The elements of a great sensual massage

[Zilch]

Also, Don't drop the gun when it goes off! Make it last as long as possible. Nothing worse than her going for the tissues, when you are still on cloud nine.

 

[Hoof Hearted]

Personality is the most erotic element of a sensual massage (& come to think of it FS).
Unfortunately it is the one skill you can't teach someone.

 

[chrisbrownismine]

hi, couger kay here, totaly agree 100% that is what a erotic massage should be, whats a bit of touching, sucking the boobs etc 2 me it gives the 1 doing the massage sum fun,

 

[LadySupport]

This thread has been hugely helpful... Much appreciated

 

[David P]

Its good to hear that response Reviewom one of our WGs. I always try to establish very early in the massage what the boundaries are if any. In my experience mutual touch leads to a much more exciting time for both parties. The very best sensual massages have been where I have been able to mirror the actions and touch of the masseuse back on her own body leading to the ultimate experience in which the masseuse achieves a very genuine orgasm simultaneously with my own climax. This has happened a number of times for me and has always been hugely memorable.

 

[lichen]

try pam out west great experience

 

[kslice687]

no, it just make's for a sexier experience

 

[Laura B]

Some great descriptions on what makes a sensual massage 'sensual'.. I concur on most counts.

I'm definitely a sensual massage convert. But for me it's not the sensuality of the massage that attracts me (in fact I prefer a good therapeutic massage any day), what attracts me is the tease and eroticism that can (sadly not often) be associated with a sensual massage. I find the most erotic part is discovering the boundaries and wondering where it is going. For this reason there are very few girls I have gone back to. To me once you know what's going to happen a lot of the reasons for going in the first place are diluted. I'm not mpter FS and not even an R&T sometimes… if I'm unhappy with the experience I usually decline. I would only go back if the masseuse was particularly sexy and engaging or gives a great therapeutic massage worth returning for. (shame Deva is long gone)

Obviously when you go to a girl advertising a 'sensual massage' you have a fairly good idea where it is going. That said there is still plenty of mystery and intrigue as every service is different and there are boundaries to be discovered and of course the excitement of being in the company of a beautiful naked girl for the first time plays a fairly big part!! For me there's nothing worse than the clinical R&T service where all is laid 'bare' on both sides and there is no tease and no mood… I smile politely… pay the money… then walk out the door as fast as I can never to return again.

So what's my ultimate massage? Well I have yet to properly experience it but it would entail going to a normal therapeutic massage where things take a turn for the erotic. I've had plenty of 'normal' massages and never ever make any moves or drop any hints… but… I always try to be naked (seems in NZ this is usually discouraged) and I'm always hopeful the masseuse will be a little liberal with the towel and make a few teasing 'accidental' advances… notice my lack of resistance or concern and take it further and further and…. not all the way (not for me anyway)… but a long way… who knows… don't want to spoil it.

I know many Asian massages establishment offer massages that have elements of what I'm describing, however this doesn't really count as it generally par for the course and for that reason negates the desired objective.

So as I say I've yet to experience it… (no I'm not some wishful thinking old fat hairy dude ) Anyone else been lucky enough?? it's a bit hard to create the experience as the whole point of it is that it's not fabricate or expected.

Would be great to hear Reviewom anyone who could point me in the right direction

 

[just me]

strong yes, masculine sort off, halfway rapist???? whats that

every one is different, i prefer to have a look warm up before getting down and dirty

 

[yeaitsme000]

I find the most erotic part is discovering the boundaries and wondering where it is going. For this reason there are very few girls I have gone back to. To me once you know what's going to happen a lot of the reasons for going in the first place are diluted. ....... Obviously when you go to a girl advertising a 'sensual massage' you have a fairly good idea where it is going. That said there is still plenty of mystery and intrigue as every service is different and there are boundaries to be discovered and of course the excitement of being in the company of a beautiful naked girl for the first time plays a fairly big part!! For me there's nothing worse than the clinical R&T service where all is laid 'bare' on both sides and there is no tease and no mood… I smile politely… pay the money… then walk out the door as fast as I can never to return again.

So what's my ultimate massage? Well I have yet to properly experience it but it would entail going to a normal therapeutic massage where things take a turn for the erotic..... I know many Asian massages establishment offer massages that have elements of what I'm describing, however this doesn't really count as it generally par for the course and for that reason negates the desired objective.

What an interesting post and I have to say that I concur with almost everything that you have said. The fun is in the chase. If it is all presented on a plate then much of the fun has gone ... which tends to be the case with almost all advertised sensual massage services. OK there are different techniques used but ultimately it all boils down to much the same...and having come across a really great experience it is difficult to go back for a repeat because you've already seen the film and know how it ends. Sadly the alternative, and preferrable approach, becomes hugely expensive involving much trial and error ... but then if a therapeutic massage is viewed as good value of itself not too much is wasted. In many ways I often harken back to my younger years in the UK when it was all much more covert to the extent that a massage girl could be fired for offering extras and often the climax was given in the hope of a tip but not as part of a financial transaction. A particular favourite girl who I saw Reviewom t ime to time often managed to organise her position such that when massaging my upper legs for instance her forearm would 'accidentally' brush against my erect shmpt. the ejaculation that followed would happen without any acknowledgement or even change of motion by the girl who would simply massage around the pool of cum on the stomach. There was no guarantee that this service would be provided. Reviewequently I would lie there with a thumping, aching erection and would leave in the same state. There was of course no such thing as nude massage then. She would be wearing a white clinical type coat and during hot weather there was obviously little underneath, andf she would teasingly bend low to reach my toes displaying bottom and string disappearing into her crack, but boundaries were such that touching beneath the coat was a definite no-no - over the top was sometimes allowed sometimes not. It was a great and highly sensual experience that lead to many return visits on account of not knowing what to expect.
Sadly that was all in the past but it is good to keep dreaming. I think there might still be one or two 'old-fashioned' type girls out there. Give me abetter idea of what sort of person you are loking for-age, looks etc. You could PM me. If I can think of anyone who might fit the bill I will get back to you.

 

[Cathy :)]

a man in his tweenties may be turned on by a light breeze but a man in his forties needs a bit more than just lube on a pink hand. I like to think of it as the evolution of man and it is the intelligent woman who will cater to these needs as it is usually us that have the most discretionable income. You get what you pay for.............

 

[Juliet]

Sadly that was all in the past but it is good to keep dreaming. I think there might still be one or two 'old-fashioned' type girls out there.

Good point yotmaster. I think these days the girls are either open and liberal and theres no messing about… or they are the other extreme and very assertive about it. Gone are the "conservative" days when people were basically all the same as they are now but they just had to be more discrete. A good thing??? Hard to say it isn't… but there's always a downside.

 

[Mother Hubbard]

So where can I find the ultimate massage as described above and what should it cost?

 

[The Mariachi Bandit]

The fuck? I swear those first few posts weren't posted by me. Who's got my password? *glares*

 

[acidcrap]

Try Intimaate Touch. Place is discreet, good quality massage, ladies in sexy gear and you won't be dissapointed. I usually book for 2 hours and never dissapointed. My fav is my Indian temptress but depends what is your liking. Ask for descritption and the type of message they provide because each lady is different.

 

[ImpacT]

I've got to post this link.

This looks like a fnatastic SM. If there are any providers who off this level of attention, please sing out or fellow mp.nets please share.

I mean she kept him going for over 50 min. The different "handling techniques" the mpter cum attention (not just dive fore the tissue) The 2-3 min cuddle at the end. Loved it.

http://xhamster.com/movies/793717/legendary_erotic_phallus_massage_with_oil_nv.html