"We pay for mouths and legs to open"...not necessarily.
I think the main difference is you (and a lot of guys here) are mainly paying for sex. Don't forget this is a "massage" forum and not a sex forum. When I re-entered this hobby a few years ago, I was not looking for sex (I still don't). I do a lot of exercise and my work causes me to have lots of various muscle ache. RMT sessions are not cheap and insurance (at least mine) is only good for about 3 sessions a year and I need much more than that. Thus, the transition back to AMPs...mainly for the massage but of course the HE was nice too. With basic extras, a semi legit session is about the same price as an RMT session and you would be surprised how good of a massage some of these ladies can do (heck, I know three that are actually RMTs and another who is studying to become one). Yeah, things have progressed since then but I still haven't ventured to holistic places or SPs. My point is, don't assume everyone is in this hobby with the same objectives as you. Not judging anyone on here but just being real...