Cheating on your favorite MPA.

[OG_funguy]

I got burned and am getting burned by civie ladies actually not by whores but sometimes I think that there is a fine line between them if actually any line at all ! I am still alive though and acrimonious at times as you can see.

I guess I'm lucky and haven't met one of these cold hearted sharks you're referring to (not even a civie one). I have met a couple of 'players' but as long as you spot them, no big deal. If I get the sense the MPA is a player, I either don't repeat or repeat, have my fun and move on.

 

[Boston Man Chowder]

It's true that everyone is replaceable but the time, energy and money spent to find that diamond in the rough can be considerable. Much easier to just not screw things up with what you already have.

Believe me, I have seen a lot of MPAs (many that I enjoy quite a bit) but have only come across a few that are truly special, and I don't mean physically or mileage, but their genuineness, attitude and generosity.

Btw, lots of guys trashing the MPAs. No one said they were accusing anyone of cheating. This thread is about how some of "us" feel. And again, I think the OP probably meant embarrassed/guilty more than cheating.

Everything you said is true. It is a frustrating process of trial and error trying to find that diamond and her value lies mostly in her personality and chemistry with you. If she has both, everything will work itself out. These two things tranlate to great service and even more down the line. So, like you, I look back at my time with most of these ladies with fondness. I was only referring to some guys' posts here and in other threads who have been told by their faves that they shouldn't see anyone else. Of course, some are joking but others mean it and even keep tabs on their regulars with the receptionists and co-workers. Imagine that. It's your money being spent but you're not comfortable going to a spa on a certain date and time simply because you don't want to get caught. How silly is that? But it does happen. The women that we consider diamonds get downgraded into cubic zirconiums real fast with that sense of entitlement.

 

[snoopdoggie]

very nice girl.. she's my concert date when I need one! and my dancing partner when I need that too!! - any time I do any of these things, I call her..
short, with 36 DDD's (my guess) and a great ass.. fun girl, gypsy like in my eyes! 🕶
kinda like some mpa's I know.
ha ha

She sounds really sweet.
Would she be the type you can ask her to go to the Oasis Aqualounge with?

It's difficult to find a girl for a date like that. Most women are shy being naked in public.

But then again, some Women aren't. Several women there didn't hesitate to walk in the shower while I was in there.

 

[sexpuppy]

I'd advise everyone try to find relationship outside of MPA. It'd be comical if it isn't so sad. MPAs are good for fucking but you are asking for trouble if you actually want a relationship beyond being a client.

 

[Massxprt]

That's funny when they get mad at you....they do 10 guys a day and get mad at you for doing another woman at the same spa....1 woman got mad at me for something...wouldn't see me...so I made an appointment with the owner who was her friend....talk about burning a bridge...but damn it was fun while it lasted....

Yes, it's a control thing. I have had more than one who said I was "exclusive" FS. Two actually . Went on for years. But eventually I came to see them while they were "busy". (Love that universal term). Engaged in one of my favorite pass times while waiting on the room alone. Put your ear to the wall (literally) and see what happens. Eventually I heard both of them clear as day getting F'ed saying all the same things. One always let out a giggle when I busted. Heard her do the same.

Worst of it was one at least showered when she came in to see me and the other didn't . You grow up fast in this hobby.

 

[OG_funguy]

Yes, it's a control thing. I have had more than one who said I was "exclusive" FS. Two actually . Went on for years. But eventually I came to see them while they were "busy". (Love that universal term). Engaged in one of my favorite pass times while waiting on the room alone. Put your ear to the wall (literally) and see what happens. Eventually I heard both of them clear as day getting F'ed saying all the same things. One always let out a giggle when I busted. Heard her do the same.

Worst of it was one at least showered when she came in to see me and the other didn't . You grow up fast in this hobby.

Lol but dude, shouldn't you have a good idea by now how to tell which ones 'might' be telling you the truth. I say might in quotes because even if you think they are being truthful, there's still a very good chance they are lying...although it might be an innocent white lie as opposed to flat out leading you on.

For example, if you did fs after just a few visits (or maybe even on your first lol), it's almost guaranteed she's done it with others. If it took over 6+ months seeing her every week (including 'dates' outside the spa) and even then a herculean effort to get to the promised land, then yeah, there's a decent chance she's telling the truth. It's also easy to tell which ones get really horny and can easily lose control vs. those that don't get excited too easily and/or have very strong discipline and no clearly means no with them.

 

[Cool-Story-Bro]

Speaking of swinging, I can't wait for Oasis Aqualounge to open again.

How much it costs. Like giveaway arm or kidney expensive ?

 

[snoopdoggie]

How much it costs. Like giveaway arm or kidney expensive ?

I think it was $80 per couple, for the day. I guess you can stay until it closes for the night, at around 2 am or around there.

 

[Cool-Story-Bro]

I think it was 80 per couple.

So that's entrance fee, how much for woman inside ?
It can't be free inside.

 

[snoopdoggie]

So that's entrance fee, how much for woman inside ?

There's no prostitutes there. The men and women are all visitors, similar to going to a bar.

 

[Cool-Story-Bro]

There's no prostitutes there. The men and women are all visitors, similar to going to a bar.

Oh okay, got it.
So it's a kind of hotel/motel thing. You go with ur girl & $80 is for room/couch & then later chill out at swimming pool.

 

[Christopher Moltisanto]

Oh okay, got it.
So it's a kind of hotel/motel thing. You go with ur girl & $80 is for room/couch & then later chill out at swimming pool.

I visited years ago with a girl I was dating, we hooked up with another couple there - the 4 of us then grabbed one of the private rooms. The gals first had fun together while the guys watched; then we took turns with the gals. Pretty intense…

 

[Cool-Story-Bro]

I visited years ago with a girl I was dating, we hooked up with another couple there - the 4 of us then grabbed one of the private rooms. The gals first had fun together while the guys watched; then we took turns with the gals. Pretty intense…

Foursome ? 2 guys 2 girls. That's gay bro.

 

[Christopher Moltisanto]

Foursome ? 2 guys 2 girls. That's gay bro.

Only a closeted homosexual would conclude that, “bro”.

 

[AHK47]

Foursome ? 2 guys 2 girls. That's gay bro.

Your an idiot.

 

[Heyyoo]

I felt like I had been caught cheating.
In the real world of relationships that kind of 2 timing is verboten, a relationship killer. It's hard not for that value not to spill over into the world of long term MPA/client relationships.

My regular who I have been seeing 2-3 times a month for years asked me why I hadn’t been to see her for awhile. I admitted I’d tried another place (Greenway; it was good, but not great).

Instead of getting angry my regular jokingly chided me then gave me the BEST session ever. Win-win.

 

[Kawailuvr]

The "blindness" is insane. And the "blame" is insane. You've conveniently decided that these comments can ONLY come from a woman. A bitter woman at that. Talk about blindness and blame. Too much of that going on.

Either way you slice it, a woman is a woman. And a man needs to appreciate her, and cultivate the woman in her! Not to re-sexualize her for his own personal and very selfish needs, and leave her a shell of her former self. Most women will NOT tolerate this....and that is why men visit sex providers.

Let's get real.

Any male that follows this way of thinking should just go out behind the shed and blow his head off cause some whore will take him for all he’s worth ffs
Get your head out of your ass women of today are nothing more than savages