Chat Anyone else thought about leaving spouse or SO for MPA?

[OG_funguy]

My wife will give me a massage and a HJ finish every day if I want such a thing.

But, truly, that is boring, imho.

I want nasty, dirty, porn style sex. I have never been to a massage parlour that didnt offer sex.

Really? I call BS.

You said your wife is lazy as hell and yet, she would give you a massage everyday...yeah right. Hj maybe as that is less work.

Nothing wrong with you enjoying PSE, you're probably still a young dude in your 30's. But for many of us, your preferences change as you age and/or have life altering events.

 

[therealcole]

My wife will give me a massage and a HJ finish every day if I want such a thing.

But, truly, that is boring, imho.

I want nasty, dirty, porn style sex. I have never been to a massage parlour that didnt offer sex.

For some of the girls that you promote then the nasty part would be their looks. Are you still telling us that you are married to that fat chick that broke your exercise ball? Still a tool.

 

[Mr.YMMV]

If ppl actually think that your side mpa chick will always be submissive and give you head and a fuck every waking hour then you are sadly mistaken and must snap out of it.

Look what happened to Johnny Depp, dumps his long time partner for this young pretty chick that probably whispered cim, deepthroat and bdsm and goes ahead with marriage. Not even 2yrs files for divorce and you see how fucked up they had become. Yes divorce happens but stick to what you are familiar with. You think she not contemplating in dumping your ass after she gets bored of you?

 

[OG_funguy]

Best massages I’ve ever had were from non-RMT ladies. Most though were well trained, either back in Asia or here after getting into the Biz.

Exactly, many were formally trained at some point and usually get introduced to this business by friends convincing them to give it a try. The lure of easy money, flexibility and in some cases not many other viable alternatives is what keeps them around.

 

[Ursus]

My wife fell off the Exercise Ball. She didnt break it. And I am in my 40s, not 30s.

Angela provides a DGFE - Disinterested Girfriend Experience
My wife provides an EWE - Ex-wife Experience.

I love fucking Angela. Her pussy is so tight and her lips are so luscious. I dont even mind the attitude she gives me because her body is near perfect.

Sigh.

 

[Ursus]

If I could start life over again, I would like to have grown up in Macau and have met Asian Angela BEFORE she became a prostitute. Then, I would have married her, started a family and been able to fuck her every day. Imagine that? Me, being able to fuck Angela every day, every week, every month for my entire life.

And I would have conditioned her early on to not lie every time she opens her mouth.

She would be near perfect if I could have molded her into the girl I needed.

Sigh.

 

[AJ007]

If....the magic word bro...

 

[smallpantieshk]

How long did your fling last? Did you ever do extreme stuff like go on vacation together or was it mostly in town dates?

How did it end?

Overall it was a dick move on my part.

I met her in Zhuhai (the Chinese city that borders Macau). She worked for an actual massage place, fully clothed, only HJ. I took advantage of the fact she wanted out of the industry. She knew I was Canada/HK dual citizenship and I used that to my advantage.

The fling was only a week. I took her to Hong Kong, all expenses on me. In total it costed me approximately $1500 for the week. She was not super demanding and was okay with AirBnb and non fancy local restaurants

 

[OG_funguy]

Overall it was a dick move on my part.

I met her in Zhuhai (the Chinese city that borders Macau). She worked for an actual massage place, fully clothed, only HJ. I took advantage of the fact she wanted out of the industry. She knew I was Canada/HK dual citizenship and I used that to my advantage.

The fling was only a week. I took her to Hong Kong, all expenses on me. In total it costed me approximately $1500 for the week. She was not super demanding and was okay with AirBnb and non fancy local restaurants

Well, learn and move on, right...

 

[cupcrazy]

i am going to say no. For me it is the trust issue with mpa.

 

[OG_funguy]

i am going to say no. For me it is the trust issue with mpa.

I'm not saying to do it...but just whether it has ever crossed your mind wondering what it would be like?

 

[Roy69]

Do we have a new michael here or is it michael

 

[MrBnH]

I'm not saying to do it...but just whether it has ever crossed your mind wondering what it would be like?

There is that moment of fantasy in the room when one wishes this feeling could go on every day for the rest of my life, but the reality is that a good wife is hard to find and the MPA is only a fantasy break. I would not leave my wife, but if anything so much happened to her or she left me, then I think I would be moving to the Phillipines or Thailand and having the grandest time of my life with whatever time is left ! When I was younger and single, I dated strippers and bikini models and had wild sex all the time, but while fun, it just cost me money and I was not getting ahead (just head) and something was missing.....reality. Keep the fantasy in the fantasy, unless you win the lottery !

 

[OG_funguy]

There is that moment of fantasy in the room when one wishes this feeling could go on every day for the rest of my life, but the reality is that a good wife is hard to find and the MPA is only a fantasy break. I would not leave my wife, but if anything so much happened to her or she left me, then I think I would be moving to the Phillipines or Thailand and having the grandest time of my life with whatever time is left ! When I was younger and single, I dated strippers and bikini models and had wild sex all the time, but while fun, it just cost me money and I was not getting ahead (just head) and something was missing.....reality. Keep the fantasy in the fantasy, unless you win the lottery !

Amen!

 

[cupcrazy]

I'm not saying to do it...but just whether it has ever crossed your mind wondering what it would be like?

when i visit a MPA, I am single. So technically I am not cheating.

 

[smallpantieshk]

Really? I call BS.

You said your wife is lazy as hell and yet, she would give you a massage everyday...yeah right. Hj maybe as that is less work.

Nothing wrong with you enjoying PSE, you're probably still a young dude in your 30's. But for many of us, your preferences change as you age and/or have life altering events.

You do realize he is borderline insane right? I'm surprised he hasn't been admitted yet.

 

[smallpantieshk]

There is that moment of fantasy in the room when one wishes this feeling could go on every day for the rest of my life, but the reality is that a good wife is hard to find and the MPA is only a fantasy break. I would not leave my wife, but if anything so much happened to her or she left me, then I think I would be moving to the Phillipines or Thailand and having the grandest time of my life with whatever time is left ! When I was younger and single, I dated strippers and bikini models and had wild sex all the time, but while fun, it just cost me money and I was not getting ahead (just head) and something was missing.....reality. Keep the fantasy in the fantasy, unless you win the lottery !

Words of wisdom.

 

[OG_funguy]

Generally speaking, I think the outcome from such a move would almost always be catastrophic. That being said, I’m a guy who is pretty bored and unhappy. Escapism is how I get through life.

Anyway, here’s my approach: Visiting an SP or MPA once in a while is just not enough fuel to feed my fantasy world.

I have a regular MPA who i see a few times a week. We tell each other we love one another, text each other everyday, buy gifts for one another, and talk vaguely about our future life together. I spend a lot of time in a fantasy world thinking about her.

When I notice that I’m going to far, I make a brief stop to reality to take stock of what is really going on, what a disaster leaving my wife would really be, and how the MPA and I would never be compatible in real life. I back off a bit, reduce my visits and communications, and go see some other MPAs for awhile.

I love this arrangement. It’s been two years. The first 6 -8 months was regular visits where I would get a HJ and grab her tits over her clothes. Slowly, things escalated, and we started fucking. She was only 19 when I started seeing her. I was shocked at how sexually inexperienced she was, given that she gives HJs for a living.

The relationship continues to evolve and escalate. I fuck her raw now, which is pretty dangerous. Who knows how many guys is she fucking like that. In my fantasy world, I’m the only one. In reality, it’s probably 50-50.

Anyway, there is zero chance that this will become a real relationship. I’m hoping to get another year out of this. It has vastly improved my life.

Like you, I imagine how it would be like just for fun but I know it's only fantasy thinking and the reality would never be as good as the fantasy.

You are very fortunate to have a fave like that. Keep her around for as long as she makes you happy

 

[Ursus]

If you hate yourself and have low self-esteem, then yes, leave your spouse for a sex-worker. I would love to meet the guy or guys that make such a decision.

It would be laughable beyond belief.

A sex worker is a Predator - a con artist of the highest order.

You want to leave someone who promised to love you until 'death do us part' for a woman who sucks 6 cocks a day and only associates with you because you pay her by the hour?

Think about it, even for a nano-second:

A sex worker, quite literally, sucks 2,000 cocks per year.
She will suck any cock on any man who pays her just 5 twenty-dollar bills.
And you are going to invest your future in that woman?

Bahahahahah !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

You have to be fucking kidding me !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

You understand, don't you, that there is a valid reason as to why sex workers are referred to as 'Whores'?

 

[OG_funguy]

If you hate yourself and have low self-esteem, then yes, leave your spouse for a sex-worker. I would love to meet the guy or guys that make such a decision.

It would be laughable beyond belief.

A sex worker is a Predator - a con artist of the highest order.

You want to leave someone who promised to love you until 'death do us part' for a woman who sucks 6 cocks a day and only associates with you because you pay her by the hour?

Think about it, even for a nano-second:

A sex worker, quite literally, sucks 2,000 cocks per year.
She will suck any cock on any man who pays her just 5 twenty-dollar bills.
And you are going to invest your future in that woman?

Bahahahahah !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

You have to be fucking kidding me !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

You understand, don't you, that there is a valid reason as to why sex workers are referred to as 'Whores'?

You have said countless times that ALL women are predators and will use their pussy to get what they want...why make a distinction now?