Opinion Cheating on your regular

[mekhol2552]

So I have a regular at a semi legit that I see every week but someone(s) else(s) caught my eye(s). Turns out they always overlap.

Pretty sure there's been a bunch of threads on this before but nothing super recent.


Do you ever feel like you're cheating on your regular? Any repurcussions you've experienced? What's your strategy to trying different girls?

 

[hookerpuncher]

Who cares. It's not like she's not sucking the dick of other guys besides you. She's not your wife lol

 

[Charli3]

So I have a regular at a semi legit that I see every week but someone(s) else(s) caught my eye(s). Turns out they always overlap.

Pretty sure there's been a bunch of threads on this before but nothing super recent.


Do you ever feel like you're cheating on your regular? Any repurcussions you've experienced? What's your strategy to trying different girls?

I wouldn't stretch it as far as "cheating" remember you're paying for service, this isn't a romantic relationship(99.99% of the time), personally i think its better to have more options...sometimes it feels stale like going through the motions, I haven't faced repercussions maybe playful banter the next session but if they get pissed or feel like you should only be seeing them then tread carefully, remember she's not only seeing you.

 

[OG_funguy]

It really depends on how close you are to her. Most guys will say you are nuts and that you are paying for a service. However, most guys also probably never been in a situation where there was more going on than just a normal client/worker relationship.

FWIW, I've been in this situation with a few girls that I was very close to (i.e. doing stuff outside the spa with) and things never turn out well if they catch you seeing someone else at the same spa. They probably suspect you are seeing other girls but as long as they don't know about it, it's usually fine.

Again, I don't know your situation but if you are really close to her and want things to stay that way, then best to see girls at other spas...

So I have a regular at a semi legit that I see every week but someone(s) else(s) caught my eye(s). Turns out they always overlap.

Pretty sure there's been a bunch of threads on this before but nothing super recent.


Do you ever feel like you're cheating on your regular? Any repurcussions you've experienced? What's your strategy to trying different girls?

 

[snoopdoggie]

It really depends on how close you are to her. Most guys will say you are nuts and that you are paying for a service. However, most of these guys also probably never been in a situation where there was more going on than just a normal client/worker relationship.

FWIW, I've been in this situation with a few girls that I was very close to (i.e. doing stuff outside the spa with) and things never turn out well if they catch you seeing someone else at the same spa. They probably suspect you are seeing other girls but as long as they don't know about it, it's usually fine.

Again, I don't know your situation but if you are really close to her and want things to stay that way, then best to see girls at other spas...

I agree. You know you're close to someone if you both talk about personal things in your life. So, if you're that close, I wouldn't risk seeing a different girl at the same Spa. Also, if she works at a Spa that rewards you as a VIP member, she may notice you seeing a different girl, because they write down which girl you saw, at what time, and what date.

 

[Buaya]

Many many moons ago I was like that. It felt like cheating when I see another girl at the same spa. Yes, there was personal connection like OG_funguy says. Even seeing girls at other spas feel like cheating.
After Corvid, I kind of say - no, I do not really care anymore.

I see who and when I want. 2 things happen.

1. They refused to service me anymore - fine, makes it much easier to move on.
2. Their service level got better.

I might reward them better. Again, my choice. not theirs.

Of course, all this from someone who feels that he needs to do as much as he can until time runs out. Not like some of you young ones

 

[aa84aa]

Agree with what’s written above.

As we’re human beings emotions come into play, but we have to remind ourselves what the relationship is based upon and how it started. That sets the precedent, especially with longer term favourites/regulars.

Having said that, have experienced both where your connection, service and communication suffers when they know you’re seeing others (had that happen a few weeks ago), and on the side, when the healthy competition improves what you have when the door closes.

Which reminds again of what the relationship is based upon

 

[lasslicker]

What I have found, when frequenting a place with a mid size roster is that you become noted by the MPAs whom you have not booked yet.

Once your relationship with a regular becomes repetitive and perhaps you've reached the end of pushing mileage, you are likely to receive a high level of service from the new competing MPA.

Should you go back to or original lady, who is now jealous that someone else has taken what she thinks is money that would go to her, service levels can increase as she tries to protect her territory.

Competition breeds excellence!

 

[henricas]

Cheating ??? LOL. As soon as you step out, she goes into another room and does the same she did to you to another, then another and then another.

If your regular sees you going into another room with another girl, 9 out of 10 times she wouldn't give a shit.

I many occasions they want you to try another girl, only to see you come back to them because "OMG I'm so good, better than xyz"

When there is a chance that two girls in the same shop would fight/argue over a client; The spa manager should be wise enough to not let MPA #1 see her regular go into another room with MPA #2.

This chicks would not get jealous only jealousy would be, if you switch permanently to another girl. Not because of the man; but because of the lost of income.

 

[Gulag107]

So I have a regular at a semi legit that I see every week but someone(s) else(s) caught my eye(s). Turns out they always overlap.

Pretty sure there's been a bunch of threads on this before but nothing super recent.


Do you ever feel like you're cheating on your regular? Any repurcussions you've experienced? What's your strategy to trying different girls?

Only financial infidelity is what she cares about, you giving your money to an other lady and not her!
Her heart is cold, she love$ only gold.

 

[Cheertwice]

Cheating ??? LOL. As soon as you step out, she goes into another room and does the same she did to you to another, then another and then another.

If your regular sees you going into another room with another girl, 9 out of 10 times she wouldn't give a shit.

I many occasions they want you to try another girl, only to see you come back to them because "OMG I'm so good, better than xyz"

When there is a chance that two girls in the same shop would fight/argue over a client; The spa manager should be wise enough to not let MPA #1 see her regular go into another room with MPA #2.

This chicks would not get jealous only jealousy would be, if you switch permanently to another girl. Not because of the man; but because of the lose of income.

This guy has got it 100%.

Some of us are getting too much into our feelings. Do you feel she is cheating on you when she pops into the room with the next guy? Along with the stuff she will be doing to this next guy and maybe more?

My guess is if she sees you going into a room with another, she will not be in her feelings about why you are seeing another lady. Her thinking will be what did she say or do to you in the last few sessions that would make you pick another person. It's about her performance leading to the money. A well known since retired MPA at Pure/Perla with whom I had some pretty candid conversations, revealed this to me. I am not judging either. The ladies have a job to do and understand they need to do it well like any other job in the world.

We pop in and out of the lives of these ladies and vice versa, like a flash. Once we start getting emotional about these relationships we have with MPAs, we ought to right out minds and treat these activities like the transactions they are. Not easy I know.

 

[PussPekr]

It really depends on how close you are to her. Most guys will say you are nuts and that you are paying for a service. However, most guys also probably never been in a situation where there was more going on than just a normal client/worker relationship.

FWIW, I've been in this situation with a few girls that I was very close to (i.e. doing stuff outside the spa with) and things never turn out well if they catch you seeing someone else at the same spa. They probably suspect you are seeing other girls but as long as they don't know about it, it's usually fine.

Again, I don't know your situation but if you are really close to her and want things to stay that way, then best to see girls at other spas...

Totally agree

Having a "regular" (once a week) is still paying for a service.
We should not equate this with being in a relationships where there are usually some level of commitment ie dating, marriage.
So technically are not cheating.

Having said that, there are always going to be "blurred lines" between the client and the MPA.

I agree with OG you should always try to be discreet and respectful whether or not you have a good thing going with an MPA.
The MP community is tighter than we think and the girls do talk.
I recently saw the "best friend" of a regular which may have repercussions. Great session btw. Losing both would be tough but
it most likely will be business as usual because we do not have relationship outside of spa.

To answer the "cheating" question from a personal perspective.......I do feel some angst but that quickly dissipates reading Massage
Planet reviews on girls I have repeated with.

Until there is mutual commitment / emotional attachment......it is purely transactional.

 

[OG_funguy]

Totally agree

Having a "regular" (once a week) is still paying for a service.
We should not equate this with being in a relationships where there are usually some level of commitment ie dating, marriage.
So technically are not cheating.

Having said that, there are always going to be "blurred lines" between the client and the MPA.

I agree with OG you should always try to be discreet and respectful whether or not you have a good thing going with an MPA.
The MP community is tighter than we think and the girls do talk.
I recently saw the "best friend" of a regular which may have repercussions. Great session btw. Losing both would be tough but
it most likely will be business as usual because we do not have relationship outside of spa.

To answer the "cheating" question from a personal perspective.......I do feel some angst but that quickly dissipates reading Massage
Planet reviews on girls I have repeated with.

Until there is mutual commitment / emotional attachment......it is purely transactional.

Good points...but everyone knows guys are more logical and women are more emotional and don't always see things the way we do lol...

 

[PussPekr]

What I have found, when frequenting a place with a mid size roster is that you become noted by the MPAs whom you have not booked yet.

Once your relationship with a regular becomes repetitive and perhaps you've reached the end of pushing mileage, you are likely to receive a high level of service from the new competing MPA.

Should you go back to or original lady, who is now jealous that someone else has taken what she thinks is money that would go to her, service levels can increase as she tries to protect her territory.

Competition breeds excellence!

Yeah I have experienced the competitive benefits especially when you have moved on as a loyal respectful client.
I agree but I would resist going back to the original. It can get better but can also be a wasted session.

 

[imyourpuppet]

Is the OP a cuck? WTF

 

[xtc27]

It really depends on how close you are to her. Most guys will say you are nuts and that you are paying for a service. However, most guys also probably never been in a situation where there was more going on than just a normal client/worker relationship.

FWIW, I've been in this situation with a few girls that I was very close to (i.e. doing stuff outside the spa with) and things never turn out well if they catch you seeing someone else at the same spa. They probably suspect you are seeing other girls but as long as they don't know about it, it's usually fine.

Again, I don't know your situation but if you are really close to her and want things to stay that way, then best to see girls at other spas...

Its weird considerng # of guys they service, but yeah, p!sses some off if u c another girl when shes there… one gal even spelled it out 4 me, Im getting everything (full menu) @ semilegit bcuz I only visit her @ that spa… but she doesnt care what I do @ other spas… its like respect more than bf-gf inna way… … & Im hardly only guy gettng hi mileage outta her, but anyway, perhaps the 20 minute DFK = only 4 me…

And @ another semilegit spa Bellagio, , Lucy, who‘s mgr there @ least when Bellas out, should want me 2try other girls… but she stands in btwn me & them when introducing, so I cant get that free hug, cop a feel, etc… obv she wants me 2 stick w her…

Gorgeous tho she is, I like2 play the field… 1st time w even homely girl, still makes me horny … but its gonna b tricky 4 me 2do that @ Bellagio…

 

[Old No. 7]

I used to see one particular MPA at Muse a few years ago. She always encouraged me to see other MPAs there. She would even suggest the ones she thought I'd like based on my preferences. Most of her suggestions were great. Some of the other MPAs would tell me that my regular told her to ask me to do this and that with her because my regular said I was very good at it. Lots of fun. This scenario led to a number of over the top duos.
My regular always asked how I liked her suggestions. She just liked to see everyone having fun and she had plenty of customers, so my $$$ weren't really missed.
But she did always remind that she was my number 1. And she lived up to her standing every time.

 

[xtc27]

I used to see one particular MPA at Muse a few years ago. She always encouraged me to see other MPAs there. She would even suggest the ones she thought I'd like based on my preferences. Most of her suggestions were great. Some of the other MPAs would tell me that my regular told her to ask me to do this and that with her because my regular said I was very good at it. Lots of fun. This scenario led to a number of over the top duos.
My regular always asked how I liked her suggestions. She just liked to see everyone having fun and she had plenty of customers, so my $$$ weren't really missed.
But she did always remind that she was my number 1. And she lived up to her standing every time.

Real gem

 

[Gulag107]

Is the OP a cuck? WTF

Maybe for many of us, “life is just a cucktail party” at certain times in our lives !

 

[Mav]

I see both sides. I too have had a favourite tell me to try other girls at the spa, after she had been my go-to for a year or more. I saw her every week at least and had paid her thousands, so it was a little bit of a shock when she started suggesting that. I mean, she was also the manager, so maybe she was getting some flack from the girls, or maybe legitimately she was trying not to be in the room anymore. Regardless, for a hot minute there I felt a little twang of “why?” I’ll admit. But, in the end, she wasn’t only seeing me, and I wasn’t only seeing her, so I moved on. I made the conscious decision to cold turkey it, and haven’t seen her since.

On my side though, because of the rapport I had built, I didn’t feel right seeing anyone else at the same spa. I have since, but on days she isn’t there. It’s been a little while now so maybe it’s time to reconnect, but I’m also not in a hurry to do so as there are some new names that have me interested.

The best part about this hobby is that there are literally endless girls to try. Makes it easy to roll out of one good thing to another.