What are ur advice for single young guys who are in this just for some fun n taste before marriage. Baaki, koi bhi cheez ke uper obsess karne se hamesha nuksan hi hota hai. But if u can control urself n ur temptations like MM bhai than moderation may I think it's nt a crime. Kash india mein strip clubs hote adult entertainment ke liye-i cannot logically understand itna jayda culture ka issue hai toh saari western cheeze band karo including malls n Western wears
Bhai, enjoy yourself but don't fall a prey to their games. Always keep in your mind that the beautiful chick who is acting like your dasi is dping it only for money. For all practical purposes, she is a sex worker....whatever else she may pretend like "Mai aur kisi ke sath nahi jaati" or "Iske pehle mujhe maza nahi aata tha" or "Aap kitne ache ho, aap mera kitna khayal rakhte ho" etc
There are communities from North India who are traditionally into this work. Over centuries, they have perfected the art of fleecing rich people, even kings and zamindars. Kai riyasate nilam ho gayi hai inke chakkar mein. They lay a trap and an unsuspecting patron is slowly lured into it by the promise of a beautiful pussy. The entire family of the girl are involved in looting you.
Have a clear picture and you will never ever fall in their trap. Understand this:
1) They are only after your money.
2) You are not
Adonis that a 18 year old will get bowled over by you.
3) You may be well off but have a long way away from being Mukesh Ambani, so what you give to them has to be in proportion to what you earn. (Basically the spending should not affect your financial well being)
4) Never sell assets to "help" this damsel in distress.
5) Worse still is never take a loan for this purpose.
6)Even if you spend
one crore a year on her, still her financial problems will not get solved.
7) She and her family members can use government hospitals for treatment.
8) She can and invariably does sleep with others behind your back. (Any amount of checking will only lead to heart ache for you)
9) Her insistence that you should not see other girls is not due to love but because she wants you in her trap untill you bleed white.
10) They know your weakness is your family and in extreme cases would threaten to expose you. (Some even wait under your building, etc) Keep cool in such situations and drop her like hot potato.
11) Nat community from Rajasthan, UP etc ask you to perform a small pooja before you bed their Pooja. It is like you are married. Then you get fucked and not the girl.
12) They do not have sex with you on a daily basis. Max once in 15 days. They know how to keep your interest going.