A woman doesn't have expectations. She cons her way through excessive demands. She is a taker and she knows that by asking for 10 +10, she is more likely to reach 15 than if she asks for only 10 in the beginning. Then, that woman can claim unhappiness when she is given 15 and her man will work harder and harder to give her 20 and 25 and 30.
A woman isn't willing to do what she demands of her man. Therefore, one can't assign the term expectations onto her in terms of her supposed 'standards'. It's a con game to the average woman. They will admit this to their girlfriends sometimes - 'what did you get from him?' is a common question they will ask other girls when 'comparing' men.