To post? or not to post.

[Deleted member 72001]

I hate starting this post, (and there may be one on page 47 or 83 that I can’t see/search for) but I am confused as to the true nature of this form. I am fairly new but hear goes:

My understanding had always been that it was developed to supply fellow...’fellows’ with a meaningful idea/review if a provider is worth dropping a few bucks on, in their opinion only.

So here is my thought:
I noticed that very few, completely legit, businesses post adds on Kijiji or Leo. That leaves the smaller, less official, providers and home offers. My thinking is, if you advertise, you should be open to criticism. I agree that going too deep into detail should be reserved maybe for a PM, but to speak of the girl who provided, her looks, her massage style, and the parlor, house, or basement that it took place in should not bring on comments to delete or ant backlash.

Every time I log on to hopefully see a good, non crude, post/review, I have to scroll past no less that 20 adds for the exact business we are hear to review on. Every time I post I cringe to the thought of what backlash I may get because I inadvertently stepped on someone’s toes that I may have said something to someone, but not me. I have had 24 appointments in “this” level of massage and have yet to be asked to not comment, post,...or even if I post at all.

Thoughts?? I am more than open to common sense reply that tells me I’m completely wrong in my thinking. (I’m ducking right now as I post this)

 

[Albert Johnson]

Don't worry about the toes you step on. They likely belong to a white knight who hopefully will be smart enough to move his feet out of the way next time. This is a review board. If the ladies don't want to be reviewed then they should be in a different line of work.

 

[MASSAGE.MAESTRO]

And I completely agree...if they don't have an rmt license or job at stake. Not sure what the big deal is: a lady asks you not to review...particularly about extras...you respect it and not review.

Is it about being a "white knight" or just about respect and human decency.
It certainly seems: there are too many on here....lacking these qualities.

If I suspect the reason she doesn't want reviews, because she doesn't care about the quality of service: tough luck...I am not holding back on negative criticism.

Again...people are going to do and say whatever they want....it's out of my hands.
But...I am just as entitled to my opinion, as anyone else. And that...is also what makes up a thriving, productive review board.

Hopefully...I can change a few hearts....along the way

P.s. nobody is stepping on my toes. I haven't been hurt or angry, in the least...no matter who wants to disagree, or attack me.

Annoyed maybe...

 

[Wills_willie]

Rook
You're dead on with your assumptions. I agree with your assessment and I too have never been asked not to review or to review a massage session. The subject of this site never even comes up. Keeping your reviews gentlemanly and honest with not too much detail is the way to go. And if critism gets thrown your way just ignore it, getting into arguments or disagreements isn't worth it. We're all anonymous anyways. Like Maestro said we're entitled to our opinion, just keep it polite.

 

[Johny2228]

This forum is for sharing info among us Bros so we dont get ripped off our hard earned money.We should speak freely and frankly.The Rmts don’t have a thin skin like some portrays it to be.They will rip you off withourpt batting an eyelid.Some whit knights think they are or develop a relationship with the vendors.Nothing is further from the truth.Its just business for them.They laugh behind our backs.
Read today’s Sun.” Do you think a girl likes to s... 20 guys a day””.
They or some of them have no qualms about ripping you off.The really ethical providers have no problem with the reviews.The argument about husbands and boyfriends reading is completely bogus.They all know what she is doing but closes 1 eye because she most likely make more than him tax free and driving Bmws and Benz with a LV handbag.Go to Holt Renfrew on a sale night to see all your Rmts with their boyfriend and husbands
In summary,Just keep on writing about your experience.It helps the rest of us


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[JWL1668]

Keep on posting,Please and Thank you
This is what this forum is.Some Rmts might be upset but such is Life
If you provide a service,you will be evaluated.Good ones have no fear

 

[luvsmassage]

post. please. as others have said - this is a review forum. i've accepted that i have to read through a bunch of BS quite often, and petty arguments etc. opinions are like a$$holes, everyone has one. but i am here so i get information about the ladies/places i'm interested in visiting. i want to know if its strictly legit or not. please don't dance around it. this forum wouldn't have been created otherwise. i want to know if lady was as advertised, if she was on her phone the whole time, if she had a ridiculous upsell, or if she was the best new VFM gem you've seen. i'm here so i don't waste my time/money taking chances on every ad that interests me. and to help others do the same. thx for posting.

 

[Deleted member 72001]

Often I wonder if I am too weak for this industry.
When I get a massage I never ask for anything other than a relaxing massage. If more happens, great!! If it doesn’t? Great! I never ask to touch, they offer, and I typically never haggle on price, unless it doesn’t follow “industry standards” but even then......eh. I just enjoy the ride and am happy to be happy and appreciative that this ogar gets some fun touching once in a while.
Maybe I’m inadvertently inflating prices because I don’t argue enough. I’m like the new guy at a poker table that hits on 19 and screws up the hands for everyone else.
If I ever start giving mean reviews about providers, remind me to give my head a shake......by giving my head a shake.

 

[ChaosFactor]

Everyone starts of somewhere and typically gets burnt by a greedy girl and then you start to harden up.
2 of the first "RMT" girls I ran into were Summer and Amy and at the time I thought they were the best! Now I look back and think wow what a newb despite that I am still in the hobby, have learnt many lessons and take it for what it is.

 

[Guy2013]

Everyone starts of somewhere and typically gets burnt by a greedy girl and then you start to harden up.
2 of the first "RMT" girls I ran into were Summer and Amy and at the time I thought they were the best! Now I look back and think wow what a newb despite that I am still in the hobby, have learnt many lessons and take it for what it is.

The fact that you hung around after those two speaks to your devotion to the hobby

 

[ChaosFactor]

The fact that you hung around after those two speaks to your devotion to the hobby

That's why I know how the bad providers stick around. For new guys you have no comparisons you think a girl stepping on your junk and another trying to get all your money is normal.
Luckily for me Ms V was my 3rd

 

[Cabinman]

That's why I know how the bad providers stick around. For new guys you have no comparisons you think a girl stepping on your junk and another trying to get all your money is normal.
Luckily for me Ms V was my 3rd

Lucky you

 

[Guy2013]

That's why I know how the bad providers stick around. For new guys you have no comparisons you think a girl stepping on your junk and another trying to get all your money is normal.
Luckily for me Ms V was my 3rd

Damn, just when I think I am over Miss V someone mentions her. How I miss that gal, the greatest VFM I have ever experienced

 

[Deleted member 72001]

That's why I know how the bad providers stick around. For new guys you have no comparisons you think a girl stepping on your junk and another trying to get all your money is normal.
Luckily for me Ms V was my 3rd

Wait!......stepping on your junk is the sign of a BAD provider?........ note to self.

 

[MASSAGE.MAESTRO]

I love the "stepping on your junk"comment....you guys are getting funnier than me. I need to step up my game.

My junk still has nightmares from Summer's House of Horrors!!!

 

[MASSAGE.MAESTRO]

Anyways...thanks for sharing your opinions and imput. Rbg, Btk, and others have had different opinions that have influenced mine. And.. I am really happy Chaos and Luvs have returned. (Sorry, if I missed anyone.)

On another note: I was on the verge of tears about New Zealand earlier.

Hate hides its ugly head...but has been evident on the bigger forums in Canada. People talk about Canadians and New Zealander's like: we are something special. We are just human beings, prone to hate, prejudice and/or ignorance. And sometimes, bitterness...turns these human qualities into vial, hateful evil thoughts, words, and sometimes deeds.

Take a moment, and remember our muslim brothers...in New Zealand...and the rest of the world. No one should have to live their life in fear!!!

 

[ChaosFactor]

I love the "stepping on your junk"comment....you guys are getting funnier than me. I need to step up my game.

My junk still has nightmares from Summer's House of Horrors!!!

So many memories! Her leaving to answer walk-ins while leaving you there bare ass as people walked by, answering the phone and texts, being told to hurry and finish as the next customer was already waiting.
Maybe it's the passage of time but there were some good parts, I never found her walking massage as painful as some, she always greeted you with a kiss and hug, was always wearing some type of lingerie it seemed and offered FS at a pretty affordable rate...
Not enough good to make me ever go back though lol

 

[MASSAGE.MAESTRO]

Surprised she offered full service. Even more surprised one would want that with her.

Yes...that was my first regular lady. So...good place to start...if u want sado masochism blended with your therapy. And...yes...the fact that I did feel better...kept me going back. But...it was torturous...each and every time. Plus...I think my dick still hates me, for not leaving sooner.

Eventually...saying no to her extras....made me feel like a second class customer. I still have echoes of her annoying voice in my head, saying "Hand, honey?" As matter of fact, I'm surprised I don't hate honey, after that...

As far as leaving the door open...I actually walked into the wrong room once, with a poor guys johnson swaying in the cool room breeze. She had a laugh about it, later...but I wonder if he ever came back.

 

[ChaosFactor]

Surprised she offered full service. Even more surprised one would want that with her.

Yes...that was my first regular lady. So...good place to start...if u want sado masochism blended with your therapy. And...yes...the fact that I did feel better...kept me going back. But...it was torturous...each and every time. Plus...I think my dick still hates me, for not leaving sooner.

Eventually...saying no to her extras....made me feel like a second class customer. I still have echoes of her annoying voice in my head, saying "Hand, honey?" As matter of fact, I'm surprised I don't hate honey, after that...

As far as leaving the door open...I actually walked into the wrong room once, with a poor guys johnson swaying in the cool room breeze. She had a laugh about it, later...but I wonder if he ever came back.

First ever RMT massage, standing at attention and she offered.. Yes little head took over lol She worked it though, the girl had some energy