1. One thing for sure you cannot force these MPAs or SPs. We are now in 'Me Too' hash tag generation. If I see any signs I walk away. No questions ask.
2. They set the price. On my part I do not negotiate. If I don't like the dollar amount I walk away. No questions ask.
3. If price is given then ask what is covered: BBBJ, LFK/DFK, 69, DATY, FS, etc. If I don't like the services on set amount I walk away. No questions ask.
4. As have mentioned on several replies you have to be respectful which you have indicated you are. It is good. But remember this is a business transaction. It has to be both ways. Remain calm and approachable. If you are being disrespected and harassed (mind you these women are strong it is the reason why they are doing this job in the first place), I walk away. No questions ask.
5. If you get this far then you are good for now. Unfortunately you cannot walk away anymore once you handover the money. Consider it as gone
6. During the session you have to abide to what you have agreed. Let us say no kissing. Then don't! But it does not mean you cannot try. You can but do it slowly or on a moment you are heating up. These women want you to finish right away in 10 minutes or less. If kissing is one way to have you aroused and be done then they will let you. Start kissing gently and gradually increased. You should be able to tell if she will allow you to continue or not. Don't force. A no is no in all given situations. I usually try and try until I get 2 to 3 'NOs' then I will cease. You don't want to end up having the entire session in full stop.
Key here as mentioned several times in other forums by our veteran hobbyists is to know and prepare to walk away. It is no different when we were growing up. Walk away and stay out of trouble.
What else can you do? Before you head out identify at least 3 places to go to. This will be your backup just in case you walk away. Go with your budget and stay on set limit.
I will get 1 or 2 bad experiences per year. I always take it as a learning opportunity but it does hurt your pride. It happens when we became complacent and thinking we already know what we are doing. This mischief I consider them a reminder and sometimes a sign...Hey maybe I need to take a pause and rethink my approach.
I hope we can enlighten you to either stay in the course, pause or stop indefinitely.
Happy Hunting!