Advice for Newbie and Avoiding STD's

[John7891]

Hello

I've been a lurker here for about a year now. I'm in my 50's, separated, and looking to try out the hobby. I'm not rushing to get into anything, perhaps a HJ or a CBJ at this point. I'm primarily interested in asian girls.

Not ready for FS, DATY, or DIGITS. I'm also terrified about the risks of STD's and crabs. I'm looking for a spa that places a premium on sanitization and cleanliness.

I like the girls at QQ, 99Kingzone, and the VIPSPA19 collection. Girlfriend416 might not be for me at this point, although I am open to it down the road.

Any suggestions? Curious to hear your thoughts on how clean these spa's really are. I've heard that the towels and bedsheets are not even changed on the tables between customers at a few establishments.

 

[Hornet]

So it sounds like you lie the Asian spas. I suggest easing your way into the hobby. Go to Suko first as that will be like dipping your toes into the water. Then move up to Just Relax, Shangri-La, Blue Nile and Golden Rosewater.

If you want to go the non-Asian route, go to Flirt. It’s a bodyrub so the massage is not the focus.

 

[L8T4dinna]

No glove no love brother

 

[xtc27]

Hello

I've been a lurker here for about a year now. I'm in my 50's, separated, and looking to try out the hobby. I'm not rushing to get into anything, perhaps a HJ or a CBJ at this point. I'm primarily interested in asian girls.

Not ready for FS, DATY, or DIGITS. I'm also terrified about the risks of STD's and crabs. I'm looking for a spa that places a premium on sanitization and cleanliness.

I like the girls at QQ, 99Kingzone, and the VIPSPA19 collection. Girlfriend416 might not be for me at this point, although I am open to it down the road.

Any suggestions? Curious to hear your thoughts on how clean these spa's really are. I've heard that the towels and bedsheets are not even changed on the tables between customers at a few establishments.

… stick w HJ & u can hobby 50 yrs nvr catch anythng … well, respiratory like COVID, sure, but no STIs … or crabs…

TBH, nvr heard anyone getting crabs these days… if girl shaves, they got nowhere 2 hide, & if u do DATY, e-z 2 inspect…

Places @Hornet mentions = very clean… cant go wrong any of them… Id add eSpa 2…. Shower in every rm, & girls use ‘m… luv that clean bleachy smells f/ clean towels… when I bike near a spa & smell that, gets me going … hard not 2 visit!

Fear of STIs gonna mess w yer funtimes… lotsa pretty girls @ semilegit / semiholistic places, stick w them unless yer fear goes away… seriously, hard 2 cum if yer worried…

When I started hobbying every wk @ semilegit place, definitely noticed minor illnesses… like sore throat, lil skin rash… just being intimate w girls who get intimate w lotsa dudes, even w/o fs, germs get passed around… sporting hazard… but it passes, esp if u keep fit, eat healthy, get enuf sleep…

 

[henricas]

I have been at this game for a long time, longer that I care to admit, Never caught anything even on the occasions I went bare back.

Stay away rom doubtful coochies and learn to be selective as to where you put it in.

starting slow is the key so you learn who is safe, remember that appearances are deceitful. A clean looking girl could be an STD cesspool

At any time you are not sure go see your doctor.

 

[John7891]

So it sounds like you lie the Asian spas. I suggest easing your way into the hobby. Go to Suko first as that will be like dipping your toes into the water. Then move up to Just Relax, Shangri-La, Blue Nile and Golden Rosewater.

If you want to go the non-Asian route, go to Flirt. It’s a bodyrub so the massage is not the focus.

Thanks for the info. I had never heard of these spa's before. Are they semit legit? How far are they willing to go at these places?

 

[John7891]

… stick w HJ & u can hobby 50 yrs nvr catch anythng … well, respiratory like COVID, sure, but no STIs … or crabs…

TBH, nvr heard anyone getting crabs these days… if girl shaves, they got nowhere 2 hide, & if u do DATY, e-z 2 inspect…

Places @Hornet mentions = very clean… cant go wrong any of them… Id add eSpa 2…. Shower in every rm, & girls use ‘m… luv that clean bleachy smells f/ clean towels… when I bike near a spa & smell that, gets me going … hard not 2 visit!

Fear of STIs gonna mess w yer funtimes… lotsa pretty girls @ semilegit / semiholistic places, stick w them unless yer fear goes away… seriously, hard 2 cum if yer worried…

When I started hobbying every wk @ semilegit place, definitely noticed minor illnesses… like sore throat, lil skin rash… just being intimate w girls who get intimate w lotsa dudes, even w/o fs, germs get passed around… sporting hazard… but it passes, esp if u keep fit, eat healthy, get enuf sleep…

Good info. What about crabs from the sheets? This is one of the reason's I'm scared of incalls. Who knows what's in there!

Heard of e-spa. I assume it's semi legit?

What's the risk of syphilis or herpes from a HJ?

Your right about the viruses. COVID of course is also a concern.

 

[John7891]

I have been at this game for a long time, longer that I care to admit, Never caught anything even on the occasions I went bare back.

Stay away rom doubtful coochies and learn to be selective as to where you put it in.

starting slow is the key so you learn who is safe, remember that appearances are deceitful. A clean looking girl could be and STD cesspool

At any time you are not sure go see your doctor.

I guess it's a lot of trial and error. What are your thoughts on incalls? Are they usually clean?

 

[WizardofStyle]

If all you're interested in is a good masaage and a hand-release or cbj, you should relax and enjoy the semi-legitimate services at Shangri-La, Just Relax, Golden Rosewater, or Blue Nile. All but Just Relax also slide toward the semi-holistic as well - each of them is clean and professional.

However...

You seem anxious as can be about this, imagining every possible disaster that might befall you. If you don't relax you'll spend your money for nothing but worry.

 

[John7891]

If all you're interested in is a good masaage and a hand-release or cbj, you should relax and enjoy the semi-legitimate services at Shangri-La, Just Relax, Golden Rosewater, or Blue Nile. All but Just Relax also slide toward the semi-holistic as well - each of them is clean and professional.

At this point your right, this is primarily what I am looking for

However...

You seem anxious as can be about this, imagining every possible disaster that might befall you. If you don't relax you'll spend your money for nothing but worry.

Your right about this as well. I guess being a germ freak doesn't help. Well said brother.

 

[henricas]

I guess it's a lot of trial and error. What are your thoughts on incalls? Are they usually clean?

Same rules apply for In calls, but as for the cleanliness of sheets etc. I can't testify to that, I know at MPs you get a fresh table cover every time but at in calls is a different game,

 

[Hornet]

Thanks for the info. I had never heard of these spa's before. Are they semit legit? How far are they willing to go at these places?

Suko is the most semi-legit of them all. A HE is available. Some more can be had with some girls but this is a tighter run ship so don’t expect much from Suko which is why it’s a good place to start out. Overall, don’t expect more than a bodyslide in most cases.

 

[luvdafurburger]

Suko is the most semi-legit of them all. A HE is available. Some more can be had with some girls but this is a tighter run ship so don’t expect much from Suko which is why it’s a good place to start out. Overall, don’t expect more than a bodyslide in most cases.

Suko gives good service, etc. but I found the walls were paper thin and not my thing to hear everything that goes on on adjacent rooms.

 

[xtc27]

Good info. What about crabs from the sheets? This is one of the reason's I'm scared of incalls. Who knows what's in there!

Heard of e-spa. I assume it's semi legit?

What's the risk of syphilis or herpes from a HJ?

Your right about the viruses. COVID of course is also a concern.

Msg places always change sheets btwn clients… @ least ones mentioned here… incalls @ hotels? Nope!

eSpa = full menu place… just remarkably clean, shower in every rm, they’re constantly cleaning surfaces & flrs… I hung around talkng w mgr a few times when it’s not busy & girls sweeping & mopping when it’s quiet… no wonder they’re so happy when a client arrives!

Syph/herpes … u can get f/ legit msg… or hj … or cfs… they don’t moralize… require skin2skin contact or skin/mucosal membrane… if u stay away f/ someone w active sores, chance = minimal, but not zero… if u don’t notice any outbreak , it’s fractions of 1%…

 

[Deleted member 79939]

No glove no love brother

Glove ?

 

[moolie]

Glove ?

Condom

 

[Deleted member 79939]

Condom

Oh but some use latex gloves