Both you and Aristotle are right. We men have a tendency to take something bad, and make it worse. I am a culprit myself when I did that.
I was just joking around above. Those chatlines are not that good. Generally, men pay to get on it, while women don't. So you get a lot of young girls looking for some money to smoke their dope, and they will try to trick you, or worse yet, a group of them might try to beat the money out of you.
The problem I think is you are still feeling down. Going to the clubs and etc just does not cut it. I've been downtown on Saturday nights for the past couple of weeks, only thing is I get a major woody by looking at all the hot chicks.
Honestly, a girl dress really sleezy is not out to pick up. You might get the occasional and get a quickie, but most of the times the girl is out having fun teasing us men. You have to go to places where the women are more appropriately dressed, then you can have a chance.
If you are looking for long term and marriage, then go to church, do not pass go, do not stop at an MP, go to church, and you'll find her
The best I can suggest to you is, don't get yourself hoocked on a specific MPA. I know it might be hard, but maybe you just need a bad experience to turn you away from MPA's and get back to finding a GF.