Guys, please remember

[RealTalk101]

We're not all life sucking heathens, or at least we don't try to be. Some of us think of work as IN ROOM business and fun. Not every sp or MPA is out to clean you out of house and home. How often you visit us is your choice and yours alone. Of course we're going to be friendly and do our best to ensure you enjoy yourself and want to come back. Not because we intend on sucking your soul, but because repeat clients are, for the most part, better. Because we already somewhat know who you are and what you like, so it's a little less guesswork on our part, and it's usually more comfortable. Also because if we don't treat you well we'll be slandered across every internet forum by some of the asshats you've undoubtedly met here already.

Most of us work and go home, just like the rest of you. I'm not spending my nights sweet talking and kissing ass to clients via text. I'm busy cleaning my place and watching Netflix in pjs. You know, having a life outside of the industry.

Of course there are heathens working in this line of work. But going into evey apt assuming that will jade you before you've even started.

Your best bet is to pay for your time in room and keep it at that. Have your apt of fun and walk away until next time. If you see a provider outside of her business hours, then that's on you. If you don't know how to keep certain relationships on different levels, then that's a you problem.

We're not all out to destroy you

 

[Jmac]

We're not all life sucking heathens, or at least we don't try to be. Some of us think of work as IN ROOM business and fun. Not every sp or MPA is out to clean you out of house and home. How often you visit us is your choice and yours alone. Of course we're going to be friendly and do our best to ensure you enjoy yourself and want to come back. Not because we intend on sucking your soul, but because repeat clients are, for the most part, better. Because we already somewhat know who you are and what you like, so it's a little less guesswork on our part, and it's usually more comfortable. Also because if we don't treat you well we'll be slandered across every internet forum by some of the asshats you've undoubtedly met here already.

Most of us work and go home, just like the rest of you. I'm not spending my nights sweet talking and kissing ass to clients via text. I'm busy cleaning my place and watching Netflix in pjs. You know, having a life outside of the industry.

Of course there are heathens working in this line of work. But going into evey apt assuming that will jade you before you've even started.

Your best bet is to pay for your time in room and keep it at that. Have your apt of fun and walk away until next time. If you see a provider outside of her business hours, then that's on you. If you don't know how to keep certain relationships on different levels, then that's a you problem.

We're not all out to destroy you

I like what you're saying about paying for the time in room. But tell me something...

If you have a repeating client how would you feel if he didn't tip each time? Would service adjust and be less open?

 

[RealTalk101]

I like what you're saying about paying for the time in room. But tell me something...

If you have a repeating client how would you feel if he didn't tip each time? Would service adjust and be less open?

Never. I've had clients I've been seeing since I started in this industry, who have never handed me a dollar in their life, who I value as an amazing client. Mind you, they've never asked for any added features and I've never gave them.

I don't think a MPA should do things like that without having a discussion first.

Either she may be disappointed with the outcome or the client may feel pressured to tip when that's not what he originally had in mind.

 

[RealTalk101]

As for added features: some men say it feels too much like business, and can be a boner kill. To which I would respond: it IS business.

You wouldn't want to pay for a service you didn't receive, and most girls don't want to give services they aren't paid for. Get business out of the way, then have fun. It makes the end of the session a lot less awkward and confusing.

 

[Deyannis]

https://medium.com/matter/sex-is-sex-but-money-is-money-e7c10091713f

 

[RealTalk101]

https://medium.com/matter/sex-is-sex-but-money-is-money-e7c10091713f

I actually love her.

Like, I wanna pay her to kiss me.

 

[JEG]

We're not all life sucking heathens, or at least we don't try to be. Some of us think of work as IN ROOM business and fun. Not every sp or MPA is out to clean you out of house and home. How often you visit us is your choice and yours alone. Of course we're going to be friendly and do our best to ensure you enjoy yourself and want to come back. Not because we intend on sucking your soul, but because repeat clients are, for the most part, better. Because we already somewhat know who you are and what you like, so it's a little less guesswork on our part, and it's usually more comfortable. Also because if we don't treat you well we'll be slandered across every internet forum by some of the asshats you've undoubtedly met here already.

Most of us work and go home, just like the rest of you. I'm not spending my nights sweet talking and kissing ass to clients via text. I'm busy cleaning my place and watching Netflix in pjs. You know, having a life outside of the industry.

Of course there are heathens working in this line of work. But going into evey apt assuming that will jade you before you've even started.

Your best bet is to pay for your time in room and keep it at that. Have your apt of fun and walk away until next time. If you see a provider outside of her business hours, then that's on you. If you don't know how to keep certain relationships on different levels, then that's a you problem.

We're not all out to destroy you

This is true

Not all are pieces of shit like camilla @srm, yet the truth is that there are a higher percentage of girls that are and even the owners permit her behaviour. No other "business" would tolerate that attitude.
Further her counsel at trial suggested that her behaviour is the norm and is accepted by the customers and the industry.

Girls like her give the good ones a bad rep, that is the business and that is life.

 

[Ursus]

most girls don't want to give services they aren't paid for.

Proof, once again, that women don't like sex. No man would have that attitude in the sex industry - 'Well, I am not going to lick her pussy because she didn't pay me extra'.

 

[RealTalk101]

Proof, once again, that women don't like sex. No man would have that attitude in the sex industry - 'Well, I am not going to lick her pussy because she didn't pay me extra'.

We'll, not completely true. We like sex when we want sex. But at the end of the day if something was offered/pushed on you 24/7 for as many years as it is to us, you begin to realize you're better off making money off giving it.

 

[RealTalk101]

An men absolutely do in this industry. I rather enjoy reading male escort stories and they tend to think exactly like their female counterparts.

 

[Ursus]

Men don't think like their female counterparts.

No man would refuse an appt over a $20 difference in an appt fee. Women refuse appt requests all the time over a mere $20. And women don't have to do much other than open their legs and wait for 2 minutes.

 

[topo112]

Men don't think like their female counterparts.

No man would refuse an appt over a $20 difference in an appt fee. Women refuse appt requests all the time over a mere $20. And women don't have to do much other than open their legs and wait for 2 minutes.

2 minutes!!! Hahaha

 

[LostInnocence]

Why would you argue with this woman, she clearly cant even come up with an original thread title and had to copy yours lol.

Pretty sure noone gives a shit what some random sp/mpa thinks. If they wanna run they mouths all day they should go over to terb.

The only a reason a girl should be on here is to let guys know shes available or post sexy selfies.

Dont need your opinion on Iran honey

Ursus, please stick to one account.

 

[DickSlinger]

I actually love her.

Like, I wanna pay her to kiss me.

Why? She sounds like a bitch

 

[Ursus]

Ursus, please stick to one account.

Don't be so stupid. I never use multiple handles. I am the best. I only ever need one account.

 

[RealTalk101]

Men don't think like their female counterparts.

No man would refuse an appt over a $20 difference in an appt fee. Women refuse appt requests all the time over a mere $20. And women don't have to do much other than open their legs and wait for 2 minutes.

Some men would. If some old hag was trying to get you to eat out her musty vag for 45 mins and was trying to lowball you, you might rethink. That's pretty common for a male escort. Not all of our clients are young, clean studs either.

 

[Ursus]

You don't deserve young, clean studs. Most of you girls are 7/10s at best and more often you hover around the 6/10 marks.

SPs are less attractive than civie girls, not more attractive.

So, let me get this straight. You girls, on average, are less attractive and you get paid to perform sex, but yoiu still feel you deserve men who are of better standing than yourselves? You still think you should routinely trade upwards?

Ridiculous.

You should be thankful than any man agrees to pay you for sex because honestly, most of you are not pretty. Not slim. Not sexy.

 

[Jmac]

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You wouldn't want to pay for a service you didn't receive, and most girls don't want to give services they aren't paid for. Get business out of the way, then have fun. It makes the end of the session a lot less awkward and confusing.

So get business out the way meaning have the agreement/tip beforehand?

 

[RealTalk101]

Why would you argue with this woman, she clearly cant even come up with an original thread title and had to copy yours lol.

Pretty sure noone gives a shit what some random sp/mpa thinks. If they wanna run they mouths all day they should go over to terb.

The only a reason a girl should be on here is to let guys know shes available or post sexy selfies.

Dont need your opinion on Iran honey

I get it, a big bad SW hurt you in your nono zone. Man up and stop being a pussy.

 

[RealTalk101]

Why? She sounds like a bitch

She's smart though. I guess I have a soft spot for someone who puts that much effort into what they do, whatever it may be.