Chat The evolution of a hobbyist

[UsefulIdiot]

Seriously guys, if you told your SO, or girlfriend lack of sex was driving you to others. Do u not think she would pay attention and change???. Or by not telling her does this give you the excuse to wander....

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From the outside a lot of marriages look weird. We all make our own deals. After menopause my wife lost all interest in sex. When she felt the pressure from me she told me to see other women, on the condition that she never found out about it. I did not act on this for ten years. I do not want to leave my wife, but I do not want to live without sex.

 

[squirrelhunter1]

Let me tell you about my girlfriend. Old school Chinese. Have been with her 12 years. Even when I lived with another woman. She somehow adores me. She always accuses me of seeing other women , yet next week she is calling. I don’t understand myself. Her last text to
me is that me and my girlfriends should be happy. Next week she wiill Show up at my house for sex. I’ve tried not calling her for long periods of time, yetshe still calls me.
ive asked her to marry me, recently, yet she still can’t because of her kid I’m assuming. to be honest. She’s almost a stalker. But I deeply care for her. And I sense she does the same for me. It’s a different kind of relationship than what’s normal and if she moved In or married me. I would stop this hobby. But maybe it’s just better this way for us as she reminded

me of an old Chinese story about a Chinese woman and an american man, Texas I believe, They could never be together but loved one another For life. If i remember the name of the story, I will share it.

I understand and have come to understand legitimate reasons for this hobby. It's the illegitimate reasons that annoy me and strike fear in women and the dishonesty not necessarily the act. I thank you and for the numerous women who are on this forum for a honest reply who are searching for their peace about hobbying.

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[squirrelhunter1]

From the outside a lot of marriages look weird. We all make our own deals. After menopause my wife lost all interest in sex. When she felt the pressure from me she told me to see other women, on the condition that she never found out about it. I did not act on this for ten years. I do not want to leave my wife, but I do not want to live without sex.

And I totally support the hobby if spoken needs are not being met. Thankyou.

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[CU4FUN]

Nice!!
My experience was a little different but I like this - I started with bbbj fs right off the bat, got lucky and found fave 1st time - a few exploration rounds later - she's still the fave - found other # 1 service provider and now enjoying another level - will push the boundaries - now its personal and its a bitch trying to figure her out - ha ha - hope to keep it simple - as I was told long ago - KISS - KEEP IT SIMPLE STUPID - now keeping portfolio of women and stocks - oh no!! where has all my money gone?? - crap - now 2 girls texting me - come see me I'm working now - ohhhhhhhhhhhhhh

I can identify very similar

 

[xtc27]

We think we pursue sex just for pleasure, but we experience so much more - every woman is different, and our own moods and needs vary. If you have a high stress life then time with an MPA is a welcome break. If you do not get touched enough, MPAs fill that need. If you spend all your energy on other people, a session with an MPA is good "you" time. If you cannot find a GF or your wife has frozen you out, an MPA can sate that sexual need. If you are generally bored, the whole MPA scene is an adventure where good times are enjoyed and bad times become anecdotes and things to complain about. If you have a need to have many notches on your sexual belt, and your looks and charm are not enough, the MPA scene is a way to get there. And if you, like me, really treasure the occasional odd-ball experience, this too is to be had in the MPA scene. And there are so many more different types of experience - for example once or twice a year I crave something dirty (one of these days I will visit DT Maggie).

...DT Maggie just a human right type service... not dirty... I mean BBBJCIM=human right.

...dare u 2 disagree...

...sh/b avail by prescription

... now CTog.... potentially dirty 4 sure... anal not HR...since only 20% ppl ever every do it...

 

[UsefulIdiot]

...DT Maggie just a human right type service... not dirty... I mean BBBJCIM=human right.

...dare u 2 disagree...

...sh/b avail by prescription

... now CTog.... potentially dirty 4 sure... anal not HR...since only 20% ppl ever every do it...

My interest in DT Maggie is based on reviews on this forum that describe a dirty place with a line up. Nothing dirty about BBBJCIM - those women are saints!

 

[xtc27]

My interest in DT Maggie is based on reviews on this forum that describe a dirty place with a line up. Nothing dirty about BBBJCIM - those women are saints!

...well, Wuhan virus fears prolly thinning the herd... prime time!

...@ Mandarin today... pretty empty... no Chinese clients @ all...

...just 2 compare w/another popular well reviewed Chinese biz...

 

[pman]

Not sure if it's evolutionary phase, but I just found myself trying to spend as much time with one of my favs as possible. Probably till saturation that should come at some point..My apologies to all my other favorite MPAs - won't see you for awhile.

 

[OG_funguy]

Not sure if it's evolutionary phase, but I just found myself trying to spend as much time with one of my favs as possible. Probably till saturation that should come at some point..My apologies to all my other favorite MPAs - won't see you for awhile.

As part of the evolution, I strongly suggest you have a few faves...and continue to see them all and not just one exclusively.

 

[xtc27]

As part of the evolution, I strongly suggest you have a few faves...and continue to see them all and not just one exclusively.

....longevity in MPA biz... more like shortgevity... better to have few so u don’t hv 2 scramble when she retires... could b sooner than u think...

...still remember look on MPA face when I joked about still seeing her10 yrs f/now... not a chance...!!!

 

[UsefulIdiot]

And I totally support the hobby if spoken needs are not being met. Thankyou.

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And thank you, I appreciate a female perspective.

 

[loves to lick]

I agree - enjoy the rides - its a party and everyone is invited - bar is open!!

i hope more than just the bar is open

 

[loves to lick]

nothing better than a good DATY session, especially with a woman that enjoys it too

 

[UsefulIdiot]

nothing better than a good DATY session, especially with a woman that enjoys it too

Some like to give, some like to receive, I like both so it is 69 for me. Aside from the genital stimulation, 69 also involves a lot of skin to skin contact, The only drawback is cannot hear the woman.

"Sit on my face and tell me that you love me
I'll sit on your face and tell you I love you, too
I love to hear you o-ra-lize
When I'm between your thighs
You blow me awaaay"

 

[pman]

5 years ago I wouldn't probably notice this banner..

 

[Nrsytd]

Hmmm.
CIM Wellness Centre
I'd go.

 

[Toucan]

My experience was:

1, then straight to 6, skip to 8, then 7, in a matter of a few weeks.

And now lockdown is forcing 11 on me.

 

[UsefulIdiot]

was just going back through old posts and saw this again.. because I do relate and was wondering if there is anything you would change or add now that we are here 1 year later?

There are a couple of points I could add, but I do not know the best positions to put them in the time line: it is a lonely hobby and there comes a time when we want to talk about it to a friend or on a message platform; along the way you are sometimes surprised by things you like, for example I like kissing more than BJs, I like it when I sit on the table and the MPA gets on her knees to give me head; I think most of us have a moment of reckoning - you realize your fave does not actually like you, she just has you figured out and sees you as an ATM or someone in your personal life finds out about your hobby or you realize that an MPA you have been with is some kind of victim or you spend a lot of money and are disappointed.

 

[xtc27]

Interesting!
and realistically, we pay for the fantasy! and it's on us how far we let our thoughts and emotions run wild! I know I'm very guilty of that!!
but it is a hellva ride when you find the right girl.. and like anything in life for me, when the passion ends, it ends.. and then I move on..

I had a big passion for flying small airplanes and when I came here - started back in LA and came here to buttonville.. but weather conditions here suck for flying and my passion faded..
now I find myself getting that urge again and struggling if to give give up hobby or not? and it's pretty expensive to rent small planes, kinda like hobbying... but I absolutely insist on enjoying my life.
so many great things to enjoy in life and hobbying is just another part of it.. ha ha and you know those great times at oriental were great!!
you and durham region guy, summer 2019.. good times at oriental right?
and when i see @UsefulIdiot on MP, I know some intelligent thought went into his post!

And acceptance is the answer to all my problems
today. When I am disturbed, it is because I find some
person, place, thing, or situation—some fact of my life
—unacceptable to me, and I can find no serenity until
I accept that person, place, thing, or situation as being
exactly the way it is supposed to be at this moment.
Nothing, absolutely nothing, happens in God’s world
by mistake.

from the BB of AA

all the best

...u gotta monetize that plane hobby... do lessons, offer tours... let it pay for itself! ✈

... giving up hobbying?

 

[UsefulIdiot]

...u gotta monetize that plane hobby... do lessons, offer tours... let it pay for itself! ✈

... giving up hobbying?

I am sure some people would pay money to join the "mile high" club.