MPA review of clients

[Venus Milo]

We women can certainly have a great time in a lot of sexual situations without having an orgasm. But unfortunately for some men, they either don't believe it or refuse to accept it because of their own ego.

 

[MicJay]

We women can certainly have a great time in a lot of sexual situations without having an orgasm. But unfortunately for some men, they either don't believe it or refuse to accept it because of their own ego.

I guess that’s obviously a / the difference between men and women (exceptions prove the rule).

I don’t concur that because of their ego (many) men have difficulties to believe a woman who tells she’s having a great time without having an orgasm. Maybe some guys see it as an ego-thing.

But as for most men I know, including myself ;-) having an orgasm is just the natural part of having sexual fun.

I think a lot of men simply conclude from their own experience of sexuality that women feel and experience it likewise.

And I have to admit that if hear women telling about the magnificence of having an orgasm, it seems somewhat odd if they claim at the same time not having one is still as good as having one.

But that’s possibly a limited man’s view.


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[rhuarc]

I'm generally a quiet person in the session. Very little talking from me. If the MPA asks me a question, I usually answer as long as it's not too personal. But I never instigate the chit chat and I don't make noises or say "I'm cumming" when I finish. Does it matter to the MPA if I'm quiet or do you prefer for us to be more vocal?

I would love to hear from @sweetbabyjamie in this thread.

Hahaha, I'm told I'm the same way. I can have a great convo with the MPA as we start into the session but when the stuff goes down I tend to quiet down. That goes for SPs and civvies too, during the deed. I have to work on that, because as sweetbabyjamie said, it's hard for your partner to get a reference point if you're not giving them anything to work with. It just feels unnatural for me moan, groan or grunt during sex, no matter how good it is.

 

[thedirtyone]

Hahaha, I'm told I'm the same way. I can have a great convo with the MPA as we start into the session but when the stuff goes down I tend to quiet down. That goes for SPs and civvies too, during the deed. I have to work on that, because as sweetbabyjamie said, it's hard for your partner to get a reference point if you're not giving them anything to work with. It just feels unnatural for me moan, groan or grunt during sex, no matter how good it is.

I've had MPAs who can't tell when a guy is about to cum. I'm not even talking about newbie MPAs either. You'd think they would learn how the organ works by them but they would get pissed off if it happens without me "warning" them. Not like I was aiming towards their face or hair or anything. It wasn't even directed towards their body. But these MPAs tend to be those that let go as soon as the deed is done without properly finishing the job.

And yes, it feels fucking weird to make one of those grunting faces while screaming "yeah, I'm CUMMMMMMINNNNNGGGGGGGG!!!!!!!111one"

And on Venus' point about men who rely too much on porn, I feel like some MPAs do that too. They think the porn shit is the only way we would enjoy a session. The fake moaning, all the babe talk, the constant position changing and the bad dirty talk you can only hear in a gonzo porn. I've seen this in many strip clubs too but I generally prefer like I'm in the room with a real person over a wannabe-pornstar.

 

[snoopdoggie]

Hey I have a question for you mpa's that I don't think anyone has asked on here. And I think most guys want to ask about this. Does the mileage that a client gets really depend on how much hair he has around his balls? Does an mpa's service level (bbbjs, fs) increase if the client is freshly shaved in that area, or is it ok to be neatly trimmed? Jaime, Ana Maria, SweetCheeks, Daniella, what's your personal view on this please? And many thanks.

 

[sweetbabyjamie]

Hey I have a question for you mpa's that I don't think anyone has asked on here. And I think most guys want to ask about this. Does the mileage that a client gets really depend on how much hair he has around his balls? Does an mpa's service level (bbbjs, fs) increase if the client is freshly shaved in that area, or is it ok to be neatly trimmed? Jaime, Ana Maria, SweetCheeks, Daniella, what's your personal view on this please? And many thanks.

When you are well shaved down there i am more turned on to wanna do those things... vs with hair hehe <3

 

[snoopdoggie]

When you are well shaved down there i am more turned on to wanna do those things... vs with hair hehe <3

Thanks for your honesty Jaime. I'll make sure my skin is very smooooooth for you.

What about you other ladies please?

 

[SweetCheeks]

I don’t expect a full on wax but just general grooming..... no one wants to go through a forest

 

[sweetbabyjamie]

Thanks for your honesty Jaime. I'll make sure my skin is very smooooooth for you.

What about you other ladies please?

Hehe you better ; ) <3 ill make sure my booty is spankable for u

 

[snoopdoggie]

Hehe you better ; ) <3 ill make sure my booty is spankable for u

Don't worry, I'll spank it good, you naughty little girl. Lol

 

[snoopdoggie]

I don’t expect a full on wax but just general grooming..... no one wants to go through a forest

Ha ha ha. Thanks SweetCheeks.

 

[qinging]

Hehe you better ; ) <3 ill make sure my booty is spankable for u

Is there enough time left in 2018 for Snoop to make it?

https://days.to/1-january/2019

 

[Venus Milo]

I guess that’s obviously a / the difference between men and women (exceptions prove the rule).
I don’t concur that because of their ego (many) men have difficulties to believe a woman who tells she’s having a great time without having an orgasm. Maybe some guys see it as an ego-thing. But as for most men I know, including myself ;-) having an orgasm is just the natural part of having sexual fun. I think a lot of men simply conclude from their own experience of sexuality that women feel and experience it likewise.

And I have to admit that if hear women telling about the magnificence of having an orgasm, it seems somewhat odd if they claim at the same time not having one is still as good as having one.

But that’s possibly a limited man’s view.

Let me ask you this. When you meet a pretty girl at a bar or club, you flirt, hit it off, and things go so great to the point that you get to make out with her, would you consider that to be a terrible time simply because you didn't ejaculate all over the bar floor? I know a lot of men that would answer no to that. Orgasms, while great, are not the only thing that makes an experience an enjoyable one. So your analogy where because we love having orgasms, not having one means the experience is bad is wrong. And sorry, but if your guy friends think they can equate what makes a satisfactory sexual experience for women based on their male experiences, then I'm afraid they know nothing Jon Snow.

And lots of women do not have orgasms during sexual intercourse but they still enjoy sex. And during a session, I enjoy the conversation I have with some men. I enjoy the way they touch me. I enjoy knowing the pleasure I bring them. I enjoy the time spent in the room. The lack of an orgasm does not mean I didn't have a good time.

Finally, say even if we MPAs are open to the idea of having clients give us orgasms, it doesn't mean we want to have them with every client. Just like how men don't find sexual pleasure n everyone, we feel the same. You pay MPAs to provide that pleasurable moment but you get a choice as to who it is with. We don't get a choice on who we get to see for the most part and if you feel that MPAs should be expected to experience an orgasm while they work, then at the very least give us the choice on who we get to experience that with rather than pretending to do us favours when really you just want to further rock your own boat.

 

[Venus Milo]

I'm generally a quiet person in the session. Very little talking from me. If the MPA asks me a question, I usually answer as long as it's not too personal. But I never instigate the chit chat and I don't make noises or say "I'm cumming" when I finish. Does it matter to the MPA if I'm quiet or do you prefer for us to be more vocal?

I would love to hear from @sweetbabyjamie in this thread.

I'm not @sweetbabyjamie but I will say this, if I could sense that you're generally a shy person, I won't push the conversation. But if I don't see any physical response to what I'm doing, I do ask if everything is going well throughout the session, just to make sure you're having a good time. I get that not everyone is a chatty person and I don't like forcing conversation as well.

The only time where quietness during the finish became problematic was when a client is...let's say throughout the session, he was not as solid as I would expect from someone who is supposed to be having a good time. I kept asking if things are going well and he would say yes but eventually when it came time for the deed, it happened quickly and unfortunately when I was switching positions so I wasn't able to drive it home so to speak. There was no movement to indicate that it was about to happen, nor did he say anything. I felt so bad for him and had I known that it was about to happen, I would've just kept going for the finishing touch.

 

[Venus Milo]

Question: what percentage of women want you to lay off after they cum because they are sensitive? Is it proper etiquette to stop flicking once she squirms? Question2 why don't you ask him to switch or change instead of faking cumming and saying you're sensitive.

Every woman is different. Men too. I find some men want to me to keep stroking or touch the tip after the deed while others feel pain from being super sensitive if there's any contact afterward.

 

[Venus Milo]

I've had MPAs who can't tell when a guy is about to cum. I'm not even talking about newbie MPAs either. You'd think they would learn how the organ works by them but they would get pissed off if it happens without me "warning" them. Not like I was aiming towards their face or hair or anything. It wasn't even directed towards their body. But these MPAs tend to be those that let go as soon as the deed is done without properly finishing the job.

And yes, it feels fucking weird to make one of those grunting faces while screaming "yeah, I'm CUMMMMMMINNNNNGGGGGGGG!!!!!!!111one"

Not everyone gives obvious physical signs that they're about to cum. Case in point with my example above. And even if there are signs, by the time we notice it, it's usually too late. I can't speak for all ladies but personally, by letting me know when it's about to happen, I can adjust the intensity to (hopefully) give you a more satisfactory finish, or at least know not to stop and keep doing what I'm doing or anything that you enjoy which I'm open to.

And some men really do like grunting. It's even more funny when there's not much coming out but they scream like they painted a wall.

 

[Venus Milo]

Hey I have a question for you mpa's that I don't think anyone has asked on here. And I think most guys want to ask about this. Does the mileage that a client gets really depend on how much hair he has around his balls? Does an mpa's service level (bbbjs, fs) increase if the client is freshly shaved in that area, or is it ok to be neatly trimmed? Jaime, Ana Maria, SweetCheeks, Daniella, what's your personal view on this please? And many thanks.

One thing to note is that stubble down there can make for a painful body slide. And long hair can make for a messy finish even without extras.

 

[MicJay]

Well, I basically agree with your arguments. I didn’t mean to say the only good time a man can have with a girl is having an orgasm. Of course having a good conversation, with a girl, watching a movie together etc. etc. can be a lot of fun.
My statement was limited to the pure sexual act (including foreplay etc). I just wanted to point out that when a man and a woman have reached the point of engaging in sexual activity it seems that for (most) men reaching an orgasm is the natural part / aim of the activity. Whereas for women it seems - and you tell me - engaging in sexual activity without reaching an orgasm is still a lot of fun. And that’s the difference between men and women. I would presume that most man wouldn’t subscribe to the idea that engaging in sexual activity without reaching an orgasm is a lot of fun. It can be nice - of course - but being unable to reach orgasm would leave most men somehow not satisfied (not to mention the “blue balls experience“ some guys tell about from time to time).
And of course providing sexual activities / pleasure as a service is a quite different thing than engaging in it personally / privately.


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[King Arthur]

Let me ask you this. When you meet a pretty girl at a bar or club, you flirt, hit it off, and things go so great to the point that you get to make out with her, would you consider that to be a terrible time simply because you didn't ejaculate all over the bar floor? .

Not sure how many guys hobbying at spas are still meeting girls at the club lol even the bar, but I get the idea.

 

[thedirtyone]

And some men really do like grunting. It's even more funny when there's not much coming out but they scream like they painted a wall.

This just made me die from laughter. Holy shit I can;t stop laughing.