I cant figure which one it is:
Puer Arternum -- In Jungian psychology, the term โ
puerโ is used to describe an adult man whose emotional life has remained at an adolescent level, usually coupled with too great a dependence on the mother.
Or
Incel -- a
portmanteau of "
involuntary celibates", are members of an
online subculture who define themselves as unable to find a
romantic or
sexual partner despite desiring one. Discussions in incel
forums are often characterized by
resentment, misogyny,
misanthropy,
self-pity and
self-loathing,
racism, a sense of
entitlement to sex, and the endorsement of violence against sexually active people
Or maybe both!