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kl_funguy said:

I was never really a daty guy before but one of my long term buddies on this forum got me started and I quite enjoy it now. I started off only doing it on my faves but now that list has expanded quite a bit lol.

Obviously the ladies seem to enjoy it too, especially when your tongue first touches their pussy and they let out that initial moan, but I'm wondering when is it too much for them and at that point, they've had enough and are just acting.

I'm thinking if they are going to have an orgasm, it will happen within the first 2-3 minutes but would love to hear from some of you daty masters. Would also love to hear from any female members as you would obviously know best.

Also, feel free to share some of your best daty stories and/or techniques to get them off

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Not an expert, but I think it is case by case with MPAs (some just go through the motions, sometimes they do not like it when they start to enjoy it, some are very sensitive, and some let you know they are having a good time). I like doing it for about five minutes and then I am bored. With civilians giving head is just like giving a massage - nobody will tell you stop! With girlfriends in the past I have gone as long as 45 minutes - they liked it but it felt like work for me.

kl_funguy said:

I was never really a daty guy before but one of my long term buddies on this forum got me started and I quite enjoy it now. I started off only doing it on my faves but now that list has expanded quite a bit lol.

Obviously the ladies seem to enjoy it too, especially when your tongue first touches their pussy and they let out that initial moan, but one thing on my mind lately is at what point is it too much for them i.e. they've had enough and are just acting now.

I'm thinking if they are going to have an orgasm, it will happen within the first 2-3 minutes but would love to hear from some of you daty masters. Would also love to hear from any female members as you would obviously know best.

Also, feel free to share some of your best daty stories and/or techniques to get them off

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Asking about eating pussy? Are you serious?

0 minutes cuz I’m the one paying. Lol.

I do some of the same things I like when a girl gives.
I never dive right in that's for sure and by the time I've covered some errogeneous zones shes ready. I think girls like good head more than we like it. But i agree with some that there are girls that can give your tongue a workout!
At first I graze by so I don't even touch her but it's just breath and the anticipation that's killing her and then I slowly run up each side of her outer labia until I work around the clit and end up on top of her hood. Just methodical and getting a sense of the pressure she likes. I like running my tongue from her opening up to under her clit and then kind of flick it and work around and start to focus around there. Getting a finger playing with her opening and getting it super wet usually gets her receptive to want you to put it in her...which i do very slowly a just a bit at a time keeping it nice and wet. When it's all in her, from there I just keep the gentle"come hither" thing going inside her under her G spot as I keep working her outside. Sometimes a gentle squeezing the vulva together around her clit will get her going with doing all of that. I look for the hand tight grip, hands cradling my head,or especially the lip bite lol. If she's breathing heavy you can hold her there or let her go but it's always better to tease and edge her a bit. Then whenever I want usually I can take her over the edge. I find a lot of girls just want you to hold your tongue steady as she cums and they definitely hate when a guy tries to change it up as she's getting close unlike us where we really don't want them to stop until we're done.
Once you find her preferred rhythm, stick with it!
Not saying I'm an expert but haven't received any complaints. And it's a bit of a learned thing and somewhat individual to the girl.
Happy diving and pack a good snorkel

kl_funguy said:

Wow, and how long is this going on for? I'm guessing around 15 mins?

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Yeah around that but whatever i feel like but no one wants to feel rushed so if she's comfortable and you give her time, she will usually reward you well for your efforts. Besides i like making her squirm

Don't feed asparagus to her if she's a squirter.

kl_funguy said:

Haha, I used to think like that too. But get her in 69 position. If she has very good hj technique and truly enjoys the daty, it can even feel better than FS...

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You know what nvm. lol!

DAT

kl_funguy said:

I was never really a daty guy before but one of my long term buddies on this forum got me started and I quite enjoy it now. I started off only doing it on my faves but now that list has expanded quite a bit lol.

Obviously the ladies seem to enjoy it too, especially when your tongue first touches their pussy and they let out that initial moan, but one thing on my mind lately is at what point is it too much for them i.e. they've had enough and are just acting now.

I'm thinking if they are going to have an orgasm, it will happen within the first 2-3 minutes but would love to hear from some of you daty masters. Would also love to hear from any female members as you would obviously know best.

Also, feel free to share some of your best daty stories and/or techniques to get them off

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DATY IS USUALLY FOR THOSE ARE JUST STARTING OFF DATING MASSAGE LADIES.
DATY IS NOT MEANT FOR DATY.
DATY IS A WESTERN THING.
IN ASIA DATY IS NOT CONSIDERED.

UsefulIdiot said:

Not an expert, but I think it is case by case with MPAs (some just go through the motions, sometimes they do not like it when they start to enjoy it, some are very sensitive, and some let you know they are having a good time). I like doing it for about five minutes and then I am bored. With civilians giving head is just like giving a massage - nobody will tell you stop! With girlfriends in the past I have gone as long as 45 minutes - they liked it but it felt like work for me.

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...some gf had me down there long time, 4sure... don’t wanna push their acting talents 2 far, so I don’t try 4 long w mpas... one mpa really horny tho, mebbe I will try... I found most gf like DFK while being fingered, but y’a gotta keep tongue & fingers working @ same time...

...if I’m doing DATY 15 min, my boner gotta b in her mouth... I’m likely done by now!... it would need 2b marathon session w/o clock...

kl_funguy said:

Haha, agreed!

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HEY DUDE,
THANKS FOR THE DEPLY OF SEAN CONERY FUNERAL.
JUST LIKE TO SAY. DATY IS FOR THE CROWD WHO JUST FINISHED UNIVERSITY PHD PROGRAM AND LOOKING FOR A JOB.
DATY IS FOR PHD.
OKAY.

I’ma strong believer of “you give, in order to receive”. Every clit is different, always start slow. I like to ‘cupped’ the upper portion of the pussy with my mouth, press my tongue against the hood of the clit, then move slowly up and down. If she likes digits is even better, if not just rubbed the opening of the vagina with your thumb the same time..the usual responds are “don’t stop” for most ladies

KEA666 said:

I’ma strong believer of “you give, in order to receive”. Every clit is different, always start slow. I like to ‘cupped’ the upper portion of the pussy with my mouth, press my tongue against the hood of the clit, then move slowly up and down. If she likes digits is even better, if not just rubbed the opening of the vagina with your thumb the same time..the usual responds are “don’t stop” for most ladies

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“Stop... don’t ... stop ..don’t stop, don’t stop!”

kl_funguy said:

Recently I've been doing this "cupped" / "tongue press" move as well but have no idea whether the ladies like it or not...or whether they just prefer the tongue either going up and down along their pussy or inside the pussy

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If you really don’t know, you can always ask...like I did
So I presumed you just shut your eyes while you eat ‘em out? Always look up and see how they react...you may spot a few fakers along the way.

Some great responses here. Eye contact is always good. Looking up at her is a must especially when you’re at an sp or mp. You always spot the ones going through the motions.
As for technic. I always try not to directly touch or rub the clit until she’s good and rev’d up. Just rubbing your tongue side to side on the hood gently at first increasing pressure all the while playing with her taint and opening with one finger is always beneficial. Once you see she’s getting into it I’ll sometimes reach around her leg with my hand so it’s on top of her pussy. Slowly pull up on the skin so it exposes her clit from under the hood. This works especially well with Asian ladies because I’ve always found their clits are buried deep under the outer lips. I first discovered this idea on one of my favs. She use to reach down with both her hands and pull up and spread her lips wide open so I could get my tongue all over it. Once I started doing the reach around she would grab my head instead and pull me hard until she came. It started to be a go to move after that.