Gifts for Mpa’s

[newtothis82]

Listen I know I will take some flack for this from the girls I know and some of you super studs! But I can’t believe the amount of gifts some of you dudes buy for these ladies, I guess if your single it’s okay. But I imagine some of you are in relationships and your probably spending more on these ladies than ur significant others.
To each their own...but I find it mind boggling...good for the ladies I’m sure they deserve it for doing what they do with they do with these guys but cmon man

 

[Whatuknow]

Listen I know I will take some flack for this from the girls I know and some of you super studs! But I can’t believe the amount of gifts some of you dudes buy for these ladies, I guess if your single it’s okay. But I imagine some of you are in relationships and your probably spending more on these ladies than ur significant others.
To each their own...but I find it mind boggling...good for the ladies I’m sure they deserve it for doing what they do with they do with these guys but cmon man

It boggles my mind you actually care what other guys do. Really who gives a shit if guys buy gifts or not just do you.

 

[Mr Gucci gucci]

It boggles my mind you actually care what other guys do. Really who gives a shit if guys buy gifts or not just do you.

Exactly.

Imagine being so insecure that u have to care about some dude you dont even know gifting gift that you cant afford to someone who you dont even know in real life lol.

I gifted ysl chanel and hermes stuff to mpa and sp. It's just a gift. Dont tell me how to spend my money that i earned lol

 

[TheKWguy]

Its not a big deal when you already spend a ton to see them regularly

 

[newtothis82]

Exactly.

Imagine being so insecure that u have to care about some dude you dont even know gifting gift that you cant afford to someone who you dont even know in real life lol.

I gifted ysl chanel and hermes stuff to mpa and sp. It's just a gift. Dont tell me how to spend my money that i earned lol

Wow...imagine being hurt by a guys observation. I don’t give a shit, I was just suprised but I’m sorry if I offended you bro. Trust me I have no insecurities in regards to hobbying lmao...

 

[newtothis82]

It boggles my mind you actually care what other guys do. Really who gives a shit if guys buy gifts or not just do you.

It’s an observation my friend, it boggles my mind that you would take the time to respond to my comments.

 

[newtothis82]

Uhhh, wasn't the point of starting a thread to get comments?

Lol yes, just didn’t think guys would be so sensitive...

 

[ChubbyGuy]

Listen I know I will take some flack for this from the girls I know and some of you super studs! But I can’t believe the amount of gifts some of you dudes buy for these ladies, I guess if your single it’s okay. But I imagine some of you are in relationships and your probably spending more on these ladies than ur significant others.
To each their own...but I find it mind boggling...good for the ladies I’m sure they deserve it for doing what they do with they do with these guys but cmon man

What kind of gifts we talking about? Jewelry, watch, lingerie, iPads, iPhone????

Or are you talking about amount, as in quantity? gift per visit???

 

[Apolyton]

Non monetary gifts....oh course. These are women we are having relations with. They are people with emotions and sentiments too. Some will appreciate the gesture others not. But it doesn't matter. I may gift when a women who has gone above her limits or at either Christmas, Lunar New Years, their birthday or just because. I do not gift as a form of bribery or any form of obligation. Its a form of appreciation.

I have gifted inexpensive jewelry, wallets, chocolate and candies.

 

[Davelovezcurves]

Buying gifts for mpa's . That's nuts she has another sucker bringing her gifts in an hour. I have a long time regular sp she might get an extra tip here and there. I'm not buying gifts for no mpa/sp lmao even when I was making well into 6 figures. Nope.

 

[kittyhound69]

20 or 30 $ lunch or chocolates, gives me even greater gfe, pse. A little goes a long way with my fav..

 

[Apolyton]

In this hobby, if your approach is strictly a "transaction" then you will be among those who complain about mileage, provider attitude and be asking others "does she do this or provide that service and why don't I get any of this extras?". Your forum questions will be focused on which establishment is rated for what service.....holistic, semi, veggie, etc. I have found over the years that all services are available at all places, albeit with a bit more effort and trust. I have been to strict low mileage places and received all services, including FS, on an ongoing basis and I did not have to break the bank. I have had free upgrades including duos and attribute this to my attitude. Let it be know I am not thin and muscular, nor am I young and handsome, nor am I a man who has bags of cash to spread around. I just try to be honestly mindful of how I interact and behave with others. My worst, non-interactive, dead-fish, experiences have been when a service menu/price list was presented to me and a chose a service. The whole thing was often a dis-jointed, timed, rushed transaction that felt like a race to get me off as fast as possible.

Remember, as usual YMMV......but the outcome may vary and it may be up to you.

 

[Mr Gucci gucci]

you should have not have said "cmon man" at the end - this implies to everyone that its wrong or out of line or you don't agree - at least that's how I take it - my fave started giving me gifts before I did - I've added up the value and its close to $800 she's given to me - and what I gave her for xmas, i really cant be public about that but it's way more than what she's given - hey, if her and I build up this great relationship that lasts for years, great, if not, oh well - all is still well - I give homeless guys on the street 20 bucks sometimes when I see them, more if they have a dog - I donate money to animal shelters - My point is, I give without thought of return - that is my philosophy- do unto others kind of thing

Exactly . Dude was giving advice to other people until everyone backlashed and told him to mind his own broke ass business.

Now he playing victim of getting bullied.

I just bought an iphone for an sp. Will get a lot of extra service now on. Again, we do what we want. As long it is consenting and legal, who cares.

 

[Whatuknow]

It’s an observation my friend, it boggles my mind that you would take the time to respond to my comments.

You didn’t word it as an observation dude and why so defensive now lol

 

[OG_funguy]

In this hobby, if your approach is strictly a "transaction" then you will be among those who complain about mileage, provider attitude and be asking others "does she do this or provide that service and why don't I get any of this extras?". Your forum questions will be focused on which establishment is rated for what service.....holistic, semi, veggie, etc. I have found over the years that all services are available at all places, albeit with a bit more effort and trust. I have been to strict low mileage places and received all services, including FS, on an ongoing basis and I did not have to break the bank. I have had free upgrades including duos and attribute this to my attitude. Let it be know I am not thin and muscular, nor am I young and handsome, nor am I a man who has bags of cash to spread around. I just try to be honestly mindful of how I interact and behave with others. My worst, non-interactive, dead-fish, experiences have been when a service menu/price list was presented to me and a chose a service. The whole thing was often a dis-jointed, timed, rushed transaction that felt like a race to get me off as fast as possible.

Remember, as usual YMMV......but the outcome may vary and it may be up to you.

You seem to get it...many here don't and won't no matter what you say to try and convince them otherwise...

MPAs aren't robots...treat them that way and guess where you'll end up on the YMMV spectrum.

 

[Hangdai]

When you really think about it,
if I had a business of providing services or products to customers,
it’s usually the business owner that gives their good customers gifts.

These ladies should be giving gifts to us!
Take me out for all you can eat sushi, buy me a Moose Knuckles coat, or give me something as simple as a box of moon cakes.

We show loyalty by visiting you for service, Appreciate me once in a while.

Save your gifts for friends and family.

 

[OG_funguy]

When you really think about it,
if I had a business of providing services or products to customers,
it’s usually the business owner that gives their good customers gifts.

These ladies should be giving gifts to us!
Take me out for all you can eat sushi, buy me a Moose Knuckles coat, or give me something as simple as a box of moon cakes.

We show loyalty by visiting you for service, Appreciate me once in a while.

Save your gifts for friends and family.

It happens every now and then, but you're right it should happen way more often.

I once joked with a fave that I should be comped for being such a good customer. She then actually agreed to give me one freebie every 4 or 5 visits. I accepted once just to see if she was serious or not (she was) but I never abused the privilege after that. This particular fave was always generous though. She has tons of money and I think she just does massage because she's bored.

 

[Mr Gucci gucci]

Ok your a Fucken loser for buying gifts for mpas...is that better

We dont care about broke ass losers opinion LOL.

You the type that negotiates with mpa and then complain why they are not into the service. LOL.

Get that victim playing shit out of here.

 

[Whitesnake1987]

When you really think about it,
if I had a business of providing services or products to customers,
it’s usually the business owner that gives their good customers gifts.

These ladies should be giving gifts to us!
Take me out for all you can eat sushi, buy me a Moose Knuckles coat, or give me something as simple as a box of moon cakes.

We show loyalty by visiting you for service, Appreciate me once in a while.

Save your gifts for friends and family.

Greedy whores man, that's all they are.

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[WizardofStyle]

I have had an owner comp the door fee for me every so often, and a favorite has refused a tip occasionally. I stay on the semi-legit circuit, but it can happen.

An investment in a regular remaining a regular.