Question: Do you ever feel bad?

[fly with me:)]

Do any of you feel bad, when you walk into an MP,
and they introduce the women, and you choose one,
like choosing a cow in an auction? I feel bad for the
girls that I turn down. I know that I'm spending my
money on something that I want, but sometimes I
walk in and say "just give me whoever", so I don't
feel guilty.

 

[grandma zaza]

Yup, everytime i do that I feel like a pervert.

But sometimes it's a necessity.

 

[selena luvz you x]

I never feel bad about it.

 

[irenaaneri1980]

Wise words gentlemen.

 

[13th Thief]

If they are going to be so sensitive that they are offended if you don't choose them, then they chose the wrong profession.

 

[Desert Flame]

I look at it this way and I hope the ladies do the same.

We all have different tastes. You may choose a women that I turn down. It comes to personal preference.

I don't think most mind as musch as you do. This is their business and most approach it that way.

 

[unpublishedpoet]

I think that you are right; most of them shrug it off as being part of the business.

However, I do feel uncomfortable in this situation. At time it is necessary. However, if at all possible, I check things out first and when I walk in I usually know whom I will be selecting.

All this said, we are all human and we all want to be wanted. As a kid, how did you feel about being picked last for the team? Hey it was only a game, right?

We are all victims ... of differing needs and addictions. If we take care of each other (MPAs and customers) then it will be a win-win situation.

A monkey who is a victim of his primal instinct.

 

[Emma Smith]

I don't like the selection process but not because I don't think I should be introduced to the staff and make a choice. My problem is the way the attendants act. A quick appearance "I'm ***" and gone. That's what makes it a meat market. No other criteria other than looks. I take longer than that to buy a 2 dollar pen. How many times have I heard how important "clicking" with the mpa is to a good session. Don't get me wrong I'm as shallow as anyone when I'm purchasing a service and looks are a big deal but I'd much rather be with an ordinary lady who likes me, than a diva that would rather be polishing her nails than touching me. I think that if they put more into their introductions that it would make it more palatable a process. It's advertising and it deserves their attention and some effort.

 

[meshmesh]

There was a time I am seeing my regular MPA and she told me if I wanted to try a new MPA. She didn't go into detail. I thought she was afraid of me waiting long for her. I said I didn't mind and stayed for my regular MPA. In the session she told me that the new MPA hasn't got one customer for the entire day. The clients either come in to see my regular MPA or leave the MP if she is busy. I understand that we are only human, even in this profession I am sure we all have feeling here. At that point, I decided to give the new MPA a try but she has already left the MP that night as the owner told me.

 

[m_iqbal_hussain]

No. It's business. In fact, I'm lucky if I ever get a choice. Suppose I've been going to the wrong spas.

 

[Mallory]

I suppose the internet obviously helps with the photos of the girls on the various websites. If possible, try looking at those, and make a decision before you go.....you could even book an appointment. But, as we all know, sometimes the pictures don't look like the girl. In most cases from what I've heard, however, the girls look better in person......so I guess that's a good thing.

If you have to choose, I would go with personal preference. You wouldn't want to waste your hard earned money just because you feel sorry for the girl who isn't popular.

Places like HFH must have to keep those things in mind when booking the schedule. I mean, could you imagine being the new girl on the block, or not a very popular MPA, and then on any given shift, be working with Cameron, Tarah and Christina? That would suck! I'm sure Kayla "evens" out the schedule, so to speak, so that a situation like that doesn't occur.

 

[/cfreese 68IOU1]

at least one WILL be happy....

 

[Dance Dance Revolution]

Yea, I used to feel guilty (maybe that is the wrong word), maybe it was more like when you picked teams in the school yard and some kids had to wait until the end to be picked. I kinda felt like I was doing that to the girls I hadn't chosen. Last couple of times though, I just felt like it was a matter of personal taste and it had nothing to do with the others being 'not as good/pretty'.

 

[sophiesmummy]

Just a little surprised at the amount of hostility underlying some of these comments .