I'm a guy with 4 or 5 favorite MPAs. I seldom stray . I go through periods where I'll favor one over another but I love them all. Last week I visited one of my all time favorites who I've frequented for almost 10 years. I haven't seen her in 5 or 6 months, but when I did she reminded my why I have always liked her. Kind, sexy person, amazing body, and very dependable. Someone I've always had chemistry with.
Yesterday I called to make an appointment at the same spa with another favorite who works there. I usually try to avoid going on a day when 2 or more of my faves are working the same shift. Anyway I made all the arrangements and said my name before I realized that the person I was speaking to on the phone was the provider of the lovely session we had had last week. She said who she was and there was a really awkward moment where I was really embarrassed. I know lots of you will go on about how it doesn't matter, they are professionals, and it's a business transaction and all that, but I felt like I had been caught cheating.
In the real world of relationships that kind of 2 timing is verboten, a relationship killer. It's hard not for that value not to spill over into the world of long term MPA/client relationships. Very embarrassing. But not enough to make me change my hobby habits. It will be interesting to see how favorite #1 will treat me when I see her again. I'm sure she will be cool but I'll be a bit on edge when I see her again.
Yesterday I called to make an appointment at the same spa with another favorite who works there. I usually try to avoid going on a day when 2 or more of my faves are working the same shift. Anyway I made all the arrangements and said my name before I realized that the person I was speaking to on the phone was the provider of the lovely session we had had last week. She said who she was and there was a really awkward moment where I was really embarrassed. I know lots of you will go on about how it doesn't matter, they are professionals, and it's a business transaction and all that, but I felt like I had been caught cheating.
In the real world of relationships that kind of 2 timing is verboten, a relationship killer. It's hard not for that value not to spill over into the world of long term MPA/client relationships. Very embarrassing. But not enough to make me change my hobby habits. It will be interesting to see how favorite #1 will treat me when I see her again. I'm sure she will be cool but I'll be a bit on edge when I see her again.