pretty close between us as well.
My best duo sessions were with those two. Miles better than any other duos I've ever had. The chemistry made all the difference.

They are both retired.

cool , yes, this happens
i heard some stories where women love connecting on friendship and romance level
women hate that porn mentaility
they love relationships
so build a relationship and you will impress the massage ladies

 

[Deleted member 79939]

Yep...they will say they have no choice who walks in that door but I have a choice where I go and who I see lol...

if you want to marry a hot massage lady
you have to read my book
it's called "don't watch cheap porn, watch good thoughful porn directed and scripted porn directors with decent cinematography and dialouges and pacing and tone and a good story structure and humor and lots of realistic storylines"

 

[OG_funguy]

if you want to marry a hot massage lady
you have to read my book
it's called "don't watch cheap porn, watch good directed and scripted porn with decent cinematography"

Can you send a link to your book, would love to read it. Maybe you can sign it for me...

 

[Deleted member 79939]

Can you send a link to your book, would love to read it. Maybe you can sign it for me...

maybe
the last copy I gave that chineses hot lady who used to date George Michael in the haydays

 

[sexpuppy]

I take it OP hasn't been in a real relationship before. I would be very surprised to find anyone who think that way once they have been married or at least be in a long term relationship. You don't have a real relationship with an MPA/SP unless you are seeing them without paying them, and even then it can very well be a FwB situation.

 

[Deleted member 79939]

I take it OP hasn't been in a real relationship before. I would be very surprised to find anyone who think that way once they have been married or at least be in a long term relationship. You don't have a real relationship with an MPA/SP unless you are seeing them without paying them, and even then it can very well be a FwB situation.

WHY MOST FWB ... are drinkers or Saturday and Sunday drug users.

 

[Deleted member 79939]

is this cheating when she breaks her diet?