This is an attempt to summarize the evolution of a hobbyist.
- The first experience – usually a handjob at an MP. Usually not that pleasurable, but a turning point.
- A little time goes by and there is reflection on that first experience – am I now a person that does this? Does it get better? Is it shameful?
- Several more massage sessions with handjobs. The hobbyist has more information about the paid sex world and is more comfortable with it.
- The hobbyist moves to the next level – nude reverse. This is a big step.
- After several months of body slides and hand jobs the hobbyist is offered and accepts CBJs.
- Now more experienced and more comfortable with being naked with a stranger and paying for sex the hobbyist is ready for full service.
- After the novelty of full service with random women wears off, the hobbyist has had many experiences, good and bad, and starts actively seeking out good ones.
- The hobbyist now has a few women he sees at least once every couple of months but is always looking for a new top level MPA. At this point he may also start seeing SPs.
- Next, the hobbyist spends most of his sessions with regulars.
- One or more of his regulars starts to get more personal. It could be real, or it could be manipulation, or both. If he is wise, he will nip it in the bud. But he will probably make mistakes, and hopefully will learn from them.
- Jadedness. There comes a time when the hobbyist has done everything he wants to, and it is no longer thrilling. It is now time to stop for a few months or more.
- Long term pattern – after a few years the hobbyist knows what he likes, where to find it, when to seek it out, and when to take a break.