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[felixami]

Terrifying! He didn't see me before I left. And I had a mask on (we are supposed to wear them in the common areas - it's up to us whether we wear them in the rooms, where I work).

Clue: Name a SPA where the MPAs can optionally wear masks?

 

[BountyGuy]

Would you consider doing an in call service during this time? What are your restrictions? Do amps go thru training, this is how to give hj etc?

 

[OppaiLover]

Clue: Name a SPA where the MPAs can optionally wear masks?

Pretty sure that's all the high end spas. Masks are mandatory (although not always enforced) in the common areas but optional in the room.

 

[felixami]

Questions:

1 - Do you ever pretend the client is someone else to get through the session?
2 - Do you report your income to CRA accurately?
3 - Do you save your money?
4 - Do you waste your money?
5 - Are you educated?
6 - What is the highest level of education you have reached?
7 - Do you masterbate?
8 - How often do you masterbate?
9 - Do you have a BF?
10 - Could you be bi?
11- If you could do it all over again, what would you do different?
12 - If you won the lottery, would you still work at the spa?
13 - Do you like anal?
14 - Do you have any questions for us?

 

[DarkkoJohnny]

If they are not in an open relationship where him visiting spas etc hasn't been discussed, yes. If she knows and is fine with it, then no. I don't like lying about anything.
No. But I would not stress myself out over it and the moment I found out, it would be over.
Yes.

Would you turn down a client if you knew he was married/cheating?

 

[Deleted member 89502]

How did you know what to do in the room? Are you very sexual? Were you very sexually active in your personal life? How do you do sexual things for the first time with strange men? Did you have to drink or do drugs to get through the day? Were you trained? Describe the training please and thank you. Are you willing to do more than just dance?

I received training from the managers, and I added in some stuff from my own sexual experience. Plus I'm very flirtatious by nature (as long as I feel safe, of course). Coquettish is a word I would use to describe me.

I am very sexual with a compatible partner.

I have not been sexually active in my personal life for years, by choice.

I thought really long and hard before interviewing and had already done a ton of research and thought really hard about if I could do what was required and what long-term effects, if any, it would have on me personally. I set my boundaries beforehand and have
always enforced them.

I have never needed to drink or do drugs to work.

The trainings were:
- From one manager, how to map out a massage and bodyslide, timing, and how to incorporate dirty talk (I don't really use dirty talk, it's not my thing, but I have blurted some things out to my own surprise with one or two clients - stars had aligned).
- From another manager - massage training and a bit of talk about prostate massage.

That's about it for training.

I don't understand the reference to dancing.

 

[Deleted member 89502]

Define great session?

Everyone walks away feeling respected and satisfied.

 

[felixami]

Everyone walks away feeling respected and satisfied.

Respected as in everything was consentual? I would respect you if you let me fuck you but is that disrespectful?

 

[Deleted member 89502]

Would you consider doing an in call service during this time? What are your restrictions? Do amps go thru training, this is how to give hj etc?

I'm not sure. The idea of being alone in a stranger's home for sexual services makes me nervous. I think I would feel better with a hotel situation. It is something I have considered.

I'm fairly low mileage compared to what most men are looking for. No bareback, no violence. I think most men on these forums would find me to be very boring and unsatisfying. I know I'm not up to offering the wildest, nastiest session you've ever had 9 times out of 10. For me, it's more about a connection. If anyone has ever seen videos of the little redhead escort at that brothel in Vegas - I have a similar mentality.

I did not receive training as to the specifics of how to give a hand job - though I did receive some general training, see above. That being said, everyone is different. Some clients love being jackhammered, some like just the tip, some like just the shaft, etc etc etc

 

[asiabuffet]

Yes and no.

Yes because of exactly what you just stated.

No, because I'm still dependent on that man coming back and making the decision to give me his money instead of some other girl or just using it on something else.

Same reason I don't believe sex work is "empowering to women" - I actually think that's a very toxic perspective that keeps women trapped in something that should be used as a transition or to get out of trouble quick, and at worst can lead to mental health issues and in the case of women letting themselves get brainwashed into thinking this this is a "lifestyle", very dangerous situations with pimps, addiction issues, etc. Helps keep me in perspective. I was on track to be in and out in under two years before current events. I'm obviously a little off schedule at the moment...

And besides, I've had some clients who had all the power in the session.

Very little in life is all or nothing.

great answer. Thanks

 

[Deleted member 89502]

Questions:

1 - Do you ever pretend the client is someone else to get through the session?
2 - Do you report your income to CRA accurately?
3 - Do you save your money?
4 - Do you waste your money?
5 - Are you educated?
6 - What is the highest level of education you have reached?
7 - Do you masterbate?
8 - How often do you masterbate?
9 - Do you have a BF?
10 - Could you be bi?
11- If you could do it all over again, what would you do different?
12 - If you won the lottery, would you still work at the spa?
13 - Do you like anal?
14 - Do you have any questions for us?

1. No. If I have to check out/disassociate, something is wrong.
2. Skip a turn.
3. As much as I can.
4. As little as I can.
5. Yes.
6. College.
7/8. In phases.
9. No. I would never date and work. I answered this somewhat in another reply.
10. No. I have no interest in dating women, or having sex with them. I do enjoy sexual interaction with them in a work context. Something about the dynamic does it for me.
11. I would have invested my savings instead of letting it sit in a TFSA. If I had known then what I know now, I could have retired two years ago.
12. I would continue working a few shifts a week until my license expired and would not renew. I would let my favorite clients know I would not be returning and if any offered to strike up an arrangement outside of the spa that we could agree on, I would continue with that.
13. It's been a while. I have tried it and enjoyed it but it was one of those bucket list things for me, I think. No interest.
14. Not at this time.

 

[Deleted member 89502]

Would you turn down a client if you knew he was married/cheating?

Not my decision to make working in a spa. Discussing their family makes me deeply uncomfortable and I request that we not talk about it. If they are looking for someone to vent to about their family life, I am not the right girl.

 

[Deleted member 89502]

Respected as in everything was consentual? I would respect you if you let me fuck you but is that disrespectful?

Respected as in how you should treat another human being. It should be inherent until revoked based on unsavory behavior, in my opinion.

 

[Deleted member 89502]

great answer. Thanks

You're welcome.

 

[DarkkoJohnny]

Not my decision to make working in a spa. Discussing their family makes me deeply uncomfortable and I request that we not talk about it. If they are looking for someone to vent to about their family life, I am not the right girl.

Wait so girls are not allowed to turn down clients at a spa just solely based on their preference? Thats kinda messed up.

 

[Deleted member 89502]

Wait so girls are not allowed to turn down clients at a spa just solely based on their preference? Thats kinda messed up.

Not based on their relationship status. I would say the majority of spa clientele are in relationships. I guess a girl could say "No" if a client is married - I'm not sure how one would know unless you saw a ring on the finger in which case you've already gone out to greet. And your potential clientele would be severely reduced.

At my spa, we are allowed to skip hellos if we are tired, not feeling well, recognize the client or we are not comfortable with their type etc (for example, a filipina girl I work with doesn't stay with filipino men due to a fear that they may recognize her, I assume it's a tight knit community?) Not all spas are so kind. We are allowed to walk out of sessions if the client is being abusive. Not all spas are so kind...

 

[felixami]

I received training from the managers, and I added in some stuff from my own sexual experience. Plus I'm very flirtatious by nature (as long as I feel safe, of course). Coquettish is a word I would use to describe me.

I am very sexual with a compatible partner.

I have not been sexually active in my personal life for years, by choice.

I thought really long and hard before interviewing and had already done a ton of research and thought really hard about if I could do what was required and what long-term effects, if any, it would have on me personally. I set my boundaries beforehand and have
always enforced them.

I have never needed to drink or do drugs to work.

The trainings were:
- From one manager, how to map out a massage and bodyslide, timing, and how to incorporate dirty talk (I don't really use dirty talk, it's not my thing, but I have blurted some things out to my own surprise with one or two clients - stars had aligned).
- From another manager - massage training and a bit of talk about prostate massage.

That's about it for training.

I don't understand the reference to dancing.

Clue: Coquettish. A sophisticated word. You are an English major? Psychology major? Working on your Masters degree? Intellectual. Hence the post - you require mental stimulus. It's a big part of who you are. You are thirty-five years young with a degree in Psychology.

 

[BountyGuy]

I'm not sure. The idea of being alone in a stranger's home for sexual services makes me nervous. I think I would feel better with a hotel situation. It is something I have considered.

I'm fairly low mileage compared to what most men are looking for. No bareback, no violence. I think most men on these forums would find me to be very boring and unsatisfying. I know I'm not up to offering the wildest, nastiest session you've ever had 9 times out of 10. For me, it's more about a connection. If anyone has ever seen videos of the little redhead escort at that brothel in Vegas - I have a similar mentality.

I did not receive training as to the specifics of how to give a hand job - though I did receive some general training, see above. That being said, everyone is different. Some clients love being jackhammered, some like just the tip, some like just the shaft, etc etc etc

Thank you, sorry another, you might have already answered. How long have you been in industry? Are you close to 40?

 

[felixami]

Not based on their relationship status. I would say the majority of spa clientele are in relationships. I guess a girl could say "No" if a client is married - I'm not sure how one would know unless you saw a ring on the finger in which case you've already gone out to greet. And your potential clientele would be severely reduced.

At my spa, we are allowed to skip hellos if we are tired, not feeling well, recognize the client or we are not comfortable with their type etc (for example, a filipina girl I work with doesn't stay with filipino men due to a fear that they may recognize her, I assume it's a tight knit community?) Not all spas are so kind. We are allowed to walk out of sessions if the client is being abusive. Not all spas are so kind...

Whoa! What about human rights? Employment rights?
Clue: Your SPA has greetings still.

 

[hesperion]

She's giving some great answers and insight so for the love of God don't scare her off like the previous ones. Some of you dolts are getting close with the boyfriend, incall and pleading for identity nonsense.