Do most girls start with a massage?

[Jasmine(:]

One thing about being a wg, is that there is no rule book and unless you actually know other ladies and can be advised by them, you just have to go by your instincts.

Reading on these forums and ones like it, I get the impression that most women start a booking with a massage. Is this true?

I have never done that. For me it is really important to break that seal of being 2 strangers and I always start with a hug and a kiss. Then as time has gone by I bought some massage oil and tend to introduce that half way through, or after his first orgasm if we need a break before the next session. Sometimes I offer it at the end if it's been rather full on and I find it works to completely destress and unwind the client.

Does anyone else do that? This question is posed to both wgs and mp.nets.

Also as a mp.net, do you like having the massage first, or would you rather get a little more intimate first?

 

[hot lips]

I've had both at the beginning and after the first pop. Definite preference for the latter

 

[Sarah Atkinson]

Interesting question! I think lovely ladies and clients who have been used to a massage parlour type situations do tend to start with a massage (both ways in my case, as I have said before I love massaging the ladies!) but in a more escort (outcall or incall in a hotel or private house etc situation) it’s probably less common, though if that’s how you want to start a visit I am sure the lovely lady will oblige.

A regular lady I see when she does incalls works Reviewom a hotel so there is no parlour protocol to say we have to start with a massage but we do anyway!

Mainly because I think a massage is a great way to start getting intimate and is a good bridge between “hi I am RM” and “wow sit on my face will you!” especially if it’s a lady your seeing for the first time, but as always if it feels good and you like it why not?

 

[toughcountryfucker]

I start the session with a cup of tea or coffee on my time to break the ice and then gives the client a nice soft but passionate kiss before taking his hand and leading him to the bedroom xx then i undress him and lets the rest follow suit xx lol

 

[Sherozzel]

No, but surely a cuddle and a kiss is the most natural thing in the world?

I always offer a drink too gypsy, although a lot of guys don't want one as they are limited on time and need to get back to what they should be doing (naughty men).

I've had men literally shaking in their boots when they have entered my den of iniquity and within a few seconds of giving them a cuddle they have completely calmed down and started to kiss me etc.

Often during the booking there is elements of conversation that gives away how busy the client is, or if they are highly strung. It is those people I tend to offer the massage to, as I sometimes feel them being with me in the first place is partly escapism Reviewom their busy lives and needing something for themselves for a change. So in order to make them feel totally relaxed and looked after I will introduce a massage or at least offer one. It certainly isn't compulsary.

 

[help me!]

It all depends on the situation. In a "massage parlour" the usual protocol is to have a massage and then let things go a bit further (or even a lot further!).

When I Reviewequented such places it was the norm but, thinking back to that time, it seemed that the whole appointment was designed to relieve my stress.

I now only see independent escorts, as the first one I visited gave me such a lovely experience so totally different to a parlour that I then decided that paying a little more was well worth it. Rather then being the next in line, as though I was waiting for a haircut, I felt that I was visiting a real person and that we had a proper personal interaction. Massage was not usually part of it unless the lady felt that I was uptight or stressed, when it would be offered for a specific reason.

My preference now is to be offered a drink and a chat first, although a lingering kiss and the feeling of a beautiful woman wrapping herself around me works as well! This breaks the ice and lets us get to know a bit about each other before getting down to business.

It is always possible in that situation to pretend, at least mentally, that here is a woman you have managed to date and that it is not a commercial transaction. That feeling is usually missing when the lady is working to a formula of massage, oral and then sex.

To my mind, the best escorts are the ones who manage to make it seem like a pleasurable interaction between the two of us rather than the provision of a service! They let the appointment flow and don't ask what I would like to do next. It just happens.

I know a few ladies like that and an appointment with them is always a delight.

 

[Uhg.......]

I should have stipulated that I was thinking of Indies specifically, as I think it only goes to say that you will get a massage at a massage parlour, but yes I agree to picman about making the booking feel more real and that is kind of the mindset that I have too.

 

[Hawaiian_Kine]

Filling in time I would all that unless a gentleman asks for it of course.

My guys just come and we go with the flow.
Drink, chit chat, naughty touching .....then I pounce

 

[ForumTeam]

I seldom bother with a massage in either parlour or indie environment, like Kate I think a kiss and cuddle is a lovely way to start. I prefer to spend the 'massage' time pleasing the lady instead (although sometimes both are squeezed in), makes for a better experience all round.

 

[cmeduck]

You can pounce on me any time you like

 

[Domara]

I just like to trail my finger nails up and down the guy's back as we kiss, then squeeze his butt cheeks.. iI can be very naughty but that's just me and the clients love it. One thing I don't clock watch...

 

[TheDarkLaith]

Ohhh finger nails! I have really rubbish nails and had extensions put on for the first time last November and love them!!!! There is so much more you can do with some well groomed nails.

 

[camcam]

Wow some very good scenarios here, when I say I like to start with a massage I mean when you start the action proper! Also when I say massage I do mean an erotic one and not a sports massage!

A drink, a chat a kiss and a cuddle are a must for me and are great ways to start a session often done clothed (or as undressing each other!) or when I arrive before taking a shower if I have come straight Reviewom work and have not bathed since that morning.

I have to say that I probably would forgo the massage if I was in your den and you had me shaking in my boots Kate and then you kissed and cuddled me before having your wicked way with me, or if you Gypsy passionately kissed me then used your finger nails then lead me to bed! And as for being pounced on by you Lucy!!!!

Gosh what a lot of Lovely ladies you are.

 

[A guy with too much time]

A lot of parlours seem to hav the obligatory massage at the begining, but I usually ask for it at the end or at "half time" as others have mentioned. I once had a massage at La Maison that was so good that I couldn't really be bothered with anything else afterwrds it was so relaxing (although I did force myself ;-))!

 

[BITE ME]

I would say about 60% start with massage, in my limited experience
But it would be nice to be given a choice. Me well it depends on my mood, where its a quick, ( I need it nowwww!) or a more relaxed hour or so. Preferably a massage half way through would be good, as it takes me longer to recover these days, and once is never enough .

Like your style Gypsy, may have to seek out your caravan.

 

[red-rose]

Personally i like to start with a cuppa or a drink and/or some biscuits or chocolates and some nice conversation(catch up if it's a regular). I think one of the great thing about booking an escort for me is not just the sex but getting to know them, thats one of the fun parts for me. ( fluffy ya i know!) Makes it more date like too. Once that is done. i like to have a good old fashion snogging session and TONNES of foreplay and then i enjoy doing a reverse tantric massage (depends on the lady though) before we get down too business.
Blimey, i miss chatting !!!

 

[swimmer611]

When did you stop and why?

 

[salus]

I'm an indie and most times start with a sensual massage unless the client says he doesn't want one.
Usually if its a new client as you can chat as you massage and find out how he'd like the appointment to go

If its a client I have seen before or a reg and I know what he likes thats great but I still do offer a drink when he first arrives and a massage to start with to relax him

Return massages are always welcome especially in an hour or longer booking as its nice to take the booking nice and slowly and not feel like theres a big mad rush

 

[Green Eyes]

Hi Louisa. I've only ever been given a massage in return once and it was amazing. I felt so pampered, so agree with you on that. I certainly would never refuse one and may be tempted to hide the client in my suitcase and make him my personal massage slave lol.

 

[??Savannah??]

Promise? Just poke some hole in the case so they can breathe lol