Relationship with an RMT

[ChaosFactor]

I spent so much time and money at Barry Ts, Barry Tomaldson gave me a pass card so I bipassed the lineups. Walked a lot of girls outa there at closing time. A bit later on it was Fast Eddies

My old boss was close friends with Barry so I spent a few nights chatting with him, a really great guy. Yeah the girls there were great
Who remembers the 0.25 draft night at Cowboys? You got drunk for cheap but you spent the next day on the shitter with rot gut lol
Spent a few nights at Rock City back then as well..

 

[Rubmegood]

Gonna change the title of this thread to "Old guys going down memory lane" (Or maybe staggering down memory lane?

 

[ChaosFactor]

I tried the sugar daddy thing for about 2 weeks I just said fk this .

In some ways I can see the attraction to this but for me personally if I am going to spend that kind of money I would rather have a smorgasbord of girls rather than just 1.
Spending all that money on one girl you might as well be married lol

 

[ChaosFactor]

Gonna change the title of this thread to "Old guys going down memory lane" (Or maybe staggering down memory lane?

Sorry I think I may have been the one to take this thread off the rails!

 

[Jockman]

I would be quite frightened to ask an RMT out. Some are very nice and I just don't know what to do. Others, I'm afraid, just want money

 

[Spies101]

I date her first, now I am in relationship with her.
How some of you said, you facing a real challenge.
You really need to have personality for it, to be able to take all pressure what you can face in that kind relationship.

 

[Wills_willie]

Years ago I spent my time going to one particular lady, visiting her at least once a week. She really new what got me going, her name was Coco, go figure. At some point I decided that the only connection was a regular pay check for her, which was to be expected. Over the years I have kept moving around never becoming a regular as I quite enjoyed the hunt that a lot of us go for. It seems that every now and then you come across a lady that there seems to be a connection as the session was very satisfying and you wonder if there could be more. Hmmmm.

 

[m694ever]

I would be quite frightened to ask an RMT out. Some are very nice and I just don't know what to do. Others, I'm afraid, just want money

But if you dont ask you would never know. Women have different tastes and you always wonder how some guys have pretty women on their arm with absolutely nothing to offer. One of life’s mysteries I guess.

 

[EnjoyingLife]

I feel this thread is created to create hope for men to explore the possibility to have an exclusive relationship with a SP. I personally think it is very dangerous avenue to enter and you could end up broke and more emotionally damaged. In the end, anything is possible and just follow your instinct.

 

[AJ007]

Do agree...had this girl back in Morocco who was an SP and after visiting her few times..she was basically wrapped around my finger and although it lasted for almost 6 months of daily contact and she really fell for me, and I did too...had to call it off as things were reaching a point where it was either her or the Mrs..she was around 23 and was fresh and tasty...when we would go out in the evening as during the day it was mostly catching up on the fuck...she would be the center of attention..and would just bust these sexy moves when the music would come on..it was like living a different life...but I guess like many, they wanted to get out of these places where there were no life as such and me living in the UK was the key to her door...again who knows....

 

[Guy2013]

A while back I was seeing a RMT for regular massages and after a number of sessions and some communication we ended up having sex at her studio after a massage. We were discussing seeing each other outside of the studio environment and I thought things were going well. Unfortunately she had a sudden change of heart and called it off and asked me not to contact her. Based on her parting comments I was left with the feeling that she was fed up with the fact that us hobbyists had turned her chosen profession of massage into a sex trade. Since that time she seems to have completely disappeared from the massage scene Shame too, she was a beautiful and very nice girl and I would have enjoyed seeing her in the real world, but I respected her decision. I think all too often as men we overlook the fact that most RMT's did not select the career path with the idea of performing handjobs. I suspect that for the vast majority they entered it as a legitimate career and soon found out that to actually make a living they has to expand what services they were comfortable in providing. Add to that the fact that a lot of clients actually seem to believe that no woman can resist the sight of their boner on the flip and its no wonder many RMT's seem jaded or indifferent.

 

[Guy2013]

There is a really beautiful actual RMT that is legit. I did not ask her why but she has explained enough so that I can put the picture together . I hav never got hard with her because I know there is no point . I like her and respect that she actually has chosen this as a career and has certain principles and lines she refuses to cross. I see her as often as I can I pay her well she gives a great massage . I love her company and her sense of humor. I get why she will not do anything she does not want to . I respect that too. I’ll keep seeing her because I like her .

I am now seeing a lady under similar circumstances. She has made it very clear she does not provide extras, but she gives an incredible undraped massage. Once in a while she bumps the LG and thats all, nothing more expected. Always leave feeling refreshed

 

[ChaosFactor]

The thing to remember is that ladies in the (full or partial) adult industry are not magical creatures they are women, some sweet, some not, but all in it for the money.
Their job is to be sexy and make you feel like a king!
Simple rule is just treat them like you would any other female.

 

[Rubmegood]

Simple rule is just treat them like you would any other female.

Hopefully with respect! (You forget what kind of animals are out there that treat women like sh!t!)

 

[dontwurry]

For those who dated provider do you think complete honesty is better or better not to think about the day and focus on the night? I think that honesty allows you to know what your capable of handling. I feel if the sp is open and honest in not so many details you can see if your the type of guy who can handle it or the one that can't. Just a thought

 

[ChaosFactor]

Hopefully with respect! (You forget what kind of animals are out there that treat women like sh!t!)

I understand why you wrote that but I refuse to acknowledge the 1% of people (men or women) no matter what the topic. Plus some people deserve to be treated like shit (women and men)

 

[ChaosFactor]

For those who dated provider do you think complete honesty is better or better not to think about the day and focus on the night? I think that honesty allows you to know what your capable of handling. I feel if the sp is open and honest in not so many details you can see if your the type of guy who can handle it or the one that can't. Just a thought

The trouble is you don't realize you can't handle the information until you have been given it and then it sits in your brain the rest of your life. Sexually people are all different and what you think you can handle is never 100% what you actually can

 

[ChaosFactor]

Chaos you said brother.
I know a couple of escorts that have been assaulted by a low life loogie in the past year . The independent massage providers run that risk of this as well. You’re right animals that look at these women as if they are a condom . I was just leaving a woman’s condo a month ago when she got a text . She should it to me the guy said I’ll be there in15 minutes to fuck you. She told him not to bother.

Exactly! And just like Rub said there is a small % of animals out there and though a small % they can do a lot of damage. You see a lady in that field and you open your life to a lot of drama.
It may not even be an actual act but perhaps a customer does something that scares her and makes her feel vulnerable you are the one who has to clean that shit up

 

[AJ007]

So...question guys...since some of you know this industry better than myself...once these hot ladies ( Flirt standard ) reach their mid 30s, where do they go from there? Just a thought...Hardly seen them hang around mall etc..lol...and would any of you if you have a chance marry one if they do come along....think about what you could have every night....

 

[boysgame]

You can see some of them in the mall and some other places. Good question, "will you marry her". Will you marry her. I think you need to be ready for some kind open relationship. It's dependent, if they will still do the same work what they doing or not after marriage.
I don't know what happened with amazing, famous Vivian. Is she still in marriage or not?