Chat Anyone else thought about leaving spouse or SO for MPA?

[OG_funguy]

Ok, before anyone starts with the snide remarks, I'm not actually considering this. But I would be lying if I said it never crossed my mind. In fact, with a couple of my faves that I'm close to, I've ran through pretty elaborate what-if scenarios when imagining what life would be like if I was to be with them.

A couple of them are at extreme ends of the spectrum where one lives a very simple life and not into materialistic things at all. Another lives a crazy extravagant life and can easily blow tens of thousands of dollars a week when she feels like it.

Anyways, I can't be the only one who has thought about this. Anyone else? If yes, what has stopped you from acting on it?

Or better yet, has anyone actually gone through with it and what was the outcome?

 

[hangul99]

Seeing an MPA on the side is not representative of real life.

If you're going to leave your spouse. Leave because you are not happy and you dont see a future. Never leave for a side chick.

 

[AJ007]

If I had to leave my wife, she would have to be giving me hell everyday and doing my head in every moment I’m with her..if I had to get back in the frying pan it would be a careful choice..and I’ll have to be loaded...

 

[Hangdai]

I’m sure every single guy on here has dreamed about leaving their family, opening a legit spa with their mpa gf , and running the front desk while she fucks half the city on the other side of drywall.

Nah, that kind of drama only happens in the movies.

 

[krayjee]

I’m sure every single guy on here has dreamed about leaving their family, opening a legit spa with their mpa gf , and running the front desk while she fucks half the city on the other side of drywall.

Nah, that kind of drama only happens in the movies.

Nah..nah..not in the movie. There are a few of them. One is in East Beaver where your fav Lucy works and another one is one of my ex fav one you know who. Not the drama queen. Those guys must have really big hearts.

 

[Polarvortex]

Grass is never greener on the other side.

Ive had many 5star bbbjs and HJs that wud make me leave my wife but once u become a couple with any girl...they also change.
Expectations change... life changes....

Keep the side at your side. Dont make it your main.
If anything leave ur cirrent wife and be happy

 

[sy barite]

Leaving for one, never. For all of them....maybe.

 

[LazyBoy]

That my friend is the rabbit hole. The thought that you can have it all. Youth, beauty and hot sex. Who needs love right? Unlike the hobby though, going down that path won't bring you any happy endings. Keep it compartmentalized.

 

[OG_funguy]

I’m sure every single guy on here has dreamed about leaving their family, opening a legit spa with their mpa gf , and running the front desk while she fucks half the city on the other side of drywall.

Nah, that kind of drama only happens in the movies.

C'mon Hanggy - it must have crossed your mind before, no?

One thing I'm pretty sure of. If I were to be single again for whatever reason, I would have MPAs over all the time. As long as they weren't bringing guys over, they could hang out for as long as they want. It would be like the playboy mansion but with MPAs instead LOL.

 

[OG_funguy]

Seeing an MPA on the side is not representative of real life.

If you're going to leave your spouse. Leave because you are not happy and you dont see a future. Never leave for a side chick.

Agreed...unfortunately that "fantasy" line is a bit blurry for this bloke and I enjoy imagining how different scenarios would play out in real life.

 

[OG_funguy]

Nah..nah..not in the movie. There are a few of them. One is in East Beaver where your fav Lucy works and another one is one of my ex fav one you know who. Not the drama queen. Those guys must have really big hearts.

I don't know about big hearts...maybe they like the money or can't get any other girls so have to settle.

Nah, if I did end up with an MPA, she would have to quit the business for sure. Plus, I would only consider MPAs that have a very restrictive menu in the first place.

 

[OG_funguy]

That my friend is the rabbit hole. The thought that you can have it all. Youth, beauty and hot sex. Who needs love right? Unlike the hobby though, going down that path won't bring you any happy endings. Keep it compartmentalized.

You're right...but sucks that we can't have it all. We only live once, right?

 

[big.sleeze]

I would never trust a whore enough to date one, let alone leaving a SO for one. The last gf i had was a controllling crazy ass bitch who was impossible to make happy. But i never considered leaving her to start dating a mpa or sp. I left her because she took me for granted and i saw no future with her. The bitch started out looking like she was gf/wife material.And she still ended up being crazy over time. These whores all suffer from drug abuse, past sexual abuse depression, anxiety etc. They’re already crazy bruh, they just don’t show it in the room. Once you start dating one you will see her true colors. Never trust these scandalous hoes.

 

[krayjee]

I don't know about big hearts...maybe they like the money or can't get any other girls so have to settle.

Out of the two I mentioned, the first one like the money and bought the spa for her. The second one was exactly what you said. There is no way in hell he will be able to find a woman like that in his life.

 

[LazyBoy]

You're right...but sucks that we can't have it all. We only live once, right?

Exactly, we only live once so I believe that the quality of life overall is more important than the short term highs. With the hobby, we get to relieve the physical itch we have for young hot women, and we don't have to worry about anything long term.

 

[OG_funguy]

I would never trust a whore enough to date one, let alone leaving a SO for one. The last gf i had was a controllling crazy ass bitch who was impossible to make happy. But i never considered leaving her to start dating a mpa or sp. I left her because she took me for granted and i saw no future with her. The bitch started out looking like she was gf/wife material.And she still ended up being crazy over time. These whores all suffer from drug abuse, past sexual abuse depression, anxiety etc. They’re already crazy bruh, they just don’t show it in the room. Once you start dating one you will see her true colors. Never trust these scandalous hoes.

You're right that the vast majority of them must be a bit "crazy" to be in this business in the first place but there surely has to be a couple of somewhat "normal" ones out there, right?

 

[big.sleeze]

You're right that the vast majority of them must be a bit "crazy" to be in this business in the first place but there surely has to be a couple of somewhat "normal" ones out there, right?

i have had sugar daddy relationships with a few mpas over the last couple years. I pursued that with those certain girls because they were super chill in the room and seemed normal. during casual conversations each one eventually started opening up with personal information about their lives and past, it was clear that they were all emotionally damaged by either their parents or past boyfriends. They fuck random guys to gain validation and boost their self esteem. eventually turn to drugs to cope with their pain and ended up working as an mpa to support their habit. Bitches can’t get over that emotional damage. You don’t need that shit in your life. Trust me on that

 

[luvnewpussy]

Leaving your reality ..to try to live in your fantasy..that never works out..if you want to leave ..leave for another women ..but to leave and go to a MPA...your fucked also

Sorry but if your asking about it..your thinking about it..your happiness is not within anyone or between anyone's legs..After 2 yrs of dating the MPA you will see shes just another emotional wreck..

All the fun you had that made you leave your spouse soon disappears and she just becomes a more complicated bag of screws you have manage.

 

[Hangdai]

You're right that the vast majority of them must be a bit "crazy" to be in this business in the first place but there surely has to be a couple of somewhat "normal" ones out there, right?

Nope, only varying degrees of drama and crazy, lol
Once you start hearing about these ladies damaged past, that's the time to run for cover.
Even if you have a big heart or try to help them, it will always backfire on you.

 

[Davelovezcurves]

You're right that the vast majority of them must be a bit "crazy" to be in this business in the first place but there surely has to be a couple of somewhat "normal" ones out there, right?

The normal one's are probably super restrictive. Don't think there are any normal ones. If she fucking and sucking 8+ guys a day that's not normal for most women.