I broke the golden rule

[Voland]

I do feel different about her, than before.
I should just end it with great memories and move on.

Yes. Exactly! Walk this way.

Do YOURSELF a favor and say 'No' to the constant desire to see her.

'No' - is the very powerful word that will help you in this matter. 'No' kinda liberates you.

 

[hangul99]

I would not see her again. Move on to other girls. You mentioned that the spa is close to your house. Are there no other girls working at that location that you would like to see?

 

[gcoogieben]

This is a very special thread. I’m really impressed with all the valuable information everyone has given to this community. Even KrayJee, Leviathan, and Ursus’ input has been on the mark.

One thing that unites us all is regardless of our dynamic with these providers whether it’s a good or bad experience it really is still an us vs. them game.

These particular women are different then the civvie women we work with and befriend in our normal lives. They’re very unpredictable and unstable and yet we go to them in our most vulnerable states (naked, or telling them our secrets, or showing up to them when we’re emotionally vulnerable, or wanting attention).

This is in my opinion the forums shining moment when everyone has gathered to help a fellow member prevent himself from losing his rocker and help others learn and prevent this from happening.

Regardless of what happens going forward with members, I will always remember this thread with fondness and respect for you all.

 

[Ursus]

Actually, I got a great return on my investment. A spa located 5 minutes from my doorstop ( save travel costs), appointments always kept, a full hour of DFK, bbbj, Daty, and sex, with a lady with my perfect image of a Asian Milf body, face, and attitude, with as many sogs as I wanted , which was 3 sogs on a low day and up to 6 sogs at my peak.
Her original price for me? $50 hour room fee and $100 tip. Obviously I paid more after my first visit but never at her urging.
She never asked for anything except for urging me to try another girl (instead of herself) to give the other girl some business on a slow day.

In my case, this is purely about my ability to control my “own” emotions, not about any she devil gold digging wicked bitch.

Well if she gave you 1 hour of great sex for $150, and that included 3 - 6 SOG with DFK, DATY and everything else, then I think you still owe her, OMFG. That is a steal of a deal. I would continue to go and just realize that she doesn't want you. But really, who cares? Do you really want to 'rescue' a hooker and start a life with her? There is a reason why a hooker is a hooker. They aren't the best girls out there for available gentleman. You can do better than dating a hooker. So, just book this girl again and treat her as you would any other sex worker. Exchange money for sex and then go live your life after the appt.

 

[Ursus]

Hangdai,

If you had a special girlfriend but you found out she had sex with another guy, would you stay with her? If you found out she had sex with even more men, would you still want her? Not Likely.

So, why do you want a sex worker who has sex with 5,000 or more men in a short few years of time?

Is that the best you think you can do with women? Give yourself more credit than that.

The girl you love will open her legs for any man with merely five $20 bills in his pocket. Think about that. Given inflation over the past 10 years, she is actually fucking and sucking any man with about three $20 bills in his pocket. Three $20 bills, adjusted for inflation, and she will do anything with any man that comes to the door.

 

[Steeper]

I usually hobby 2-3 times per week, so I am distracted by other ladies, and really do have a nice rotation of ladies at semi-legits and SP’s.
I’ve tested my urges by skipping a week with her once in a while, and yes, it always was a great reunion after waiting 2 weeks.

I know she’ll be glad to see me and my cash, the true test is how I’ll handle it.

It’s weird, there are several other ladies who provide me with as good as service and price, are actually younger and prettier, but this lady has me all tied up in knots.

Hangdai you were doing DFK with her your DNA is compatible with each other ,like nicotine or cocaine hooks you for life,your a good couple for mating natures way

 

[Hangdai]

Yes. Exactly! Walk this way.

Do YOURSELF a favor and say 'No' to the constant desire to see her.

'No' - is the very powerful word that will help you in this matter. 'No' kinda liberates you.

You kinda nailed it on the head, better to jump off now while the memories and feelings are still civil.

I keep reminding myself it’s not the end of the world, just an end to an unhealthy addiction/obsession. That could be said overall on my view on ladies and sex.

I’m just waiting for the day when little Hangdai isn’t up for the occasion anymore, life should get more simple.

 

[Hangdai]

This is a very special thread. I’m really impressed with all the valuable information everyone has given to this community. Even KrayJee, Leviathan, and Ursus’ input has been on the mark.

One thing that unites us all is regardless of our dynamic with these providers whether it’s a good or bad experience it really is still an us vs. them game.

These particular women are different then the civvie women we work with and befriend in our normal lives. They’re very unpredictable and unstable and yet we go to them in our most vulnerable states (naked, or telling them our secrets, or showing up to them when we’re emotionally vulnerable, or wanting attention).

This is in my opinion the forums shining moment when everyone has gathered to help a fellow member prevent himself from losing his rocker and help others learn and prevent this from happening.

Regardless of what happens going forward with members, I will always remember this thread with fondness and respect for you all.

I agree, it’s not like I can talk to my neighbour, friends or coworkers about this.

Even though we can easily pay for the company of women , you still feel like your alone on a desert island, angonizing through your thoughts.

 

[Hangdai]

But it will be different now that YOU are different.

Yes it will, there is something to be said for being oblivious to the reality of things.

 

[krayjee]

I agree, it’s not like I can talk to my neighbour, friends or coworkers about this.

Even though we can easily pay for the company of women , you still feel like your alone on a desert island, angonizing through your thoughts.

Hey... Move your ass and come over this evening to JR. The door fee is on me. I will have Thai Jenny or wild and crazy Tina for you. Tina can make your pain go away in no time.

 

[Hangdai]

Hey... Move your ass and come over this evening to JR. The door fee is on me. I will have Thai Jenny or wild and crazy Tina for you. Tina can make your pain go away in no time.

Thanks for the offer, plans already made for tonight,

was thinking of dropping by tomorrow to see ZouZou. I swear, if she had decent english, she probably could sweet talk me into anything.

 

[krayjee]

Thanks for the offer, plans already made for tonight,

was thinking of dropping by tomorrow to see ZouZou. I swear, if she had decent english, she probably could sweet talk me into anything.

I won't be there tomorrow but let me know if you are going and I will tell the receptionist it's on me. I would suggest you see Mia, Yuki or Olivia if you are into younger girls. Yuki is my choice followed by Miya and Olivia bcuz of her liberal friendly attitude. If you want a mature one, Eliza who is Jessyhay's fav. Zou zou is offf tmrw and I can guarantee these girls are more fun to be with.

 

[Ursus]

Hey Krayjee,

Can I post some of the shit that sex workers have done to me and then get free door fees too? I could post some texts that would probably make you want to give me free door fees for life.
But when I do post texts, all the sensitive guys can't handle it. So, better I don't do that.

After today, 3 escorts have begged me to come see them, offered me reduced fees etc. It gets boring as fuck, but the texts are amusing, that's for sure.

 

[Hangdai]

then I think you still owe her, OMFG. That is a steal of a deal..

Like I said previously, that’s the typical initial AMP Holistic price, but I always paid her at least $200, which is in line with many SP hourly rates.
She also benefitted from a steady weekly regular, and the occasional extra tips and gifts cause you all know, um err, I was trying to be a good romantic boyfriend.

 

[Hangdai]

I won't be there tomorrow but let me know if you are going and I will tell the receptionist it's on me. I would suggest you see Mia, Yuki or Olivia if you are into younger girls. Yuki is my choice followed by Miya and Olivia bcuz of her liberal friendly attitude. If you want a mature one, Eliza who is Jessyhay's fav. Zou zou is offf tmrw and I can guarantee these girls are more fun to be with.

Discovered the best cure for women troubles, just see other women, lol.

KJ was true to his word, booked me and paid room fee for Yuki. Not usually my type cause she looks too young for me, but yes, she’s gorgeous, slim, fairly good English and quite funny at times. Even though looks young, really, really good massage, I was surprised how good.
She executed that famous underneath move from KJs video that made its rounds, made me real happy x2.

 

[TheKWguy]

Discovered the best cure for women troubles, just see other women, lol.

KJ was true to his word, booked me and paid room fee for Yuki. Not usually my type cause she looks too young for me, but yes, she’s gorgeous, slim, fairly good English and quite funny at times. Even though looks young, really, really good massage, I was surprised how good.
She executed that famous underneath move from KJs video that made its rounds, made me real happy x2.

KJ that was a classy move

 

[papaya]

Discovered the best cure for women troubles, just see other women, lol.

KJ was true to his word, booked me and paid room fee for Yuki. Not usually my type cause she looks too young for me, but yes, she’s gorgeous, slim, fairly good English and quite funny at times. Even though looks young, really, really good massage, I was surprised how good.
She executed that famous underneath move from KJs video that made its rounds, made me real happy x2.

Just don't fall for her!
ps. Remember it is just a business transaction.

 

[Homerun001]

Just don't fall for her!
ps. Remember it is just a business transaction.

A good friend of mine was seeing an MPA outside of the normal place of service and fell in love with her and knew the complications. The MPA told him she never saw any clients outside of work.. well well.. he some how saw some of her text messages and he was number 4 of active boyfriends she was seeing weekly and providing services at her place or their places.. he is devastated and I urged him to write his story on here to help guys on the fence of should I or should I not... bottom line is, if you don't like to share your woman with anyone then you can stick with the golden rule and save yourself alot of stress etc.. it's not worth it..

 

[Ursus]

Discovered the best cure for women troubles, just see other women, lol.

KJ was true to his word, booked me and paid room fee for Yuki. Not usually my type cause she looks too young for me, but yes, she’s gorgeous, slim, fairly good English and quite funny at times. Even though looks young, really, really good massage, I was surprised how good.
She executed that famous underneath move from KJs video that made its rounds, made me real happy x2.

Krayjee/Papaya - tomato/tomatoe, its all the same. Anyways, on to more important things.

This line of yours made me smile - 'Not usually my type cause she looks too young for me' Why do guys always feel the need to lie and suggest that they aren't attracted to younger looking girls. I never understand this. To me, the younger, the better. 17 is prefect imho.

 

[Hangdai]

.. he is devastated and I urged him to write his story on here to help guys on the fence of should I or should I not... bottom line is, if you don't like to share your woman with anyone then you can stick with the golden rule and save yourself alot of stress etc.. it's not worth it..

Great advice, that’s so true, all of us know that the lady does see many other men, but jealousy is kept at bay cause in the time you are with the lady, I don’t “see” any other guys.
But the mental image or the realization in your friends example, that he was not even 1% more special has such a effect on a mans emotion.
Men’s physical needs are easily met, it’s the emotional ones that carry 10x the impact.