Opinion Orgasm versus DFK

[Gaston LaPiste]

Yeah...I'm sure the girl you think who does it "only for you bb" is doing the same thing with another guy and telling him the same things.

The day she starts giving you extras for free is when you know you hit the jackpot, that unicorn.

I have had girls giving me free time after the fun, time thats includes kissing & groping,and service discounts. Does that count?

 

[Brewsky]

I have had girls giving me free time after the fun, time thats includes kissing & groping,and service discounts. Does that count?

No, I'm talking you pay the room fee only. And you get FS for free. That's the unicorn.

Then the golden unicorn. You go to her house and get more extras for free, without a room fee.

 

[Leonard Telepathy]

No, I'm talking you pay the room fee only. And you get FS for free. That's the unicorn.

Then the golden unicorn. You go to her house and get more extras for free, without a room fee.

That’s a girlfriend.

I prefer girlfriends who only have sex with me!

 

[Brewsky]

That’s a girlfriend.

I prefer girlfriends who only have sex with me!

Naa. Girlfriend is someone you spend money on, take out on dates, eat with them, go to the movies, have to buy them gifts.

I’m talking FWB

 

[Brewsky]

ROUND the WORLD for $60 with an orgasmic beauty in mp

THAT IS WHAT I CALL

HITTING THE FREAKIN JACKPOT
too bad it's a rarity but when it happens you feel so damn lucky

Exactly, it’s rare, it might sound impossible to some hobbyists who haven’t been around the game. But trust me, it’s possible to attain.

And when you have it, you feel like a king!

 

[Gaston LaPiste]

Naa. Girlfriend is someone you spend money on, take out on dates, eat with them, go to the movies, have to buy them gifts.

I’m talking FWB

It still sounds like attachment.

Middle of the night calls.

Angry recriminations for imagined slights.

I just want to have fun without the hassle. Money isnt that much of an issue.

 

[Brewsky]

It still sounds like attachment.

Middle of the night calls.

Angry recriminations for imagined slights.

I just want to have fun without the hassle. Money isnt that much of an issue.

I have no clue what attachment there is. I have a FWB. We literally just say, "lets meet on Tuesday night". We kiss, we bang, and then drop her back off to her place. We literally don't meet unless we bang. And whenever we chat, after the "hey how are you" it goes straight to "what color panties do you have on" "show me"

 

[Phil Rockford]

I have no clue what attachment there is. I have a FWB. We literally just say, "lets meet on Tuesday night". We kiss, we bang, and then drop her back off to her place. We literally don't meet unless we bang. And whenever we chat, after the "hey how are you" it goes straight to "what color panties do you have on" "show me"

Perfect relationship!

 

[Brewsky]

Perfect relationship!

All I gotta do is be honest if I'm screwing other girls.

But I only heard "tell me if you're screwing other girls without a dome"

Which I have not, so I am not lying!

 

[Leonard Telepathy]

All I gotta do is be honest if I'm screwing other girls.

But I only heard "tell me if you're screwing other girls without a dome"

Which I have not, so I am not lying!

With the spa ladies, I am always unconcerned if she is seeing other guys, and I do not care if she likes them better than me, although irrationally I am gratified when they dump other clients to see me.

For a FWB situation, I am afraid about her trying to change the perfect nature of the relationship, and I am worried about myself also starting to get feelings and wreck it.

 

[Peter Dick Envy]

All I gotta do is be honest if I'm screwing other girls.

But I only heard "tell me if you're screwing other girls without a dome"

Which I have not, so I am not lying!

It will be hard for her to verify if you are being honest when she is not a girlfriend.

She cannot notice your mysterious absences or lack of sperm on occasion. Its a FWB using GF thinking.

 

[Phil Rockford]

All I gotta do is be honest if I'm screwing other girls.

But I only heard "tell me if you're screwing other girls without a dome"

Which I have not, so I am not lying!

I think that is a valid way to apply the “tell me” rule. Only latex free intervourse is relevant.

 

[Gaston LaPiste]

All I gotta do is be honest if I'm screwing other girls.

But I only heard "tell me if you're screwing other girls without a dome"

Which I have not, so I am not lying!

It will be hard for her to verify if you are being honest when she is not a girlfriend.

She cannot notice your mysterious absences or lack of sperm on occasion. It’s a FWB using GF thinking.

How much should a FWB demand from you ? Isn’t it just as it’ll says, a friendship that has sex but no commitment?

I have had relationships that broke down, then the girl decided we could become FWB. But in practice, it seemed like it meant she could see whoever but I could not.

 

[Brewsky]

How much should a FWB demand from you ? Isn’t it just as it’ll says, a friendship that has sex but no commitment?

I have had relationships that broke down, then the girl decided we could become FWB. But in practice, it seemed like it meant she could see whoever but I could not.

No way. FWB for mine is like “we’re humans we desire sex, we can be each others toys when we get that urge, as we both understand that we actively pursue a partner in this world”.

It’s very tricky though. You want to be honest enough to build that trust, but not too honest to where her emotions are heightened, feelings hurt and felt disrespected. It’s why I’ve only seldomly told her “hey I’m going out on a date with someone just wanted to let you know so maybe let’s take a break for 2 weeks” before coming back with the “just went on 2 dates, only kissed but didn’t really click”. Before I’m back banging my FWB

 

[Gaston LaPiste]

No way. FWB for mine is like “we’re humans we desire sex, we can be each others toys when we get that urge, as we both understand that we actively pursue a partner in this world”.

It’s very tricky though. You want to be honest enough to build that trust, but not too honest to where her emotions are heightened, feelings hurt and felt disrespected. It’s why I’ve only seldomly told her “hey I’m going out on a date with someone just wanted to let you know so maybe let’s take a break for 2 weeks” before coming back with the “just went on 2 dates, only kissed but didn’t really click”. Before I’m back banging my FWB

Cool!

Ok, remember I’m Team Dude, I endorse this. However, that date could include bbbj and sex WITH condom, and you would not report, right?

And if there was a little raw dogging, that you would report? Honour-bound?

I think if you report condomless sex, the party is over, right?

 

[Brewsky]

Cool!

Ok, remember I’m Team Dude, I endorse this. However, that date could include bbbj and sex WITH condom, and you would not report, right?

And if there was a little raw dogging, that you would report? Honour-bound?

I think if you report condomless sex, the party is over, right?

BBBJ and fun with a dome = no tell.

If I have fun without condom, I’m honestly not sure how to navigate that. One side tells me I’d do it with a girlfriend I’m serious with, so I should be honest and break it with the FWB for now.

But then you want to still keep the FWB as a backup plan. What if Gf doesn’t work out yet your FWB moved on to her Bf…but then again she might’ve moved on either way even if you didn’t break it.

 

[Peter Dick Envy]

No way. FWB for mine is like “we’re humans we desire sex, we can be each others toys when we get that urge, as we both understand that we actively pursue a partner in this world”.

It’s very tricky though. You want to be honest enough to build that trust, but not too honest to where her emotions are heightened, feelings hurt and felt disrespected. It’s why I’ve only seldomly told her “hey I’m going out on a date with someone just wanted to let you know so maybe let’s take a break for 2 weeks” before coming back with the “just went on 2 dates, only kissed but didn’t really click”. Before I’m back banging my FWB

I am definitely not used to excessive honesty with girls. I guess some measured honesty is required with FWB. I like to flirt though, just to keep girls providing more and better sex, and flirting with a FWB would be dangerous.

How do you complement & flirt enough to get herengine started without getting her heart fluttering?

 

[Leonard Telepathy]

I am definitely not used to excessive honesty with girls. I guess some measured honesty is required with FWB. I like to flirt though, just to keep girls providing more and better sex, and flirting with a FWB would be dangerous.

How do you complement & flirt enough to get herengine started without getting her heart fluttering?

Just say whatever to keep the amazing sex happening, even drop the L bomb, but make sure you apologetically admit your very busy the next little while.

Say a month.

Then still see her whenever you want! Just it’s always oh wow I’m not busy tonight.

 

[Balsafire]

ROUND the WORLD for $60 with an orgasmic beauty in mp

THAT IS WHAT I CALL

HITTING THE FREAKIN JACKPOT
too bad it's a rarity but when it happens you feel so damn lucky

So you mean $60 room fee, no tipping? So her service was free?

 

[Peter Dick Envy]

Just say whatever to keep the amazing sex happening, even drop the L bomb, but make sure you apologetically admit your very busy the next little while.

Say a month.

Then still see her whenever you want! Just it’s always oh wow I’m not busy tonight.

If you tell her you love her, that can wreck the FWB dynamic, no?