There comes a time when you have to walk away...

[Pompal 09.]

I agree

 

[Ya Boy]

You're forgetting about the guys who think she's extremely overrated in every department, but "accomodating".

 

[TheMadHatter[Alice]TM]

Humble D and Little Lenny:

You guys are brave to post your feelings here.

No doubt you are young single guys who are still looking for a seductress/girlfriend/lover all in one. Take it from an oldtimer, it is possible, but the same rules apply to a relationship with an MPA or dancer or SP as they do anywhere else. Do not confuse business with romance. When you pay for service, that is a business transaction. Do not confuse it with romance.

It is possible to have a girlfriend relationship with an MPA, dancer or SP. But to judge whether it is real, judge it based only on what happens outside of the business place.

If you see her frequently and go out with her. She has you back at her place often or you have her at yours. You have wonderful sex outside of the business place (without paying) and she pursues you as vigorously as you pursue her. That is the real thing.

Also remember, in general, (remember, generalizations are limited) ladies who work in the sex trade, are more screwed-up in their relationships than ladies outside the sex trade. So even if you have a relationship with such a lady, it will likely be short and stormy.

Just my advice, do with it what you please.

Cheers

 

[erivida]

In the world of MP, it does happen that true love happens.
The MPA that work in the industry work there for many many reasons, some don't enjoy the work and would rather be doing something else, but there are some who truely enjoy it.
Recently I know of a MPA who is working in the industry to pay medical bills for her father in China. She met a client who was from her home town in China, he went several times to see her.
It really seems that he understood why she was working in the industry, so much so that they are going to get married and she has stopped working in the industry.
So sometimes the feelings that happen in the room, can develope into something special

 

[Scotch]

I am not sure if the big T(ease) knows who you are Mr.D and it is noble that you take responsibility for your actions but I am not so sure that when things get to this point, that it is not the respondsibility of the other party to cut contact.

 

[cflb56]

I've never tried Tarah because I just don't find her sufficiently appealing physically. I prefer tinier women. It's a matter of personal taste.

Can anyone suggest any really tiny MPAs who deliver as accomodating a massage as Tarah?

 

[Mc.Zee]

Poor Humble D. I guess you fell for that line, "You're so special." and "I don't normally do this with other guys."...why do you think she is always booked up...I don't mind as long as she treats me like her one and only for the 1/2 hour or 1 hour that I book.

Humble D, I can sympathize with you if you were unprepared to handle such a gorgeous woman treating you to the best sexual experiences of your life. I'm sure many guys have fallen for it and paid for it with their hearts. Some take it better than others. Just move on and try to enjoy the moment and not the moments leading up to the session and after the session...when it's over, it's over until next time.

 

[d_r_siva]

Ok, after reading through all the responses, I decided to go see the big T. All I can say is that she is indeed a Barbie who really likes to spot pearls.

 

[R.sandals]

Okay, short, what do you mean by ...likes to spot pearls...pm me if it's not appropriate for the general public. Thanks.

 

[Spitfire]

What happens inside an mp is strictly a business transaction. If you are paying for a service, rest assured, it's business. Real relationships don't involve paying for services rendered. I'm sure mp's have relationships like everyone else, however this should not be confused with what goes on in an mp. I've on occasion been invited by an mpa to meet outside of the mp environment. This could signal something else, but even these signals you have to be sure of.
blu.

 

[iTz dEE]

And if you end up at her place or yours for a late night massage and she expects $$ for it...guess what, it's back to business. Any time $$ is exchanged for services rendered, you are considered a client again.

 

[SandToes Studios]

Tarah is my fav also but there are other MPA who are as accomodating or at least very very close. Some even accomodating now that I think of it.

 

[Lorrie Anderson]

It's very easy to confused fantasy from reality. We all share this hobby because it allows us to fulfill the part of our lives that isn't real. It gives us a brief moment to escape from the stress we must deal with day to day. When we try to cross fantasy into reality, we are almost certain to encounter disappointment. Move on and don't blame yourself for what has happened becaused it has happened to all of us.
dannyboy

 

[Spicy Taco Breath]

do you really think any of the ladie$ give a f*ck. Once your $e$$ion is over, in come$ the next guy and the charade begin$ anew.

 

[Super Hot Brazilian Girl!]

Only one thing in this thread pisses me off - this latent feeling from some of you fuckheads that MPA's are somehow not "good enough" to be your "real" girlfriends or wives.

Fuck you.

It's a job. All jobs involve whoring. The only variables are the skills utilized and the price paid.

 

[cool_is_sexy]

agreed !

 

[lovelylady]

While some of the MP hobbyists are struggling with separating fantasy from reality, many MPA walk into a session with a different mind set.

I recall sitting by myself in a SC in the US overhearing a dancer sitting not far from me, who just started her evening shift, kind of talking to herself out loud "It'll be a $1000 night ! It is going to be a $1000 night" while pumping her fist.

Ego, competitiveness, etc could be important factor for their performance.
Having a pretty face, nice body, just makes everything easier. But we all fall for that, don't we ?

 

[Charma]

dfk_needed,

I'm not giving up on Tarah yet and don't think I will until I leave the hobby outright or she leaves.

To expand (or maybe sidetrack) on Kracker's statement:

I think Tarah's great. She is worthy of being anybody's "girlfriend" or "wife", just as worthy as many other attendants out there. Which single (or maybe even a few attached) guys would not agree to date or marry an Alexis, Cameron, etc..... if given the chance - very few. I too find Tarah "accomodating", but that in no way implies anything extra - this is still HFH and rules are rules. I've never asked her out by the way but wouldn't turn down the opportunity if presented sincerely - I enjoy the moment then leave.

This shouldn't be Tarah bashing because somebody fell too hard for her and the feelings weren't reciprocated. Yes, there are other attendants out there and I would suggest seeing several and rotate between them (I do) but that doesn't mean we should boycott seeing Tarah.

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Once again, Good Luck Humble D. Take a break from this and rethink the hobby.

 

[LuvInLust]

Humble, as you know from before, you have my encouragement. It will be tough at first, but persevere my friend.

 

[Mat]

In GENERAL, if you find yourself starting to think of any stripper/MPA/SP in a way that involves your heart - RUN AS FAST AS YOU CAN! Don't make life harder than it needs to be.