MPA review of clients

[avg guy]

I am sure that this thread will not be a popular one with some, but I am interested to hear the feedback from the girls we visit. Names or aliases are not needed as I understand it may hurt your business but just mention "this one client" if you are willing to give feed back.

The intention of this thread is to learn what some of us are doing wrong and blocking the ultimate experience with you.

 

[thedirtyone]

I'm not a girl but here is some feedback:

This one client, sat in the chair next to me in the lobby. There was no one else there and all the seats were available.
This one client, who walked in to the MP right behind me, got first dibs at choosing the girl. Fucking bastard.

 

[snoopdoggie]

I for one would love to hear from girls' experience. Good, bad, fun or otherwise. No names need to be mentioned. It should be fun to hear what the girls have to say.

 

[Nipple_Lover]

I honestly want to if girls think licking my nipples is weird. Because while some will do it, there are quite a few who refuse and I want to know why. I'm young, fit and I'm not hairy so hygiene is not an issue.

 

[Pkrpnk]

Sp411 used to do a podcast where they would interview a SP. girls would talk about the good and bad. https://m.soundcloud.com/sp411podcasts/sets/sp411-podcasts
The sexy sounding host even went to a massage parlour to find out the fuss.
Wishes they continued it, as it was an interesting windows into their lives.

 

[JaimeWolf]

I honestly want to if girls think licking my nipples is weird. Because while some will do it, there are quite a few who refuse and I want to know why. I'm young, fit and I'm not hairy so hygiene is not an issue.

Not weird if you see Sharon Stone do it to Michael Douglas in Basic Instinct! About half the MPAs I've seen lick and/or bite my nipples without me asking. About 10% won't do it at all because they don't touch clients with their mouth. The MPAs' understanding of what is high risk vs. low risk for STD transmission isn't always scientific.

 

[imthedude]

It's a pretty common problem turn on, and it's so harmless, I'm sure they don't mind.

 

[Venus Milo]

I've been keeping an eye out on this thread hoping some of the other ladies would contribute while I build up some experience in the room. Guess I'll take the plunge.

I've been at this for a few weeks and while I have not seen an extensive number of clients, the majority of my sessions are pretty decent. But I have noticed a pattern where a good number of clients would have absolutely no idea how to play with boobs. They perform the radio dial, or the "titty twister" with my nipples. Or use teeth and ngaw at them. I enjoy nipple play but I don't want them bitten off. Stop using pornographic films as reference. One client slapped my breast hard because he saw porn actors do it and thought we would enjoy that. Maybe others do but I didn't and if he had asked, I could've told him.

Which goes to my second point, the number of clients who simply do things without discussing it. This isn't one of those heat of the moment things either. Some would "go straight for the goods" right off the bat without asking me first, pouncing on my boobs as soon as the bra comes off or trying to slip their tongue in me as soon as they flip over. One client tried to force their fingers down there even while lying on his stomach. Not necessarily trying to get inside but he kept trying to rigorously dry rub me there and got annoyed when I told him I didn't like it. Whenever clients behave as nothing more than savages, the quality of their session dips as a result. In this case, there was no oil for his happy ending

Lastly, there are a few clients who are more concerned with their ego than enjoying the session. Their purpose at the spa is to feel good about making me cum. To which I say, since you're paying me to provide you pleasure you should sit (or lay) back and relax and let me take care of you and if there's an opportunity where we can have some mutual fun, I'll let you know. This one will likely sting most with the readership here but I think I speak for a lot of ladies (at least based on the girls I work with) when I say most of you will not make me cum in a session, ever, especially in a span of less than 10 minutes. Even if we think you could do it, we may not necessarily want you to. So just let us stroke you instead of you stroking your own ego.

 

[Jmac]

@Venus Milo tbh. I figured pleasing the mpa to cum shouldn’t be a goal when I noticed the fake moans. But at the same I enjoy daty and want to get my moneys worth of enjoyment. Nothing done without discussion though.

And you mind sharing. What’s you ethnicity? (And where are you working? Pm welcomed)

 

[King Arthur]

I like Venus Milo’s attitude but why not just fake the O? I know a lot of girls do that and it’s just like part of the job. Personally I don’t care if the girl cums but for some guys it’s an ego thing like she said and if you can stroke dick why not stroke the ego.

 

[Hangdai]

This one will likely sting most with the readership here but I think I speak for a lot of ladies (at least based on the girls I work with) when I say most of you will not make me cum in a session, ever, especially in a span of less than 10 minutes. Even if we think you could do it, we may not necessarily want you to. So just let us stroke you instead of you stroking your own ego.

Thanks for being so open. This is something I’ve known for years from all my regular relationships through the years, as well as those ladies with whom have opened up to me on this topic.
It’s still humorous to think some guys who think that flicking their tongue fast on the pussy for 30 seconds is somehow the holy grail to a women’s orgasm. It might be in perhaps 5% , but in most cases, every women is like a combination lock, it just takes a while to dial it in, or in a majority of cases, will not , or can not happen with a partner ever.
But!
I think you are missing an important point here, a mans mind, not his cock is his biggest sex organ. Satisfying the cock feels good but satisfying his mind can be just as important.
Honestly, I never ever, ever, ever ask the lady “did you cum?” If the physical evidence and experience suggests it did, then I’m fine with it, if they actually tell afterwards, that’s fine too.
Should you lie if the man asks you? Well, that’s up to the lady, but honestly, seeing a happy lady also makes me happy, so when I’m thinking whom I’ll visit next time, will I choose the lady that “looked” happy or the lady that just told me to lay back and let me do my job?

 

[Roman]

Thanks for being so open. This is something I’ve known for years from all my regular relationships through the years, as well as those ladies with whom have opened up to me on this topic.
It’s still humorous to think some guys who think that flicking their tongue fast on the pussy for 30 seconds is somehow the holy grail to a women’s orgasm. It might be in perhaps 5% , but in most cases, every women is like a combination lock, it just takes a while to dial it in, or in a majority of cases, will not , or can not happen with a partner ever.
But!
I think you are missing an important point here, a mans mind, not his cock is his biggest sex organ. Satisfying the cock feels good but satisfying his mind can be just as important.
Honestly, I never ever, ever, ever ask the lady “did you cum?” If the physical evidence and experience suggests it did, then I’m fine with it, if they actually tell afterwards, that’s fine too.
Should you lie if the man asks you? Well, that’s up to the lady, but honestly, seeing a happy lady also makes me happy, so when I’m thinking whom I’ll visit next time, will I choose the lady that “looked” happy or the lady that just told me to lay back and let me do my job?

This is well said.

 

[Hangdai]

What do you guys wanna know ? Ask away ! I will answer

Surely you jest my dear.
Very dangerous road you are venturing down.

As soon as the first guy asks whether you like big or small cocks, you’re gonna offend half the guys on here.

Now if it’s car repair related, you’ll make a lot of friends.

 

[Hangdai]

I thought we were asking general MPA questions not questions directly for me! :O

On that token though... a memo... if a guy ever comes in with a HUGE dick (I'm talking where even Magnums barely fit) and tries to ask for FS (which is off menu as an MPA), I almost cringe imagining the pain.

That is the correct answer! You’ve played this game before.

 

[Dotanuki]

I think courtesy, grooming and hygiene are top of the list. No doubt friendly attitude and a slow hand would be appreciated. Here's a question; what's preferred a small group of long term clientele or a large number of short term? The idea being you'd might be more liberal with the former over the latter.

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[thedirtyone]

why not just fake the O?

Maybe she's not a good actor. Whenever strippers pretend to be super horny, or when MPAs claim they came just from me laying a finger on them (a MPA once claim she came after 30 seconds of clit massaging), I personally find that to be a turn off. I get that it gives a lot of (foolish) men a great sense of pride but to me, it's patronizing.

 

[Sybarite]

Maybe she's not a good actor. Whenever strippers pretend to be super horny, or when MPAs claim they came just from me laying a finger on them (a MPA once claim she came after 30 seconds of clit massaging), I personally find that to be a turn off. I get that it gives a lot of (foolish) men a great sense of pride but to me, it's patronizing.

Totally agree. It just makes me feel like they think I'm stupid. Not a turn on!

God I hate it whenever MPAs start pretending they are verging on orgasm... at work... in a spa! It almost always makes me completely stop whatever I'm doing so I don't have to listen to it.

Honestly in many cases, rather than stroking your egos and validating your sexual skills, the faked orgasms are their way of getting you to move on to something else ("I just came... so sensitive now!") if not to signal time's up altogether ("I've come, I'm done, now it's your turn honey!).

Given the fact that we're paying – let alone the amount – it really makes a lot of practical sense just to make it about your own pleasure. Face it, that's why we go.

 

[Venus Milo]

I thought we were asking general MPA questions not questions directly for me! :O

On that token though... a memo... if a guy ever comes in with a HUGE dick (I'm talking where even Magnums barely fit) and tries to ask for FS (which is off menu as an MPA), I almost cringe imagining the pain.

There was one client who is pretty well-endowed and he has such an arrogance to him. He kept asking my opinion on it and no matter how many compliments I give, it wasn't enough for him. He looked stressed out that I wasn't mesmerized by his penis. Of course, I could be wrong and/or generalizing and that he's probably just an awkward guy with a big dick. But if there are any guys here who think that we would drool over someone super well-endowed, to be honest, I'm not really that impressed, especially if you treat it like it's the only thing that matters (hint: it's not).

Here's a question; what's preferred a small group of long term clientele or a large number of short term? The idea being you'd might be more liberal with the former over the latter.

Who says that long term clients mean we provide them with "more?" Personally, if I had the choice, I would prefer the small group of long term clients. Presumably this means we have an understanding of each other, they enjoy my company and what I do for them and understand what my limits are and are okay of said limits. A bond would develop, something that resembles a friendship. And as I know them more and more each session, I feel safer and more comfortable in the room because of fewer surprises.

Maybe she's not a good actor. Whenever strippers pretend to be super horny, or when MPAs claim they came just from me laying a finger on them (a MPA once claim she came after 30 seconds of clit massaging), I personally find that to be a turn off. I get that it gives a lot of (foolish) men a great sense of pride but to me, it's patronizing.

In addition to making gents like you feel bad, it eggs on the ones who actually believe it and gives them motivation to fool-heartedly keep going! "I made you came once, I'll do that again, and again, and again and try even harder next time!" And then these poor souls will do it to civilians and it won't be pretty.

Honestly in many cases, rather than stroking your egos and validating your sexual skills, the faked orgasms are their way of getting you to move on to something else ("I just came... so sensitive now!") if not to signal time's up altogether ("I've come, I'm done, now it's your turn honey!).

If I ever say anything along the lines of "Oh, you made me cum. Don't touch, it's too sensitive," it basically means "I really want you to stop touching me there and let's do something else."

On a side note, as I mentioned in the thread where I was seeking advice on becoming a MPA, I will not divulge or provide clues on where I work. Not here or through private messages.

 

[Sybarite]

Personally, if I had the choice, I would prefer the small group of long term clients. Presumably this means we have an understanding of each other, they enjoy my company and what I do for them and understand what my limits are and are okay of said limits. A bond would develop, something that resembles a friendship. And as I know them more and more each session, I feel safer and more comfortable in the room because of fewer surprises.

It's amazing for you to be on here and posting so candidly. Very helpful and much appreciated. These comments have so much more weight coming directly from a lady who works in the industry.

For me this is just further proof of a paradox: the most aggressive guys who push the hardest for milage and make extras their sole focus from the get go are frequently going to have the worst sessions, whereas guys who don't pressure the girls, let them run their sessions as they wish and prioritize making the girls feel safe, comfortable and human will end up having the best sessions by far in the long run.

Generally speaking you are going to have a much better time with an MPA who trusts you and isn't always feeling vulnerable and defensive. So the irony is that the clients who are most obsessed with getting all the same acronyms they read about here end often up being the most disappointed.

There is something to be said for going with the flow.

 

[Dotanuki]

I like Venus' responses. Very logical, and I'm of the same opinion. This is why my sample size is so small as I prefer a good "business relationship" over variety.

Just me.