Pick up girls v MPA

[AJ007]

Right...got some free time so thought I’ll just slip this through...
Being new in Toronto...and go the MP scene...would like to have a feel of what attracts us most to these places as compared to go and pick up a girl from a bar...
I don’t have a free pass in the evenings for obvious reasons..I try to squeeze this hobby between work and getting home to the wife and kids...so if I was single and unattached, most likely I would try some nice bars downtown and grab someones attention...every now and then...would be cheaper I guess and more
challenging also...and if this failed then I’ll probably end up at a MP for sure...
So please let me know if most of you have been on road before and why quitting for exclusively MPs....
Thanks

 

[Steely]

Right...got some free time so thought I’ll just slip this through...
Being new in Toronto...and go the MP scene...would like to have a feel of what attracts us most to these places as compared to go and pick up a girl from a bar...
I don’t have a free pass in the evenings for obvious reasons..I try to squeeze this hobby between work and getting home to the wife and kids...so if I was single and unattached, most likely I would try some nice bars downtown and grab someones attention...every now and then...would be cheaper I guess and more
challenging also...and if this failed then I’ll probably end up at a MP for sure...
So please let me know if most of you have been on road before and why quitting for exclusively MPs....
Thanks

Picking up a lady at a bar is not always easy and nothing is guaranteed. Plus, you either need to buy a room or go to her place. MP is guaranteed and comes with a shower so you don't smell like pussy when you get home to your loving wife. MP is cheaper overall.

 

[AJ007]

Yep...but what if you were a single guy and looking for fun then I guess you wouldn’t mind the smell of pussy bro..but yeah thats where I am at the mo...shower and then get home but can‘t look too fresh too...if you look like too clean after a days work then...that’s a give away..so I normally scruff up a bit before stepping in...

 

[snoopdoggie]

Yep...but what if you were a single guy and looking for fun then I guess you wouldn’t mind the smell of pussy bro..but yeah thats where I am at the mo...shower and then get home but can‘t look too fresh too...if you look like too clean after a days work then...that’s a give away..so I normally scruff up a bit before stepping in...

You don't have a shower at work? If you do, just say you took one there.

Or just say you took a shower at the Gym after work.

 

[AJ007]

Don’t do any of these...

 

[luvnewpussy]

Picking girls at the bar cost you wayyyy more effort than going to see a MPA.
Also you run the risk of screwing up your personal life as you will get emotionally attached to the bar girl and making her a mistress..most girls wont stick around as a side chick..yes the enjoyment of the chase is there but make no mistake its not easier.

This is the cheat code...fuck a new girl every now and then and keep home life separate.
This space should be to fulfill your sexual desires only..if you want emotional connection keep that with the wife or girlfriend.

 

[AJ007]

Yeah I hear you mate...sometimes the excitement and the thrill is lacking when you just go for the fuck..but definitely has its perils..

 

[luvnewpussy]

Yeah I hear you mate...sometimes the excitement and the thrill is lacking when you just go for the fuck..but definitely has its perils..

To balance that...go see unreviewed girls and ones with no pics . Brings back a diffrent excitement as u dont know what she will offer you or what she looks like.

I have found many gems that way and shared only after i have pounded a few times and i move on once others have discovered her.

 

[Dudejizz]

Better yet go to an agency chick; hotter chicks, set price and better service. At this point the only real reason to go to an MPA is the massage itself.

 

[AJ007]

I have avoided the agency route as this will be no dissimilar to an MPA but with an MPA the bonus is a massage although so far I only been to one and was not impressed by both massage and adds on...and will be a cheaper option than agency where she will be looking at the watch and thinking about her next client...both ends up as a no-win situation and I guess I was hoping I’ll get lucky again on Seeking but once I paid for my month subscription I didn’t want to renew...back in UK my mate and I shared the Seeking monthly payment and we also organized and split the hotel rooms payments so worked out really well...at some point I was meeting 2 girls a day as they were not really expensive and demanding and hotel room was only 50%...no such luck here unfortunately..but early days for me since I only got back to the fold like 6 weeks now so hopefully better things ahead..

 

[RealBadman]

Pick Up Girls
Pros:
- Usually not as expensive
- Not really on the clock when you fuck
- More validating to your ego
- More satisfying in the long run
- Even if the sex was bad, doesn't matter had sex

Cons:
- No 100% guarantee you can get a girl all the time, not even if you're good looking or got game
- Many guys have a hard time with this, or can't get any this way period. Especially if you're ugly or shy
- Will most likely require more time and effort
- Can get emotionally attached, might have unspoken expectations
- More likely to be problematic or cause drama
- Might not be able to get exactly the girl you want, your options are more of a mixed bag
- You never really know what you're getting yourself into right away

MPA
Pros:
- Guaranteed no strings attached, as long as their paid they're happy, and you know exactly what you're signing on for (unless you're a dumbass)
- Practically zero time and effort investment, don't need game or good looks just money
- You can be with any girl you want whenever you want. Blonde, redhead, Asian, Latina, black, brown, big boobs, big butt, you name it (best part IMO)
- Her job is to please you first, you don't have to worry about her pleasure if you don't care about that
- More likely to know what she's doing when it comes to pleasing a guy
- Probably more comfortable with doing certain things right off the bat than a real life girl is

Cons:
- You're usually on a time limit
- Costs more, can really add up over the long run
- Doesn't feel like it counts as much as hooking up in real life
- If you want a girlfriend she's 99.9% not an option, let alone a good one
- Leaves a much worse taste in your mouth if you had a bad session

Both can be very hit-or-miss and YMMV.

 

[TheKWguy]

go to a place with a couple within a 10 min area. flirt keele, seduction area has a ton of MPs with teh extra everyone wants.

Just do walkins, or book if you know how to manage your phone. if you don't like what you see go to teh next place. no problems and no drama. just don't take anything home

 

[AJ007]

Pick Up Girls
Pros:
- Usually not as expensive
- Not really on the clock when you fuck
- More validating to your ego
- More satisfying in the long run
- Even if the sex was bad, doesn't matter had sex

Cons:
- No 100% guarantee you can get a girl all the time, not even if you're good looking or got game
- Many guys have a hard time with this, or can't get any this way period. Especially if you're ugly or shy
- Will most likely require more time and effort
- Can get emotionally attached, might have unspoken expectations
- More likely to be problematic or cause drama
- Might not be able to get exactly the girl you want, your options are more of a mixed bag
- You never really know what you're getting yourself into right away

MPA
Pros:
- Guaranteed no strings attached, as long as their paid they're happy, and you know exactly what you're signing on for (unless you're a dumbass)
- Practically zero time and effort investment, don't need game or good looks just money
- You can be with any girl you want whenever you want. Blonde, redhead, Asian, Latina, black, brown, big boobs, big butt, you name it (best part IMO)
- Her job is to please you first, you don't have to worry about her pleasure if you don't care about that
- More likely to know what she's doing when it comes to pleasing a guy
- Probably more comfortable with doing certain things right off the bat than a real life girl is

Cons:
- You're usually on a time limit
- Costs more, can really add up over the long run
- Doesn't feel like it counts as much as hooking up in real life
- If you want a girlfriend she's 99.9% not an option, let alone a good one
- Leaves a much worse taste in your mouth if you had a bad session

Both can be very hit-or-miss and YMMV.

Great analysis buddy..

 

[AJ007]

go to a place with a couple within a 10 min area. flirt keele, seduction area has a ton of MPs with teh extra everyone wants.

Just do walkins, or book if you know how to manage your phone. if you don't like what you see go to teh next place. no problems and no drama. just don't take anything home

Yep...but sometimes these 2 hours you have runs really quick and at the back of your mind you’re thinking...if I’m late then it will be another few excuses I’ll have to make and so far I’ve ran out of them and I’ve been bitten before...so have to play safe...

 

[c1000]

I've said this before. It's cheaper to go directly to the source.

 

[Steely]

Barflies are a dime a dozen

 

[OG_funguy]

Picking girls at the bar cost you wayyyy more effort than going to see a MPA.
Also you run the risk of screwing up your personal life as you will get emotionally attached to the bar girl and making her a mistress..most girls wont stick around as a side chick..yes the enjoyment of the chase is there but make no mistake its not easier.

This is the cheat code...fuck a new girl every now and then and keep home life separate.
This space should be to fulfill your sexual desires only..if you want emotional connection keep that with the wife or girlfriend.

At the end of the day, you're right about not having an emotional connection. But I still enjoy that with the MPAs I like, occasionally you will hit it off with an MPA and get true GFE experience (but I understand not everyone is looking for that).

 

[Barney_B]

Picking girls at the bar cost you wayyyy more effort than going to see a MPA.
Also you run the risk of screwing up your personal life as you will get emotionally attached to the bar girl and making her a mistress..most girls wont stick around as a side chick..yes the enjoyment of the chase is there but make no mistake its not easier.

This is the cheat code...fuck a new girl every now and then and keep home life separate.
This space should be to fulfill your sexual desires only..if you want emotional connection keep that with the wife or girlfriend.

This is very sound advice.

 

[luvnewpussy]

At the end of the day, you're right about not having an emotional connection. But I still enjoy that with the MPAs I like, occasionally you will hit it off with an MPA and get true GFE experience (but I understand not everyone is looking for that).

Indeed...I separate connection vs emotional connection..when you connect with a MP..you guys have a great time..you chat..laugh..Dfk..passion..vibes are right and you leave feeling awesome. Emotional connection is where you cant function without her...you talk and complain about shit that pisses you off..you want to take her out for dinner..etc etc.. to me that is the shit you do with your "other" girl. I dont mix the 2 poisons..lol

 

[Hangdai]

Indeed...I separate connection vs emotional connection..when you connect with a MP..you guys have a great time..you chat..laugh..Dfk..passion..vibes are right and you leave feeling awesome. Emotional connection is where you cant function with her...you talk and complain about shit that pisses you off..you want to take her out for dinner..etc etc.. to me that is shit you do with your "other" girl. I dont mix the 2 poisons..lol

Just stick with the ladies that can't speak your language, so much easier. I know, hard for you Asian guys since most sex workers are Chinese.
Words tend to cloud your perception that you're just there to fuck them, period!

I loved getting close, never regretted that feeling, but once you get in, I've regretted it every single time.

The ladies seem immune to it, or as Ursus would say, it's in their evil nature to fuck over as many guys as they can.