dance bars in navi mumbai

[Raj k]

Hi,

I am in a big trouble friends right now. I don’t know how to write my situation and should i write it or not.
Please i want some good suggestions to get rid of this situation and please don’t make fun of me.

I am a guy who is regular at db ob from more than 15 years and I don’t fell in trap of this girls.
But now i have find myself in very uncomfortable situation.

I have started to have some feeling for a particular girl in a bar and I am not able to forget her.

Maybe she is not a Angel looking but for me she is beautiful than angel.
Few of my friends ask me to take her to bed so that her charm will fade away but i can assure it is not about lust as i didn’t even touch her inappropriate when i visit her several time from last few months and i know if i will do this the situation will worsen.

She is very cooperative and she doesn’t demand anything and always care for me.

But i want to get out of this situation as she is 24hrs controlling my mind.
My business is facing loss as my decision making is becoming worse day by day.
I am not able to handle my family and staffs well and i always shout on each of them every time.

I always feel to cry and sleep.
I have stopped drinking and smoking and visiting other bar or girls after i meet her.

I am going deep in depression.
None of my friends able to help me out of this situation.

We are starting a new business in other city where my brother willgo and take care of the business.
I thought i should move out from Mumbai and shift there so i can be away from her.
In that case i will visit Mumbai after 4/5 months.
Will these will help?
Should i call her and tell i am moving out?


I want to post this problem as my friends problem,but I don’t have that much of energy to make a story.
My energy level is totally soak.

Just want to get out of this situation without hurting the girl sentiment.

U didn't fuck her is ur biggest mistake

Girls want lil money more emotions

I had a girl on whom i spent around 30-40 thousands in a week like 4-5 k daily

She said collection karao fir milungi so i did and she was a nice dancer slim fit 22 years

Randi ne 8th day pe no and bar chance kar diya

I took her info n went to the new bar where she started working.. Paid caption 500 and told him to throw 500.. 500.. 500.. Directly on her face

She started crying on the floor

Caption said to her paisa chaiye to ruk she waited

Mera ego pura huwa n paisa barbad huwa u get nothing

We pay to girls.. Our loss.. We get no satisfaction

Girls get sex + money

 

[Raj k]

U didn't fuck her is ur biggest mistake

Girls want lil money more emotions

I had a girl on whom i spent around 30-40 thousands in a week like 4-5 k daily

She said collection karao fir milungi so i did and she was a nice dancer slim fit 22 years

Randi ne 8th day pe no and bar chance kar diya

I took her info n went to the new bar where she started working.. Paid caption 500 and told him to throw 500.. 500.. 500.. Directly on her face

She started crying on the floor

Caption said to her paisa chaiye to ruk she waited

Mera ego pura huwa n paisa barbad huwa u get nothing

We pay to girls.. Our loss.. We get no satisfaction

Girls get sex + money

Sari k sari randiya h

Koi sab k sath soti h or bolti b h k soyi

Koi sab k sath so k bolti h me nahi jati

Koi surf bf k sath soti h jab tak wo paise deta h

 

[Uncle Sam]

You guys sounds like just my friends,
They do such give advice
Better i stay away from her as i cannot hurt her

This is the chick I was talking about.
I had bought her purple jeep. She was broke. And in US, without car one is handicapped. So got her the jeep.

She wore purple dress that day when we went to close the deal for the Jeep. Same color as the jeep.



Had spent hefty cash on her to get her out of prostitution. Did her resume and helped her get a job. But eventually a randi is a randi. Learned my lessons. Eye opener. Nothing is more important than family.

I was lucky - the jeep I had registered on my name. She wasn’t ready to return it to me. Its a whole different story how I got it back from her.

Got the jeep back from her and then blackmailed her. Fucked her free for 3 times.

And now I keep all these bar girls, prostitutes, etc. on my dick. Doesn’t matter how they behave with me. To all these randi’s, we should do less talking. Most of it should be done by our dick.

 

[Uncle Sam]

And now the jeep looks a lot better next to my beloved Camry.



I’ve always said - A randi loves money more than anything. Pretty woman is a good movie. But its not realistic.

Its hard for a Monger to be this way until he learns his lessons. I have learned mine. Have you?

 

[Uncle Sam]

Maybe 20-25k more...
Bhai ye sab hotel me ya bahar b toh acche se 25-30k me hojata...
Itna extra paisa dia...
Waah sahi h boss....

50k in VIP is a joke.
I got a chicks contact in Heaven 6 OB after spending 15k on her.

She’s worth 15-20k for whole night. Total is still less than 50k and it also guarantees sex with her.

Trying to finish my current project. Will be back to Mumbai in next few months. This time it will be bigger marathon FR’s than last time.

 

[orient longman]

U didn't fuck her is ur biggest mistake
Girls want lil money more emotions
I had a girl on whom i spent around 30-40 thousands in a week like 4-5 k daily
...
...
Mera ego pura huwa n paisa barbad huwa u get nothing
We pay to girls.. Our loss.. We get no satisfaction
Girls get sex + money

Your previous post (in reply to Devil) would apply to yourself too: "Itne me bangkok ho k ata"

I am sure you understand that these girls+DB Ambience seems to have some kind of mesmerizing affect on us. Most of us get caught in the flow of activities in the DB and end up spending a lot of money, which in hindsight might appear wasteful.

As long as you had fun spending the money, it's all good.
if you can learn from your past mistakes, that's even better.
if you choose to repeat past mistakes, make sure you have a ton of fun along the way

 

[devilszone06]

Guys a sincere request to all who read

Kindly don’t teach me or tell me how much can be done in how much money and all.... it’s a post read it and leave it...... (if u don’t like it)

It was not for any info about any bar or gal.....

It was an experience which was shared.... not questions asked to anyone.....

And even if u wish to put ur suggestions atleast pls read and understand post before commenting....

I clearly mentioned the chick wud have done for free outside but the money was spent cos I was using some premises at that time when it is not open to all.....

Obvs gal gets split of 50-50 from bar due to vip but try and understand hotel room doesn’t give u that music system and lights and all ambience...,

And most importantly it was my wish and command that was fulfilled and cost was for my experience and fun.... so it was hell worth it...


And Bangkok I hate those thai gals.... so even at 5k wouldn’t have done that.... not all like Bangkok


Devil


P.S.
CP do meet this time if u come .... last time u didn’t .... thot u wud show up..... didn’t cal or msg also.......

But do it this time...... don’t just be a virtual man...


Would love to see u in action in Navi Mumbai.... or Mumbai.......


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[Uncle Sam]

Had only 1 day to Monger when I visited last time. I met a forum member. It was our conscious decision to not involve anyone else from forum. So didn’t call you.

Next visit should be for 3-4 weeks. Will try that time.
Call/Message me kya rakha hai. It can be done anytime.

I will call you tomorrow (yours today i.e Saturday) at 4PM IST

 

[orient longman]

Guys a sincere request to all who read
Kindly don’t teach me or tell me how much can be done in how much money and all.... it’s a post read it and leave it...... (if u don’t like it)
...
I clearly mentioned the chick wud have done for free outside but the money was spent cos I was using some premises at that time when it is not open to all.....
...
And most importantly it was my wish and command that was fulfilled and cost was for my experience and fun.... so it was hell worth it...
...

Totally agree with you on this. Some experiences are priceless.

 

[Rickky]

Rickky as u mentioned she is compassionate and kind to me, DONT u think other girl from other bar hadn’t tried this on me before.
WHY I had fallen for this girl but not other in last 15 years.

Its not a new glamour for me as i am regular in this field.

I agree with u that its my fault who created all this nonsense and it should be me who should suffer before i forget her which seems very hard till now for me.
So if I can’t forget her better i go far away from her so that doesn’t cause more trouble in mylife.

Quite irrelevant. Your mind still sees her as the one.

Sometime last week I was at Su Casa and came across this really hot girl who resembled the babuji zara dheere chalo chick. She was with her boyfriend of course.

Nobody wanted to mess with a trio of three well built 6 feet plus guys. Her boyfriend I dominated verbally. Long story short she ended up in my arms on our next date.

The difference being he pedestalized her and I did not.

Nobody can tell you what the solution is. That is for you to uncover. Just like with stocks, otc securities or forex margins, one can never let their emotions mire their decision making process. Some people learn from their mistakes and others are doomed to keep repeating themselves.

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[Shraavan]

Hi,

I am in a big trouble friends right now. I don’t know how to write my situation and should i write it or not.
Please i want some good suggestions to get rid of this situation and please don’t make fun of me.

I am a guy who is regular at db ob from more than 15 years and I don’t fell in trap of this girls.
But now i have find myself in very uncomfortable situation.

I have started to have some feeling for a particular girl in a bar and I am not able to forget her.

Maybe she is not a Angel looking but for me she is beautiful than angel.
Few of my friends ask me to take her to bed so that her charm will fade away but i can assure it is not about lust as i didn’t even touch her inappropriate when i visit her several time from last few months and i know if i will do this the situation will worsen.

She is very cooperative and she doesn’t demand anything and always care for me.

But i want to get out of this situation as she is 24hrs controlling my mind.
My business is facing loss as my decision making is becoming worse day by day.
I am not able to handle my family and staffs well and i always shout on each of them every time.

I always feel to cry and sleep.
I have stopped drinking and smoking and visiting other bar or girls after i meet her.

I am going deep in depression.
None of my friends able to help me out of this situation.

We are starting a new business in other city where my brother willgo and take care of the business.
I thought i should move out from Mumbai and shift there so i can be away from her.
In that case i will visit Mumbai after 4/5 months.
Will these will help?
Should i call her and tell i am moving out?


I want to post this problem as my friends problem,but I don’t have that much of energy to make a story.
My energy level is totally soak.

Just want to get out of this situation without hurting the girl sentiment.

Dangerous Times, Bro. A common pitfall of the mongering life, I guess. I had met a girl who was beautiful and used to be very polite and nice to me. She was the nicest person I had met. Over a period of time, my mind had up a mythology around her. In that myth she was the heroine, my saviour, the ideal woman etc. It affected my work, my alertness, my duty. I obsessed over her. She occupied my thoughts throughout the day. However, I knew that there was no future for us together as we had strict directives stating that we are not allowed to fraternise with a local woman. Besides she was a very devout practitioner of another religion. I didn’t want to risk a clash with my family and society over her.
So I decided to get over her. I tried a simple strategy.
1) I pulled a few strings to change my posting further away. This helped avoid running into her every now and then.
2) Found a different girl (fictional one) to obsess over. She was nowhere close. But I made up the mythology around her to project her as the perfect companion. It was difficult. But over a period of time the obsession wore off.
That last line is the most critical one to remember. You have to work to let it wear off. It is never gonna snap out one fine morning like you would wish.
I noticed that once I did that I only got mentally and emotionally stronger. I could then easily get over so many addictions. I came off smoking, infidelity, the nightly tipple and many other obsessions.
But please remember that even after the wound heals, the scars remain. At some stage in life, some incident would trigger those scars again. The pain they exude would be limited, niggling and very short-lived. You will be able to live with it but they would serve a gentle reminder of one famous Marathi song by a certain Mr Arun Daate.
“... lakh chuka astil kelya, keli pan preeti”
I may have done it wrong and I may have lost it, but I did experience Love”

- Happy Mongering

 

[Rickky]

Guys a sincere request to all who read

Kindly don’t teach me or tell me how much can be done in how much money and all.... it’s a post read it and leave it...... (if u don’t like it)

It was not for any info about any bar or gal.....

It was an experience which was shared.... not questions asked to anyone.....

And even if u wish to put ur suggestions atleast pls read and understand post before commenting....

I clearly mentioned the chick wud have done for free outside but the money was spent cos I was using some premises at that time when it is not open to all.....

Obvs gal gets split of 50-50 from bar due to vip but try and understand hotel room doesn’t give u that music system and lights and all ambience...,

And most importantly it was my wish and command that was fulfilled and cost was for my experience and fun.... so it was hell worth it...


And Bangkok I hate those thai gals.... so even at 5k wouldn’t have done that.... not all like Bangkok


Devil


P.S.
CP do meet this time if u come .... last time u didn’t .... thot u wud show up..... didn’t cal or msg also.......

But do it this time...... don’t just be a virtual man...


Would love to see u in action in Navi Mumbai.... or Mumbai.......


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Absolutely. I get girls for free but want to experience an all nighter with a gorgeous db girl. Paid sex. For me it is the experience that counts.

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[orient longman]

Hi guys,
May be a dumb question as I mostly visit db but not so much ob . So do bebo and star night girls who are mostly dancers, go for entry?

Great question... I had been wondering the same about Cabana OB until last month. Found out for myself -> the answer is "yes", if you are willing to spend a ton of money on them.

First of all, the girls that are mostly dancers, make a lot of money in the bar due to their superior dancing skills as compared to the girls who just stand around like statues.
The statues only make money when their "jaanus" visit the bar and shower money on them.
The dancers on the other hand receive tips from a diverse group of patrons. Some dancers also attain some kind of "stardom" in the bars due to their dancing skills and beautiful looks.

The dancers expect you to tip them a significant amount in the bar before they give you their number. Then you will be expected to spend another significant sum of money when you meet them outside. If the girl senses that you are "soft hearted", she will string you along for a bit in order to extract the maximum amount of money before sleeping with you. The bar girls are aware that most guys will move on to the next bar girl after they sleep with the current muse. The novelty wears off after "entry" specially if the bar girl was passive in bed.

Bottom line: every DB and OB girl goes for "entry" outside the bar as long as you are willing to meet their monetary demands.

 

[Deleted member 63909]

Hi bro...
This is d feeling which u are getting for her.
I dont know d gal, nor in which har she works nor u personally....
She might be too good n polite...
Remember not all people are bad n she might not be taking u as a Bakra..
Still some good humans exist...
Maybe she might be feeling good about u due to your qualities or d way u might be respecting to her..different than others...
Now, it's you who have been in love or whatever wid her.. If she has not done bad to you den y give her bad words, etc...
If u wanna sleep den sleep wid her if she allows...but don't do bad... Karma is Bitch..
N if u wanna get over her den go away from city or don't visit her simple.. Try to get out of its before its too late...
Or if u can handle d situation den manage her, wid family and your trading business...
If your 15years experienced monger den it shouldn't be a problem for u...
Baaki toh mausam ka maza lo aur khub mongering karo...
Dont forget to share wid me some good trading tips...
Happy Mongering...!!!

I don’t know what is in her mind but she is always caring for me.
Don’t worry bro I don’t abuse women and weak people and abusing or using foul language to her not possible even in my dream.
The situation is out of my hand right now and i am leaving Mumbai for some time soon

 

[Joesar11]

Get hold of ur senses bro.
Nothing repeat nothing is worth ruining ur family. Lots of sensible suggestions from our buddies.
What u choose to do is ultimately ur choice but relax.....yeh waqt bhi guzar jayega.
She may be a very good human being but kindly dnt make an ass of urself.
I dnt think changing cities is the solution but I wud definitely agree with Uncle Sam u need to honk her a few times.
So much dough spent and not yet laid her.....that maybe 1 of the lasting regrets in ur later years.
Best wishes bro

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[Deleted member 63909]

First of all, believe it or not, this whole situation is your own mind playing tricks with you. As someone else also pointed out, you have subconsciously placed this girl on a pedestal. Your heart and mind are not willing to accept that she might be a completely different person compared to the image you have of her.

A lot of us, whether we care to admit it or not, have fallen into this moh-maya jaal of our creation at some point in our lives either with girls or other possessions (cars / gadgets etc.). Once we "get" what our heart desires, the longing fades away gradually.

I believe this is the same girl whose face our "friend" would forget and had to visit the bar a few times every week. You need to convince yourself that this girl may be nice to you, but in the end she is just another bar girl (albeit a nice human being) who plays with customers imagination to get them to spend money on her.

The only solution to this issue, believe it or not, is to sleep with her at least once (perhaps a few times). Moving to a different city will only make your life miserable. This was verified when you went to the USA for a month and couldn't get her out of your mind. Running away is not a viable solution. Sleep with her and a few other girls on back to back days. Eventually you will find another girl that is just a sweet/nice to you. hopefully that will help prove to you that there are a lot of bar girls that can provide the same experience without screwing with you mental peace and normal daily life (professional and person).

Summary -> please fuck her OR make love to her nicely... whatever... just do it !!!

P.S: I am never ever rude with any bar girls / working girls, even when they are obviously scamming me. I always deal with them with a smile on my face and humor in my words. I make it clear to them that I understand their games and am not falling for any of that shit. From your posts, it appears that you are probably the same. Stay true to your nature and deal with this situation head-on. There is absolutely no need to change your behavior. Will power can get you out of this situation. Trust yourself.

Hmm very nicely written and you have followed my previous post as well.
You are absolutely right she was THAT PARTICULAR GIRL which i have post in my earlier report.

The attraction/trap/illusion/love have increased on each day i have visited her.

I have created some sort of affection for her on my 1st meeting with her and this was easily caught by other bar girl.

The reason I attracted towards her that even she knows in last month that i will be never return to her for some obvious reason which i cannot share here she still waiting for me crying like child.( i know that,its not her word)

Every bar girl know that their root of business is Alcohol which force guys like us to spend on them and even ordinary girl look like heroine in affect of alcohol.
So who will stop his customer to stop drinking?
I think no girl will take this risk.
But she always stops me to drink and sometimes bar staffs get angry on her for this behaviour.

Lastly I have noticed one big thing in my life of mongering.
I give good amount to bar girls or staff
If say some girl deserve 5k i gave her 10k maybe i meet her second time or not.

In my entire life i have notice this very cheap thing that even i give 15k or 20k to a girl who deserves 4 to 5k and she will only get that amount if she would be with other customer but still she wants some more money from me.
They don’t get satisfied in whatever u spend on them.

But her case is different from other
She didn’t asked a penny from me even she spend her full bar time with me.
She didn’t count money which i give her while leaving her from 1st day.
She didn’t give excuses like other girls and demand money that i need money for this or that even she knows that i will give her the amount whatever she will demand.


This all thing have made a place of her in my heart and i have made up her image in my mind that she is some different from other bar girls

Anyway its a long story and i still believes that only way i can forget her is to go away from her.

Just planned everything
Will leave Mumbai tomorrow

Bye all
May I find some peace.
MP

 

[mumbai monger]

Sure, move out of city either way.
I’ve been in such situation. Spent several thousand $ on a girl and it was effecting me personally. Wife also got hints of what was happening.

Finally, one day I saw a guy entering her home. Argument began and she said they were just her friends. Don’t know yet what’s the truth. But she was clearly ignoring my calls when I called her up that time when I saw the guy entering her home. Only after I texted her that I am outside her apartment did she show up.

Finally what did I do?
I blackmailed her as I had her nude pics. I had FB of her parents and relatives too. So told her I would post her pics on their FB.

She agreed for few free sex sessions.
She is a bartender now. Sells her body few times a month for extra money.

Since then, I don’t really care for such bitches. Disrespect is all what I have now for them.

Felt so bad uc

Plenty of times in pm and in open i said do not give heart to anyone except work, your true love. Like funsuk wangdu said 10 yrs ago work and make sure others follow.

Bro these indie randi sb db girls are whores (sorry by i never say such bad words). They just love money and nothing else.

So you love your love aka work. In return love will give everything including money. Take some 5 10% of remaining after investment and throw on these gals. I didn't mind when you made fun on my small budget but what i can do when i earn money in inr and weigh family over gals.

If you stick to girls they will bleed you like leech. And if your true love aka work if started disliking you then you are gone man..

Just patao girl with small amt be somehow regular and respect them. They can read your eyes. Bhai ise hi nahi muze election result ke din dry day tha tab 4 free offers the. I didn't pick any as i am smart enough to note that giving offer for free they want me to get close to them physically.... I know anyone getting so close to blackwholes event horizon never escape even light

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[jayxyz]

Hmm very nicely written and you have followed my previous post as well.
You are absolutely right she was THAT PARTICULAR GIRL which i have post in my earlier report.

The attraction/trap/illusion/love have increased on each day i have visited her.

I have created some sort of affection for her on my 1st meeting with her and this was easily caught by other bar girl.

The reason I attracted towards her that even she knows in last month that i will be never return to her for some obvious reason which i cannot share here she still waiting for me crying like child.( i know that,its not her word)

Every bar girl know that their root of business is Alcohol which force guys like us to spend on them and even ordinary girl look like heroine in affect of alcohol.
So who will stop his customer to stop drinking?
I think no girl will take this risk.
But she always stops me to drink and sometimes bar staffs get angry on her for this behaviour.

Lastly I have noticed one big thing in my life of mongering.
I give good amount to bar girls or staff
If say some girl deserve 5k i gave her 10k maybe i meet her second time or not.

In my entire life i have notice this very cheap thing that even i give 15k or 20k to a girl who deserves 4 to 5k and she will only get that amount if she would be with other customer but still she wants some more money from me.
They don’t get satisfied in whatever u spend on them.

But her case is different from other
She didn’t asked a penny from me even she spend her full bar time with me.
She didn’t count money which i give her while leaving her from 1st day.
She didn’t give excuses like other girls and demand money that i need money for this or that even she knows that i will give her the amount whatever she will demand.


This all thing have made a place of her in my heart and i have made up her image in my mind that she is some different from other bar girls

Anyway its a long story and i still believes that only way i can forget her is to go away from her.

Just planned everything
Will leave Mumbai tomorrow

Bye all
May I find some peace.
MP

Boss the affection not asking money telling u to stop drinking / smoking .... all these are slow poisoning had gone thru all these in my life .... so as suggested sleep with her and as well some other girls forget her or in the end u will be the looser


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[mumbai monger]

Had only 1 day to Monger when I visited last time. I met a forum member. It was our conscious decision to not involve anyone else from forum. So didn’t call you.

Next visit should be for 3-4 weeks. Will try that time.
Call/Message me kya rakha hai. It can be done anytime.

I will call you tomorrow (yours today i.e Saturday) at 4PM IST

Tu aa ja dost. Milte hain. Surely want to meet you and spent some time. There wont be any threat direct or indirect from my side. I just want to speak and understand you.

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[Shraavan]

Hmm very nicely written and you have followed my previous post as well.
You are absolutely right she was THAT PARTICULAR GIRL which i have post in my earlier report.

The attraction/trap/illusion/love have increased on each day i have visited her.

I have created some sort of affection for her on my 1st meeting with her and this was easily caught by other bar girl.

The reason I attracted towards her that even she knows in last month that i will be never return to her for some obvious reason which i cannot share here she still waiting for me crying like child.( i know that,its not her word)

Every bar girl know that their root of business is Alcohol which force guys like us to spend on them and even ordinary girl look like heroine in affect of alcohol.
So who will stop his customer to stop drinking?
I think no girl will take this risk.
But she always stops me to drink and sometimes bar staffs get angry on her for this behaviour.

Lastly I have noticed one big thing in my life of mongering.
I give good amount to bar girls or staff
If say some girl deserve 5k i gave her 10k maybe i meet her second time or not.

In my entire life i have notice this very cheap thing that even i give 15k or 20k to a girl who deserves 4 to 5k and she will only get that amount if she would be with other customer but still she wants some more money from me.
They don’t get satisfied in whatever u spend on them.

But her case is different from other
She didn’t asked a penny from me even she spend her full bar time with me.
She didn’t count money which i give her while leaving her from 1st day.
She didn’t give excuses like other girls and demand money that i need money for this or that even she knows that i will give her the amount whatever she will demand.


This all thing have made a place of her in my heart and i have made up her image in my mind that she is some different from other bar girls

Anyway its a long story and i still believes that only way i can forget her is to go away from her.

Just planned everything
Will leave Mumbai tomorrow

Bye all
May I find some peace.
MP

To cut a long story short remember the age-old saying
“You can lose a lot of money chasing women,
But you won’t lose many women chasing money”
From:
The Mongering Granth
Chapter 7, Verse 12
By Saint Shraavan