Ever fall in love with a prostitute?

[decatur052005]

CJ... great post....!
You just... you know, you just got it right ...

 

[juank243]

Alot of Mexico's wealthy are hung up on race and class. They are well known to tell foreigners ,specially the gringos that they have no Indian blood and that they are pure Spanish. When many times these wealthy Mexicanos are just wealthy fair skin mestizos ,who have an Amerindian ancestor down the line. Wealthy Mexicans love to kiss ass to the foreigners or tourist in Mexico.

Im not a gringo ,but i will venture to say that the Gringos could careless.
They go to Mexico to fuck the working girls.


But since Aminogo claims that he is 1st generation Mexicano of Spanish parents. He loves to make sure the gringos know that he isn't a real Mexicano,you know A Mexican mestizo or Mexican Indian.

He is different. Which is true.

 

[Guavas]

Guys, have we started a small battle here ! I forgot what we started here for oops it was to do with misadventure of falling in love with a BG. I cant even find my post here
Looks like we are having a heated debate, may be just what this forum needs to get it more exciting ! We have to recognize that many of us come from a different background and will have preset notions and beliefs, but that shouldnt get in the way of honest discussion and maybe even a hot debate.
We all would rather have you guys continue to post, lets just take this in our stride. Hey I am even willing to give up the damn girl who "caused" all this debate Sorry I dont mean to be condescending, just keeping the peace.

 

[Dannnnce]

I usually spent atleast$200 on chicas . It's a better deal than AMP or LMP.
In TJ you get to pick the chicas and if you get to know them they will give you real good deals.

 

[Pompal 09.]

You know I could have made this topic," how to pick up a puta" or something dumb like that. You know stuff like how to take advaneforum.xxxe of them, instead of letting them take advaneforum.xxxe of us. Because really it's the guys who in the end seem to take more advaneforum.xxxe of sex workers, then they take advaneforum.xxxe of the guys.

Perhaps, someone like Sampson who believes that, whoever controls the mind, controls the pussy could write some tips, but that's a topic for another thread. Right now I want to give these Mexican sex workers the POWER with their pussy, and see the guys as someone who is trying to not only get that pussy, but have a relationship as well.

 

[Mommy of 3 boys<3]

I think you are asking for trouble talking to her about her sister. Let's face it you may not want to marry a prostitute, but I am sure she would not want her sister to marry a client of prostitutes. Let's face it one is not better than the other.

 

[the tot]

I would definately marry my favorite chica IF she wasn't a whore. Exactly my type, Awesome sex, very cool personality. If I could find the exact same make and model but only about 18y/o, and living an innocent life somewhere down in the middle of Mexico, I would import her and have her making me a pot of beans on my own stove ASAP.

Thus, my related question...

How bad of an idea would it be for me to ask her if she has a younger virgin (or at least not a prostitute) sister interested in talking to an American? Im pretty sure I would either (a) Piss her off, or (b) cross the line into being a Schmoe; ie, having her think she can milk me as a dumbass who thinks I'm her novio. That is a line I really don't want to cross. We've banged about 10 times, know each other's real name, she gives me 1hr for 30min price, etc., but I'm not too sure about this one.



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[Barb Outhere]

Yes i agree.

 

[oikos]

Man, you should of acted as if you didn't know what she was saying and said"chula yo no comprede". (cutie i don't understand)

 

[Mickey K]

I have fallen in love with several prostitutes, and hoping to again soon.
None of these girls knew me as a client...not their client, not anyone's client.

I have found that being a wingman gets me lots of attention. Someone approaches me and I say sorry, I am married and respect my wife. I always get the, "why can't I find a guy like you?"....As time goes by if I have any interest, then I tell the girl later that I am not married, but I just say that so chicas won't bother me asking for drinks or to go to the room. Then I would see if they wanted to see me some time and go from there. I never push for sex, as I am looking for a different connection. I can have sex with anyone and it really doesn't mean much to me. I want to have a somewhat peaceful relationship, so it is important that the chica can live without drama.

I have an ex in Los Angeles right now, that is wanting to come back, but I have asked her to stay in Los Angeles for the time being. If my court date can end sometime soon, I am entertaining going to Tennessee to live to be closer to my son, and I will take her with me. She is super excited about me coming to the US as I had never indicated to her before I would go back to live. I've never given her a quarter, and she knows she won't get one when we move either. In a couple of years I will no longer be twice her age.

 

[Bubbles]

Fireballs, you brought up another good point, well that is after and down the road. Mexican wives like my former Indian wife truly belive that the way to a mans heart is through his stomach So enjoy the good food and party and gain weight you have only one life to live, only James Bond lives twice Now food is something you can control even though it may be difficult.

Point No 2, Sin condom sex. I have found during my good old sex butterfly days that 90% of the girls refuse sin condom sex. I have tried it in Adelitas and all other bars, but not all the time. Most times I am worried about STD!!!
The only time I had one was at Miami a long time ago and then I was worried, and it wasnt worth the worries.

 

[D.Russell]

I have been to Guadalajara Jalisco many times. I have been to the estados del Bajio,Jalisco,Guanajuato,San Luis Potosi.
I have been to Sinaloa,Sonora,Chihuahua,Durango,Nayarit,D,F.Baja California.


I want to visit Monterrey,Veracruz, Tabasco,Quintana Roo, Yucatan.



Yes i know the wealthier Mexicans usually are lighter skin than the average Mexicano. But you can find poor Mexicanos with fair skin green eyed Mexicanos in Jalisco,Monterrey,Zacatecas,Sinaloa,San Luis Potosi,Chihuahua.

I know a poor illegal Alien Mexicano from Monterrey with green eyes fair skin and looks very Northern European.That did not surprise me. What i found odd is that their isn't many Regios(People from Monterrey) in California. Most go to Texas.

A friend of my primos came from Los Altos de Jalisco as an illegal alien, he is blue eyed ,fair skin and when my primos intruduced him to me i thought he was French.

I will say that the most classist city in Mexico is the Cuidad de Mexico. You can clearly see the class caste system there.

 

[chiped_wood]

I been writing a lot on another site, so I used up my quota for the day. So briefly let me warn you about the greatest danger about falling in LOVE with a Mexican woman, Mexican prostitute or even hiring a Mexican cleaning lady to clean house or cook for you.

It's the FOOD some of these girls cook, it will kill you! I hate to get into stereotypes, so not all Mexican women cook like this or even cook, but a large perceneforum.xxxe of them don't know about cooking lite healthy food , and it's hard to find low cal stuff in the markets as most of Mexico doesn't even drink lite beer. But a lot of these girls just love to cook for you, but the problem is lot of the food is so unhealthy, sure they cook healthy things like Chicken, but they deep fry it in grease and serve it to you with the skin on, and the whole live style is focused on FOOD, as it seems they use any excuse for a party with plenty of food and lots and lots of beer.

My ex-brother in law passed this down to me, so I'll pass it along to you. My ex-brother in law was married 3 years deep when I met him. He was nearly pushing 200 pounds on a small frame. He took me aside and told me, your skinny now I was about 140 pounds, but he said just wait about 3 years, and your going to look like me, and I just laughed it off, Ha I told him, your kidding because I eat pretty good and workout, and he just said remember what I said.

To make a long story short after many home cooked meals from my Mexican wife, and her crazy mother and the non stop birthday parties and backyard parties on weekends I saw my ex-brother in law about 10 years later at his daughters birthday, he was divorce now and down to about 160 pounds, I on the other hand, started to look like he did when he was married, and this guy just comes up to me and smiles, and says, 'see what I told you about you gaining weight, and you didn't believe me.'

So the greatest danger of falling in LOVE with a Mexican puta is she will slowly kill you by way of your stomach if your not careful, and for sure if she isn't into healthy cooking you could end up looking like a PORKER.....I shit you not.

 

[Mandy]

No I was not speculating or guessing. There are men that come to Tijuana to avoid law enforcement and price is not an option. As someone that has had chicas work in almost every bar in Tijuana, there are guys that pay $300 for an hour in the upstairs bars. This happens, and although you and everyone on here, can get $60 for 30 minutes, there are plenty of guys that pay more.

Now if every chica in Adelitas was at $300 per hour, lots of guys would stay home, but there are guys that come 100% because of fear of law enforcement in the US.

 

[Cord]

Yup i agree with you. Guys will lie that they are fuking an Adelita hottie sin condom. Thats a bunch of bullshit.

 

[Lamia]

YOu know I believe it's over rated the amount of sin-condom sex that is going on in Tijuana, especially at a tough bar like Adelitas. If you ask me all the so-called 'season vets' and the guys looking for sin-condom sex stay away from this bar, and Chicago bar where it's fairly tough to get sin-condom sex, anal sex, or even simple DFK kissing!

If you guys don't believe me just go up to a chica in Adelitas and ask for sin-condom sex. or anal sex....the girls 90% of them will say NO. Now some will say it's different if you ask them in the room, it could be, but at the same time, the ones that said no downstairs, will change their mind when upstairs. You know AB is one of the few bars where the girls will bug you asking you to buy them a drink, or take them upstairs. Next time try what I do, I say, I want sin-condom sex, anal sex, and DFK kissing...............and they just walk away from me. ( that's one way I get rid of them...I ask for pictures too, and they say no)

I'm not going to say sin-condom sex doesn't happen, because it does, and some bars are better than others if that's what your looking for. Besides you have some local guys refusing to wear a condom, along with many US citizens asking for the same thing, but at the same time you have these girls not on any birth control who don't want to catch any STDS, and they are pretty good at saying no.

And don't forget guys lie too, I seen a few reports on other sites claiming some guys are fucking popular living legends in AB, and I'm almost certain it's BULLSHIT.

And the STD/HIV statistics seem to back what I'm say up, as the STD/HIV rates are fairly low in Tijuana compared to other well known mongering destinations like SEA,

 

[Alexis M]

Let's get a few things straight: When you "fall in love" with a prostitute, especially in Mexico, you are not falling in love - period.

You are falling into lust with a body that probably fucks you real good. You are falling into lust with that Latina presentation, the exotic morena or Mexicana, you love the "edge" on the "relationship." Maybe you never had a girl suck your dick with the experience that only a girl who sucked a thousand dicks before could have. Who wouldn't like that especially of she did an outstanding job?

She might be "nice to talk to," but who isn't after going arriba and blowing your mind, or looking good on the floor, seforum.xxxe or posting in the alley? It's all so "new," and exciting isn't it?

The reality is that there are so many layers of living between you and the girl next door that it could take a lifetime for her to catch up with you just on a cultural level. That is, if she ever caught up at all.

Living the gringo life is so far in the opposite direction from the life that she lives it's doubtfull she'll ever fully understand or appreciate your situation except to the extent she gets stuff for free or better yet, get's into your wallet. Mexicana is a way of life and taking the girl out of that is truly taking a fish out of water. Often times that is what dooms the relationship to failure. I know, it happened to me after 15 years. My ex was not from the industry, but she was from Mexico, so I know a bit about it (not everything, just a bit).

The only thing a monger has in common with a whore is sex, doesn't matter where they are from. Both do well in that environment, both comunicate easily on the subject and both enjoy the novelty of being together outside the industry if the chemistry is right but the novelty wears off when she realizes that YOU will not be putting her kids through school so she'd better get back to the club.

Soon the real person (both players) emerges and by then the thrill is gone anyway because both were in it only for the sex to start with. Paying for sex is hardly a healthy basis or foundation upon which to build a relationship unless you are comfortable with being a full-time client.

It's tough to get the girl to see you any other way than a source of income as opposed to a source of affection and attention on a "love" routine. Most are not educated and come from very unsophisticated backgrounds, but this can be a good thing. When her career has been prostitution, sex without love, issues of trust and confidence become major problems.

You have to be willing to take on the baggage and then deal with it by accepting the things you can't change, and working with it. Same is true for her. The willingness and wisdom to know the difference is what I think fucks people up.

You have to choose carefully. This "love at first sight" stuff is bullshit to be sure, but applied to a prostitute it is beyond bullshit, I can't even think of an adjective. Maybe "buffoonery".

If you happen upon a girl that you like and are willing to do your due dilligence, then wait until you complete that step before "falling in love" like a stoopid shit.

Country John

 

[ShineUmbreon]

Rico ... I have to disagree with you on this ... maybe for $60 adelitas is a deal but if they were charging lets say $200 to $300 like an american escort you would be able to hear a cricket sing in the place. An depending on your wallet you don't have to worry about pics or vice in america ... its only at the low end .. SW's and AMP is that a concern... at the escort level or "out call" the risks are minimum.. but then who wants to pay those kinds of rates.. . I myself am thankful for all of the bonita senoritas at adelitas ...

 

[gaBed]

I will stay out of the politics, but about the price...there is a faction of people that will cross the border to pay the same price for a number of reasons:

1) no vice cops, and even if you run into curruption it is inexpensive compared to having your pic in the paper, etc...like in the US

2) even though places like Adelitas give genuinely mechanical bad service, it is still better than what most US providers offer.

 

[Tyrannosaurus Rex]

OCHobby, prey that YOU don't fall for one.
Sooner or later there will be a hooker that will hook you without you noticing.
And her craft will be so good that she will suck you dry so fast that you'll think "Oh boy, am in love".

Don't claim "am inmune"... NONE of us are inmune.
None.