I'm not @
sweetbabyjamie but I will say this, if I could sense that you're generally a shy person, I won't push the conversation. But if I don't see any physical response to what I'm doing, I do ask if everything is going well throughout the session, just to make sure you're having a good time. I get that not everyone is a chatty person and I don't like forcing conversation as well.
The only time where quietness during the finish became problematic was when a client is...let's say throughout the session, he was not as solid as I would expect from someone who is supposed to be having a good time. I kept asking if things are going well and he would say yes but eventually when it came time for the deed, it happened quickly and unfortunately when I was switching positions so I wasn't able to drive it home so to speak. There was no movement to indicate that it was about to happen, nor did he say anything. I felt so bad for him and had I known that it was about to happen, I would've just kept going for the finishing touch.