Opinion Cheating on your regular

[snoopdoggie]

Many many moons ago I was like that. It felt like cheating when I see another girl at the same spa. Yes, there was personal connection like OG_funguy says. Even seeing girls at other spas feel like cheating.
After Corvid, I kind of say - no, I do not really care anymore.

I see who and when I want. 2 things happen.

1. They refused to service me anymore - fine, makes it much easier to move on.
2. Their service level got better.

I might reward them better. Again, my choice. not theirs.

Of course, all this from someone who feels that he needs to do as much as he can until time runs out. Not like some of you young ones

I had an SP tell me recently that she has a regular client who's 87. Apparently his cock still works.(just not as good as before)
So, you're never too old.

 

[SuperSport]

I don't think there's one answer fits all, really it depends, maybe not a myriad of factors, but there's definitely some.

Just from my experience mitigating factors were, Your age / the age of MPA you see, are you just a "regular" regular, or friends outside the Spa too?

Another biggie (well has been for me, what kind of Spa are you talking about, semi-legit, holistic?), how many times have you seen MPA?

I am not going to go into endless detail of each, but I will point out one in particular that might be news to the "it never matters" guys.

Some of my experience is more similar to OG Funguy, and so a regular used my photo off a security screen and sent it to another

MPA (not even same Spa) and the two would "try" play text tag to see which one I would book next with. Not serious shit, but you can see what's possible.

Point being, you can't always expect to walk around with the impunity you think you can. For this reason, I would never see someone else in the same Spa,

unless I point blank told the regular - first. If the Spa world is so big and easy, that there's always a better MPA, then why do you want to make it potentially difficult by

sneaking around in the exact same Spa? Communication is key.

If you're a guy that sees a different MPA near every time, then of course it doesn't matter. If you become a regular, you can pretend it does not matter,

my experience says you might have to address it differently.

Some people will call me a cuck / simp whatever, it's all good, but a regular of mine asked me point blank not to go to a certain Spa (they wronged her)

and so I don't go out of respect, ya respect, imagine that in all of this. I know she will know if I did go to that Spa but it doesn't matter anyway, there's plenty of Spa's,

there's no reason "I must" go to THAT Spa, and so I have no difficulty doing that for my friend. So key words Communication / Respect.

Sorry to be so long winded here, I just had to say this ..... There's a saying, "Someone need's to earn your respect." That is one of the biggest pieces of crap I've ever heard.

"We should from the get go treat every person with respect, or until such time that they show themselves to be unworthy."

 

[MrBnH]

Just setup a duo with your regular and the other girl.........

 

[krayjee]

My experience...
Semi legit girls I don't really mind much seeing different girls at the same spa. It's best to see different girls. I have great connections with lots of girls and they all know I see different girls. I do have 2 favs and they all know who my favs are. Trust me they all try hard to keep good tipping regulars and not so much jealousy between them.
Holistic girls are a different story. If you have a regular and if you are getting extreme services, they will call you a cheater if they found out you see other girl. When I told her why can't I see other girls and you are banging 10 -12 guys a day? Her answer was , it was her job, she has no choice but I do ..lol

 

[xtc27]

I see both sides. I too have had a favourite … The best part about this hobby is that there are literally endless girls to try. Makes it easy to roll out of one good thing to another.

Remember when u retire 2 cottage country… its only true in The Big Smoke… u can do all spa girls in Barrie in a few vigorous wknds…

 

[Mav]

Remember when u retire 2 cottage country… its only true in The Big Smoke… u can do all spa girls in Barrie in a few vigorous wknds…

It’s funny you mention that. I’ve poked my head into a few places in Barrie, and very quickly exited. The GTA is seriously blessed. Although I miss the regularity of my old adventures, the current lifestyle choice I have made greatly trumps the ease of fun releases. I’m currently writing this from my dock with a cold beer. No complaints my friend.

 

[Buaya]

I had an SP tell me recently that she has a regular client who's 87. Apparently his cock still works.(just not as good as before)
So, you're never too old.

I am starting a new business (yes I know - at my age kind of crazy) with a partner. This partner has a business already selling Natural Health Supplements. One of the product is a All Natural pill that is supposed to be similar to Viagara except because it is a Natural Product, you have to take it daily and you will start seeing an improvement in your libido in about 2 months.

Guess what. I told him to bring me 6 bottles.

 

[cupcrazy]

remember you are the customer. you get to decide not her. you should ask yourself, does your favourite mpa feels bad when she serves customers other than you? The answer will be no. don't attach mpa too much.

 

[Sajam Enjoyer]

For me, every time I've seen another girl one or twice instead of the girl I've been a regular at in the same spa, the service went down with my regular girl. Less intimate, more rushy and didn't want to partake in some of the extras we were doing to each other before. Think it just goes to show that its not always transactional on both sides, no matter how much you want it to be.

 

[hangul99]

If you feel like you're cheating then I'd say you have a bigger problem in that you've become too attached to this particular MPA. Spread your wings. Trust me it's best to see others and keep expectations real.

 

[hookerpuncher]

Is the OP a cuck? WTF

Seems to be the reoccurring theme here with many posters. Simps falling for SWs as usual.

 

[cali99]

So I have a regular at a semi legit that I see every week but someone(s) else(s) caught my eye(s). Turns out they always overlap.

Pretty sure there's been a bunch of threads on this before but nothing super recent.


Do you ever feel like you're cheating on your regular? Any repurcussions you've experienced? What's your strategy to trying different girls?

Hey dude
good question and I see you and I started this hobby almost exactly the same time… what a change on MP since then eh?

so when I seek advice, I watch for dudes that have been
around for a minute… and when you think about it,
COVID started like January 2020.. and then spas went dark!
where are all these dudes are coming from with all this experience when ffs.. practically nothing was open.. so you decide who you trust.

but a question arises.. when is she a regular? How many times? 30,40, 50, 68. One short of a 69!

imo, you take every fave as a separate investment!
take care for their well being always!
no always means no!

and ffs, if she’s the bomb….
you pay her like the bomb!

keep the faith with your regular.
she knows you will have trouble saying true in this hobby. She has a built in defence mechanism for that..
trust me on That!

as I seek a new fave, here’s, hoping the spa gods are
smiling!

all the best going forward
and respect all the elders that came before us!

 

[cali99]

It really depends on how close you are to her. Most guys will say you are nuts and that you are paying for a service. However, most guys also probably never been in a situation where there was more going on than just a normal client/worker relationship.

FWIW, I've been in this situation with a few girls that I was very close to (i.e. doing stuff outside the spa with) and things never turn out well if they catch you seeing someone else at the same spa. They probably suspect you are seeing other girls but as long as they don't know about it, it's usually fine.

Again, I don't know your situation but if you are really close to her and want things to stay that way, then best to see girls at other spas...

 

[xtc27]

For me, every time I've seen another girl one or twice instead of the girl I've been a regular at in the same spa, the service went down with my regular girl. Less intimate, more rushy and didn't want to partake in some of the extras we were doing to each other before. Think it just goes to show that its not always transactional on both sides, no matter how much you want it to be.

When I get my car or bike fixed, buy bread , meat , whatever... always go 2 same vendor provided service = gd! And... I get freebies, discounts, preferred service, get 2 jump the queue...

MPAs = kinda similar, but since the service IS her whole self, its a bit more personal... & if u don't think repeating, flirting, loyalty, etc mean anything, then yer missing out.

U repeat bcuz = more fun ensues. TBH sometimes feeling exist... its all ok. They're free 2 enjoy, part of the spice of life...

 

[Christopher Moltisanto]

It’s funny you mention that. I’ve poked my head into a few places in Barrie, and very quickly exited. The GTA is seriously blessed. Although I miss the regularity of my old adventures, the current lifestyle choice I have made greatly trumps the ease of fun releases. I’m currently writing this from my dock with a cold beer. No complaints my friend.

I was in Muskoka for a week around Canada Day and had an itch to scratch but no amount of sleuthing online worked in finding me any reasonable options -- and Barrie was too far to drive. What a wasteland Muskoka is for the hobby...

 

[Mav]

I was in Muskoka for a week around Canada Day and had an itch to scratch but no amount of sleuthing online worked in finding me any reasonable options -- and Barrie was too far to drive. What a wasteland Muskoka is for the hobby...

It’s true. But it does have so many things that are special about it. So I really can’t complain

 

[cali99]

When I get my car or bike fixed, buy bread , meat , whatever... always go 2 same vendor provided service = gd! And... I get freebies, discounts, preferred service, get 2 jump the queue...

MPAs = kinda similar, but since the service IS her whole self, its a bit more personal... & if u don't think repeating, flirting, loyalty, etc mean anything, then yer missing out.

U repeat bcuz = more fun ensues. TBH sometimes feeling exist... its all ok. They're free 2 enjoy, part of the spice of life...

I agree.
I could say a lot about women, mpas and civies.. Have had many in my life
including an ex sw who I married. if I had one piece of advice for any man looking to make hay, just Be yourself..
anything else, women will pick up on!
and if in doubt, punt!

 

[Bigfatguy]

It’s best to cycle through girls to keep the excitement and also to not get emotionally attached

 

[xtc27]

It’s true. But it does have so many things that are special about it. So I really can’t complain

There are incalls up there & i think an agency or 2… & skanky hoes who fuck & suck truckers…

meh

Not AMPs, w cute giggly girls who wanna make u happy….

 

[MrBatts44]

Good points...but everyone knows guys are more logical and women are more emotional and don't always see things the way we do lol...

You know research data actually states that men fall in love more quickly then women. We are more " visual" creatures. So I don' t know if women are the more emotional ones.....maybe when its their time of the month. I would agree to that.