Ripped off by an SP I trusted.....

[Guy2013]

I agree. The other option, well, it ain't pretty.

Should add too, I am sorry this happened to you but I think that we deserve to know who this is.

I too think that it would be good practice to expose the culprit. This issue is different from a YMMV situation where someone is unwilling to provide a name of provider that did something special, in this case an actual crime was committed. This is no different than if you had got mugged when meeting a SP

 

[Old Fart]

Yup. I'd understand if he left and THOUGHT he was missing money but not 100% sure. In that case you do not want to make accusation and put a dark cloud over someone but in this case he sounds like he was 100% sure.

It is also not fair to the other providers cuz overtime I go in to see one, I will always wonder if it was her. Yes, she may appear honest but OP said he thought the lady he knew was trustworthy in his case too.

I hate it when people post these stories and leave out the most important information. What is the freakin point. I'm not stupid where I need someone telling me to be careful with my money. I don't like leaving everything in my car either because it could be a set up and while you are inside, your car is being trashed. I need to know WHO does this shit. These threads are useless and bother me.

 

[distinguished.gentleman]

I'm with Jello on this. The idea is not to be paranoid, but just use common sense. Outing people on this forum could be a very sensitive issue. We could have unscrupulous providers (and clients) hurling accusations to affect good providers.

 

[Old Fart]

The idea is not to be paranoid, but just use common sense.

As mentioned already, I am already careful so this thread is useless unless it tells me WHO to watch out for.

The idea is not to be paranoid,

But it in fact makes people MORE paranoid because now they are suspicious of ALL providers.

Not if you are 100% sure and if not you should not be saying anything at all, never mind naming people

We could have unscrupulous providers (and clients) hurling accusations to affect good providers.?

How does Not naming the actual thieves stop unscrupulous people from making false accusations?

 

[Cabinman]

Take a pill man. If everybody just takes the required cash theres never a problem and I don't Believe Jello wants to ruin the girl in question. It's his call not yours

 

[Old Fart]

Not sure how a pill would help. I brought up valid points and questions. Just asking for answers in the previous post. Why attack me by using the old pill line? I'm not the one withholding important information.

Willing to put others at risk to protect a thief??? Wow. Where have we gone wrong in society?
Should try to become a politician. They love people who think like that !!

 

[Cabinman]

Not sure how a pill would help. I brought up valid points and questions. Just asking for answers in the previous post. Why attack me by using the old pill line? I'm not the one withholding important information.
Willing to put others at risk to protect a thief??? Wow. Where have we gone wrong in society?

It's Jello's call to make public the name.... He told of his experience to share and make us all more aware of what can happen when you let your guard down ... should be the end of it

 

[Old Fart]

It's Jello's call to make public the name.... He told of his experience to share and make us all more aware of what can happen when you let your guard down ... should be the end of it

And as I said at least a couple of times in this thread, most of us are already smart enough to not let our guard down but since we now know of a thief out there, this is only the beginning. Now we need to know who.

It's Jello's call to make public the name....

And let us hope he does the right thing, unlike his backers here. This is unfreakinbelievable. You guys will post blow by blow (pun intended) descriptions of a session with a lady with zero respect for her feelings, family situation etc and share "intel" as you like to call it but when you come across a thief, you want to protect her identity. Do you realize how STUPID that "logic" is????

 

[Guy2013]

And as I said at least a couple of times in this thread, most of us are already smart enough to not let our guard down but since we now know of a thief out there, this is only the beginning. Now we need to know who.



And let us hope he does the right thing, unlike his backers here. This is unfreakinbelievable. You guys will post blow by blow (pun intended) descriptions of a session with a lady with zero respect for her feelings, family situation etc and share "intel" as you like to call it but when you come across a thief, you want to protect her identity. Do you realize how STUPID that "logic" is????

It's beyond me why the poster will not name the SP, what use is this board if it does nothing to ensure the safety of contributors from rip off artists

 

[Cabinman]

It's beyond me why the poster will not name the SP, what use is this board if it does nothing to ensure the safety of contributors from rip off artists

It's his decision nobody else's.end of story for me. I don't care because it will never happen to me because of the precautions I take ... you guys need to lighten up .. this is not CAF

 

[MASSAGE.MAESTRO]

I remember wanting to wear my jacket and clothes into a shower room and carry everything back to the massage room. I was convinced it was safe to leave it in the room. Now, after this story...I will insist on sticking to my usual safety precautions. Anyone can gain access to a room...locked or not...and it takes just less than 30 seconds...for money to dissappear. I mean...I put my car keys and wallet in my clothes or provided robe (and its pocket), but a jacket could still be stolen. (And I'd be curious if anyone ever returned from a shower and their clothes were stolen.)

The reminder is valuable even if he won't share who it is....

 

[MASSAGE.MAESTRO]

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Just heard from said lady - "Thanks for the tip". So I was sarcastic and said "The $40.00?" She replies back yes, bills were stuck together.

Weird she has never commented like this before and now all of a sudden its all nicie. So she is reading this post.

Don't contact me again and I will let people know who you are - I was trying to take the high road and have guys be more vigilant but Fuck that.

That being said Jello Guy, you never really let us know who she is, so you actually did "take the high road".

And Old Fart...maybe this is the first time this girl has done this. If he does share who she is...Maybe she turns around and tells the forum who he is. And we all have our reasons for wanting anonymity.

One time I was asked for a certain tip amount...but told a girl I couldn't give her that much. (NOT TO MENTION...I DIDN'T ENJOY HER MASSAGE) I didn't give her the exact amount and she refused to give me the change. After that, I vowed to always have smaller bills. If I can get receipts I do, and for that reason, I won't give her name.

 

[Jelloguy]

I agree. The other option, well, it ain't pretty.

Should add too, I am sorry this happened to you but I think that we deserve to know who this is.

DESERVE??? Let me get this straight - you come on here and literally the first thing you spew is this is a useless post. Back to your pig swapping - I don't remember and backroom deal with you involving pigs or anything for that matter that would make me OBLIGATED to disclose fuck all to you that you would feel DESERVING.

Time to get off your high horse this time with your ENTITLED belief and ask yourself - "Ummmm I don't agree with his stand, should I be an ass and a squid where I don't bother to look at the purpose of the message instead looking at I just wanna know" - then do the opposite, you might build better relations as opposed to where you are.

I already know why you puff out your chest and pound - just because you want to hear yourself, sometimes not everyone does.

 

[Old Fart]

First off, you don't know squat about me and I don't hear a thing here, I read.

Next, You might need to examine yourself a bit more closely. The purpose of a board like this to to protect the MEMBERS and not the THIEVES who rob the members. This is not a case of WANT to know but NEED to know (who to avoid). That is the whole purpose of a review board, to share info so members can decide for themselves who and WHO NOT to see. You even say you will NEVER see her again. Why not? Just take your own advice and be careful LOL, but I suppose it's OK to let us get exposed to her thieving ways? You need to give your head a shake man.

You are the one on a high horse thinking that you are smarter than the rest of us, implying we are too stupid to be careful. I do not need you telling me to be careful. SO thanks for nothing and yes, without the most important part, it IS as useless post by someone who possible just wants to "hear" himself telling others how to approach each appointment.

 

[Old Fart]

If she would have asked for an extra $40.00 upfront I would have given it to her - but to go in my wallet and steal from me is something that I cannot forgive and will NEVER see her again.

Just for the record.