Grilfriends in TJ

[OLD MAN OF KNOWLEDGE]

The important thing is to learn and grow as a monger. At least you didn't say those magical words "No you don't understand...it's not like that...she only comes with me..." But maybe you have found a nice Pay 4 play girl, and for that you should be happy. Just don't ever think there is anything beyond the P4P or you are being played.

 

[chasmodeee1]

well thats not what burt2020 thought. he appeared to agree with me.

and i wasnt referring to prostitution in my origianl post. i was referring to non-pro action. this forum is about men looking for sex, pro or non-pro. i was giving advice regarding the mannerisms of achieving non-pro action. the TS and his thread is about finding a GF without an exchange of money. i simply gave him my experience from living in Mexican tourist towns.

if you think that the people in tj/ensenada are the same of that in central parts of mexico as well as cabo, cancun, pv and mazatlan...it simply shows how little you know of Mexico.

 

[YVONNE]

This is 100% bullshit

 

[Live free or Die]

Where as a Padrote controls women and earn 100%, I find clients for the chicas and earn a small commission. The chicas live their life however they want and can tell me they are busy when I call and not have to worry about anything. They can quit and come back as often as they want. I know some of their mothers and don't disturb them other than to tell them I have a request for their service. A Padrote would not mix with a client at all. I do know a few of them here in Mexico and they just send chicas with instructions. Often time they are not even in Tijuana even thought they may have chicas working at that time.

I'm pretty easy to get along with, but when someone posts bullshit to a community looking to learn about prostitution and other things in Tijuana, I have to call out bullshit. It is the responsible thing to do.

 

[Reza]

Several years ago I managed to get not one but two TJ girl friends. I would frequent the clubs on Revolution and party until it was time to go to la Cahuila but on one occasion I met these two local girls who were at a club celebrating that one had just landed a job or something to that effect. My buddy and I invited them to dance and before long we were buying them drinks which by the way were not very expensive back in the day, (1990 ish). I was having such a good time with them that my friend and I opted to skip la Cahuila and stay and party till they closed the club. To our surprise the girls were in to us and after maybe an hour of meeting they were sitting in our laps french kissing like if we'd been together for a long time. Long story short, at closing time we offered them a ride back to their house but they asked if we could all just crash in a hotel cause they were probably going to wake up someone at home and it was already 3:00am. We did not mind and got us two of the cheapest rooms I've ever stayed at near la Revolucion. We did not want to drive since we were all pretty drunk. Anyways, I ended up banging the blonde and my friend the brunette.

The next morning we took them to get breakfast still having a good time and when my friend was not looking the brunette tells me that she is in to me and wants me to return the following week end and fuck her. I'm like, sure, so I did. For the next six months or so I alternated between the two with out them knowing about it. Needless to say it got very complicated when they both became suspicious and I decided to just pull the plug on the whole thing. I just was not going to work out not only because I was fucking two women that knew each other but because they were always very suspicious and paranoid about what I did during the week while I was not in Mexico. Plus too, they were becoming obsessive, a bit controlling and a bit of gimme monsters.

Bottom line, don't do it. Too much hassle.

 

[God Speed]

yes, you are correct. i dont know much about the puta/padrote culture. i only know about the Mexican culture and one that is not limited to only Tijuana.

 

[aamirzz]

you have to realize that this girl is a full-on puta as she went upstairs with you in front of everyone. gringos need to realize that the majority of the girls in the local bars that are non-putas will not talk to you because they will lose faith with mexicanos. if you are a regular that lives in mexico it will take you several stops at the bar over an extender period of time (a minimum of a month) before you are accepted by the mexican locals. also, if you do not speak spanish, you will in all likelihood have absolutely no luck at all.

i have been living in mexico off and on for over six years with a total of about four years on the ground.

 

[clade]

Krappee: thanks for your reply. You are right on many things. I did start a thread regarding a certain SG towards whom I had great affection. I have since found out, by a tip from a reader on this site, that she is a puta and a liar. Now when i see her, I don't even stop to say hi. What made me start this thread about a girlfriend in TJ is a story which I am relunctant to share with you all in fear that I may be labeled as "wake the fuck up and get a fucking life" responses which I had already received. Since I already mentioned it, here is the story:

I meet a girl in one of the taxi bars, small ones where only locals men goes to get drunk. I wandered in just to check things out and was immediately approached by this girl from Guerrero. I bought her a drink, when upstairs for $40 (great sex) and afterwards, i told her that my friends and I will be at Tropical and she is welcome to join her after her shift which ended at 8pm. To my great surprise, she actually came; she sat down with us. We already had a bucket, and I order another and we had quite a party going. After two buckets of beer we decided to go to La pierla, a seafood resturant across the street from Tropical, and we ordered a table full of food (their octopus plater is really good). had a great time. What happened next was unexpected and risky, which I took. She asked me to go back to her place, which i agreed. We packed up the leftovers, which was a lot, and in the taxi we went. My friends try to stop me saying that her patrote will jump in halfway through sex and demand money and I would end up dead in a ditch. But after 2 buckets of beer and in a great mood, I didn't care. She lives up the hills in Tj next the communication towels that you can see driving towards TJ. It is nice to be on the other side looking back to US. She had a smaller apartmentment, without a lot of ammendies. We turned on music. She gave me a lab dance, we did more drinking and more eatting and i fucked her 2 more times in her bed before falling asleep. No patrote jumped me and I am still alive.

In the morning, we went out for chorizo and eggs and bumped into one of her neighbors and I decided to invite her to breafast with us. She is from Sinora and works in the factory making 150 pesos a day. This got me thinking, there are a lot of girls like that, non working girls making little or no money. If we can tab into this market and be there sugar dadding, this would be great. The questions is, how do we meet them.

Anyways going back to the story, after breakfast, we went back to her place for another quickie, I gave her more money. She insisted on escorting me back to the Zona in fear that people may rob me. So we rode the bus (first time in 20 years anywhere) and we arrived at the zona, where we exchange contact info and bid adios.

I have since visited her in her apartment 3 times and each time had a great time of music, eatting and sex....

Anyways, as I said, i didn't want to mention this, but it is necessary in order to justify why i want a GF in TJ....

 

[Isis Grace]

I tried giving you an insight on Mexicanas and the question they will ask their man at some point. Do you go with putas? Sometimes is hard to know if they're asking if we go with a puta that charges or a puta that gives it for free so don't be too hasty and answer it right away LOL! Okay so I'm joking a bit but I'm serious. I think you're taking a risk. You can't expect to get a girlfriend in TJ and not get caught in La Zona.

I only feel comfortable my brothers from 'nother mother knowing of my hobby. Besides that I don't want anyone else to know. If you get a girlfriend you're taking the risk of having more people knowing of your extracurricular activities. Believe me she will pass through La Zona or send someone to see if you hang out there. Your Romeo and Juliet fairytale will also end in tragedy. Even if you're not seen someone might make it up just to be an asshole.

Let me tell you what I don't feel comfortable telling Mexicanas of what I do in TJ. I don't tell them I party or go to La Revo/La Revolucion. When you talk to a guy La Revo chat ends up with La Coahuila LOL! Having said all this good luck.

 

[<<TANZ>>]

I left the US to get away from American and Americanized women of all races. I will take a Mexican living in Tijuana over and Americanized Latina all day long and twice on Sunday.

 

[Lisa S]

thebadguy, I am not sure why you would want a native mexican girlfriend. It seems like too much of a hassle. It would make sense if you lived in TJ or Mexico, but my understanding is that you reside like us in California.

Even if you lived in San Diego, logistically, it would be a pain in the ass to visit a local TJ girl. You would have to drive down to the border, park, and walk over. If you wanted to call her, you would have to dial an international phone number.

How about getting a local Mexican girl here in the states? Hell, if you want a bona-fide Mexican, I don't think it's a stretch of the imagination to assume that illegal Mexican citizens or undocumented Mexicans are here in California.

Visit your local Northgate or Superior Mexican supermarket. Speak to the clerks or produce ladies. Visit a Catholic church in Hispanic neighborhoods. Go to a quincenera (obviously pick up on the older ladies, not the birthday girl) Chat up some cleaning ladies or hire a maid or nanny.

Native Mexican girls are plentiful here in California. I am not too sure why you would want a non-pro either? Generally speaking, Mexican girls have Catholic upbringings and their parents tend to not allow them out of the house without male supervision. My traditional, conservative, Mexican buddies all have a tight leash on their daughters.

OCHobby was accurate and concise, you need to wake the fuck up! I don't mean no disrespect but this question of yours reminds me of that one thread you started when you thought that you were the special monger for that one street stander.

I too have looked for a girlfriend away from the wife and kids. It's simply too difficult. You have to spend time, money, and effort cultivating a girlfriend. It takes too much energy and risk of apprehension for me to try again. That's why I stick with backpage and TJ.

My suggestion is to stick with the pros. You compensate them for their time and both of you are satisfied, your semen is spent and their purse is filled.

If you want to persist in this gf situation, I recommend my above listed suggestions and perhaps take a personal ad out of La Opinion or some other Spanish speaking newspaper.

 

[ioanna (l)]

Are you asking how and where to meet non pro girls Seriously why would Tijuana be any different to the US or indeed anywhere in the world in this respect. Sure there are always local customs and culture to consider but if you can pull at home then you can pull abroad,

 

[Girl you dont know]

Buy yourself a set of medical scrubs, a stethescope, a speculm, and a 50 gallon drum of lube. Tell every girl you meet that you are on a medical mission from Our Blessed Lady of Invitro Fetilization and giving free pelvic exams. While you are pressing on their cervix, make small talk with them, maybe get a phone number or two.

 

[Moosa .]

I don't quite understand what you mean by this? I want a non-working girl in TJ; that's it.... how do I meet them, and where do I meet them? I don't think I will automatically be labeled as a zona norte guy... perhaps just an American wanting to find love south of the boarder...

 

[Master Buz Lawson]

OC did not appear to be mean at all

Hell I wouldn't mind a couple of girlfriends in TJ myself. I mean isn't that what we are all looking for? A girlfriend
in every city? LOL

 

[me40]

It doesn't sound like a good idea to get a girlfriend in TJ. Trust me Mexicans or any chicas with Mexican blood know about prostis/putas in La Zona and all over Mexico. Some know their man go with putas and other suspect them of this. I should know because I been there. I think with Mexicanas is the big elephant in the room. They'll go there to make sure is real love LOL!

 

[Big Bear]

You can't get a girlfriend here? Not really seeing the point.

 

[Duo Seeker]

OC, I have enjoyed your comments and humor over the years, but I don't know why you are so mean.... if you don't have anything nice to say, then don't say anything at all....

 

[Tyko]

Please wake the fuck up!

 

[A guy with too much time]

I've gone out with a couple of chicas I have met...one works in a breakfast buffett. and the other at a laundry mat.

Here is the problem for most: If you get to meet the family....with time someone will see you in the Zona that knows her and you will be cooked. No one wants a guy that visits that part of town. I have to be very honest and tell a chica how I earn....otherwise it will end as soon as they know. If I tell them up front they can make a decision.