I have a thing for quotes so had to Google search. Lol, is this from AA?Ms Cat
Just wondering how our comments here on MP, affect other women that you have worked with?
10 years down the line your not in the biz anymore. Do you tell you potential partner what you once did, or keep that to yourself?
Here's a passage I like a lot.
"Acceptance is the answer to all my problems today. When I am disturbed, it is because I find some person, place, thing, or situation - some fact of my life - unacceptable to me, and I can find no serenity until I accept that person, place, thing, or situation as being exactly the way it is supposed to be at this moment. Nothing, absolutely nothing, happens in God's world by mistake.
"Perhaps the best thing of all for me is to remember that my serenity is inversely proportional to my expectations. The higher my expectations of people are, the lower is my serenity. I can watch my serenity level rise when I discard my expectations. But then my "rights" try to move in, and they too can force my serenity level down. I have to discard my "rights," as well as my expectations, by asking myself, How important is it, really?
My answer to your first question is yes, this board can affect MPAs. Outing an MPA is always crossing the line as I am sure the reverse would have equally detrimental effects. My advice is that I would always evaluate information online with a grain of salt. Some of my reviews are accurate and some are false.
For your second question, personally I would like to be truthful about my past in future relationships. Sorry future hubby, youโre in for one hell of a dinner conversation