Chat Anyone ever dated a working girl?

[WizardofStyle]

Even if you meet a nice, "normal" MPA, the fact of the matter is they are meeting so many guys every day. It's just a matter of time that someone else will sweep them off their feet. And if you ever piss them off, they will use that as justification to cheat on you

If they are willing to leave the industry, then it might work out...but they'll be probably be looking at you to replace their income

The notion that these women will have someone "sweep them off their feet" is a common one, and based (to a certain degree) in reality. But many MPAs have a cynical view of men - perfectly understandable given the nature of their jobs - and are reasonably resistant to being charmed into the arms of a customer.

Earning replacement, as you alluded to, is a far more likely challenge it seems to me.

 

[OG_funguy]

The notion that these women will have someone "sweep them off their feet" is a common one, and based (to a certain degree) in reality. But many MPAs have a cynical view of men - perfectly understandable given the nature of their jobs - and are reasonably resistant to being charmed into the arms of a customer.

Earning replacement, as you alluded to, is a far more likely challenge it seems to me.

I've met a lot of MPAs (mostly semi legit) and for the most part, they don't have a cynical view of men (including customers) and are quite open to dating the "right" guy...

 

[niceandnaughty]

Being friends w gd ones , can b fun.

FWB

… treat them like normal friends… one female friend (not gf) became stripper… still my friend, right? Her life…

… another became MPA… I thot legit, but looking back… mebbe not… willing 2 exchange sex 4 rent…


… so I had some training on being friends w mpas…

… just being friendly, relaxed, kind, not judgy, u can meet some nice girls… & they can b REAL GD 2u!

… but date-date , like exclusive steady gf? Most seem 2 value their freedom 2 much, but… mebbe 2 seem respectable, they might say that… ?

… & one MPA seemed 2 seriously like me, said repeatedly we should marry one day… tons of fun. No chance her family shows up @ my house w shotgun …

My attitude = maintain respectful friendship, even affectionate… but don’t go into dating mode, let them b free…

I became best friends with a Chinese escort. Interesting, shared many experiences and it has been a lot of fun. She even lived with me for 6 months. Of course it was FWB, always respectful, no expectations and being a real friend not a horn dog. Still friends almost 3 years later.

 

[WizardofStyle]

I've met a lot of MPAs (mostly semi legit) and for the most part, they don't have a cynical view of men (including customers) and are quite open to dating the "right" guy...

As I wrote, it is certainly a real hope...but it seems to coexist with a certain degree of distance and wariness. And that's understandable.

 

[xtc27]

As I wrote, it is certainly a real hope...but it seems to coexist with a certain degree of distance and wariness. And that's understandable.

… Renee @ Shangri-La seems 2b one of few mpas 2 find a hubby & make it work…

She has a kind of balance, ⚖ makes place happy & staff stick around… Lucy, Cindy & Julia been there a few yrs now… crazy long time in spa biz…

 

[Deleted member 63288]

I have

I'd pick her up after her shifts and we would spend the night together before I had to drop her off the next day

 

[SpaAddict]

If you fall for a SW or MPA you will get your heart broken 999 times out of 1000. If you like those odds, go for it. Otherwise, keep your distance.

If you don't understand why, remember this: the women doing this for a living are in situations daily where they deal with every kind of man you can imagine.

The men are naked and most women, regardless of what they may say, are vulnerable to good looking, charming guys that are well built and have a nice cock. If you don't believe me, ask any MPA you know if she will ignore her normal restrictions for such a man on her table. As they say YMMV... they are vulnerable... and they like what they like!

Many of those men are also very capable of spotting a SW who is turned on by them. Not all, but a lot of these charismatic men are quite adept at pursuing what they want and eventually getting it.

So now you have two individuals that are in heat for each other and where are you in this mix? NOWHERE! Somewhere off thinking - she is working hard for the money... ok then!

Also - the girl you want to date or the SW you are head over heels for, is, EVERY TIME SHE GOES TO WORK, manipulating, teasing and getting every guys' cock hard (you included when you were there) so she can extract cum, and money, not necessarily in that order.

It very rarely ends well.

 

[69isbest]

I can't believe anyone would want to consider or continue a "relationship" with an SP or MPA...we all know Unionville...population about 30,000...so subtract the women (not all because the odds say some may have visited her) so the woman you want to date has been with the equivalent of every guy in Unionville....let that sink into your big head for awhile....never mind your little head...

 

[Gulag107]

These women are necessarily sociopaths . The combination of sociopath and whore is a deadly one especially when used to ensare a guy who wishes to be used and abused in his role as their nurse, caregiver and one of many of her financiers. The whore’s tactics work around the clock on a weak guy’s psyche, relentlessly, like a dog on a bone. Some guys end up loosing much more than an ear like Van Gogh did. In the end, it becomes clear that there is nothing colder than a whore‘s heart.

 

[big.sleeze]

Its surprising that so many simps here are actually admitting to dating whores. I think some of them are confusing a mutually beneficial relationship with a normal relationship. If you’re still buying her endless gifts, taking her out to expensive dinners, flying her out for vacations, helping with her bills or rent, then you’re not her boyfriend… you’re her sugar daddy. Too many guys get too caught up to realize this. The hot young slut drains all the blood from his head so she can drain the cum from his balls and most importantly, the money from his bank. In the end you’ll spend more money this way than you would by paying $150-$300 each time you’re horny and decide to visit a whore at an agency or spa.

 

[bumzbumz]

LOL how much times does this topic get posted here?

Don't do it. Only the foolish would get into a relationship with a sex worker.

As someone already mentioned here if its a MPA she most likely has a "boyfriend" who doesn't know she jerks guys off for a living or has a husband. I see guys get fleeced by these girls then think she left him for another client when in fact for some that's just her boyfriend or husband. Meanwhile she is mocking him in chinese.

for SPs if they are young they just want to party. They will be with any guy who will take them to expensive places or parties on a yacht.

 

[DTplayer]

ok i am gonna try to start a deeper discussion as i go into my own life.

What is love?

for love, what i think about is "can she satisfy my needs right now and in the foreseeable future" (A) and "when one day my needs change, would I still like to be with her?" (B)

with those two in mind, I was able to come up with a pro vs. con chart and i will post that later today when i have time.

 

[MrBnH]

Its surprising that so many simps here are actually admitting to dating whores. I think some of them are confusing a mutually beneficial relationship with a normal relationship. If you’re still buying her endless gifts, taking her out to expensive dinners, flying her out for vacations, helping with her bills or rent, then you’re not her boyfriend… you’re her sugar daddy. Too many guys get too caught up to realize this. The hot young slut drains all the blood from his head so she can drain the cum from his balls and most importantly, the money from his bank. In the end you’ll spend more money this way than you would by paying $150-$300 each time you’re horny and decide to visit a whore at an agency or spa.

LOL.......that might be true, but you might know it is TRUE LOVE if it is the opposite and SHE is PAYING for everything...........I just could not take the lifestyle !!!

 

[OG_funguy]

LOL.......that might be true, but you might know it is TRUE LOVE if it is the opposite and SHE is PAYING for everything...........I just could not take the lifestyle !!!

There are some very generous MPAs out there...just saying

 

[luvdafurburger]

There are some very generous MPAs out there...just saying

For some their money is easy cum, easy go.

 

[OG_funguy]

For some their money is easy cum, easy go.

Hahaha

 

[Deleted member 92532]

I figure if the girl gets old enough and isn’t able to get clients anymore or realizes there’s only a certain number of years she can do this, she might change her mind about it.

I do hear about retirements now and then and them going on to open a business or going away with their boyfriends/husbands and quitting. So that’s why I say it “could” supposedly work but again I don’t know any woman in her late 40s or 50s that was an MP or SP in the past and just quit. I imagine unless they saved up a ton or married someone to take care of them - I’m not sure what else they would do.

Their work history…isn’t exactly going to help them get mainstream jobs. Most of the ones I’ve spoken with don’t speak English well. So you got an older woman with perhaps some savings - you figure they’d get it into their head to nab a client or find a partner and settle down. I suppose they could invest and hope to live off of that or open up a spa and just worry about scheduling, finding girls, and other logistical issues that come with owning and running a spa.

 

[Deleted member 80579]

Its surprising that so many simps here are actually admitting to dating whores. I think some of them are confusing a mutually beneficial relationship with a normal relationship. If you’re still buying her endless gifts, taking her out to expensive dinners, flying her out for vacations, helping with her bills or rent, then you’re not her boyfriend… you’re her sugar daddy. Too many guys get too caught up to realize this. The hot young slut drains all the blood from his head so she can drain the cum from his balls and most importantly, the money from his bank. In the end you’ll spend more money this way than you would by paying $150-$300 each time you’re horny and decide to visit a whore at an agency or spa.

I have no issue admitting it. Was a great experience. My bank account surprisingly grew during that time. Didn't go to a strip club or massage parlour for about two years.
I didn't have the money then nor now to be a sugar daddy. You'd be surprised how far being nice and respectful to woman gets you. I know that might be a foreign concept to some here

 

[DTplayer]

Pros	Score	Comments	Cons	Score	Comments
Cooks me 3 meals a day, good meals	4	I live like a king and can focus on my own business, I also have slight "oedipus complex" and this kind of lifestyle truly suits me greatly	Older than me, with diabetes, so she won't be able to do these things when she gets old	-5	Huge downside, but I am okay with "you take care of me before I am 50" + "I take care of you after I am 50". Kindness is a two-way stream, especially when I am getting the benefit first. I won't be able to sleep at night if I ditch her the second she gets too old to cook for me.
Takes care of all regular house chores such as including cleaning and laundry	4	Cannot merge cells, same as above	Cannot merge cells, same as above	-5	Cannot merge cells, same as above
Amazing in bed. lots of pressure with my business lately and it has led to daily massage + sex	5	Cannot merge cells, same as above	Cannot merge cells, same as above	-5	Cannot merge cells, same as above
Not selfish at all, always thinking for others first	2	Unfortunately, "others" only include her own children, her parents and her relatives. I think I am getting up there but not in the club yet, it's been 2 years since we have been together	Fucks and sucks other dudes, on a daily basis	-4	-She doesn't allow bareback sex or BBBJ/kissing/DATY, she has been doing this for close to 10 years yet she is extremely clean, not only the medical tests show that, but her vagina doesn't have any odor or gross discharge. Let's be honest, girls that do those things don't last long in this industry anyway. -I still wear a condom when she fucks or sucks me just to be safe, we also don't kiss. -It shouldn't bother me because it's her job, but it does make me feel a little agitated when I hear the noisy fuck sessions from next room -Well, practice makes perfect, do you expect a regular housewife to give her husband body slide or give BJs?
Hardworking	5	-Barely slept all night (insomnia) but full service client comes at 8 in the morning? No problem, dress up and fuck his brain out -Very good work ethic overall in life, not limited to doing massages/services	Can no longer have children due to hysterectomy	-0.1	-I don't really want children, I fail to see the point of having children -My urge of having children with her is actually much more than my urge of having children with my ex-wife, well, I guess because I actually "love" her
Financially well-off	2	I still give her 3k~5k a month (i make around 10k a month, post tax), but when I have cashflow problems with my business, she would lend me 25k without blinking.	Uneducated, poor English	-1	-My ex-wife scored 760 on GMAT and is an audit manager making 150k+ a year, we communicated well, we loved the same type of music/TV shows/movies. But we only fucked twice a year towards the end of our marriage and I preferred jerking off to xhamster videos -I felt released from a prison after the divorce that ended our 15-year marriage -Conclusion: Education level doesn't mean shit, I would honestly say she is a better human-being than my ex-wife -negative score because there are "facepalm" moments given that I am highly educated, I don't mind those moments that much though as indicated by the -1 score
Very truthful when it comes to principles or when it comes to money	4	-She would never, for example, steal money from any client, or cheat on me (getting emotionally involved with someone else) -actually, she is probably not even emotionally involved with me at this point. I am unsure if these women are capable of "emotional involvement" -sometimes she is too honest, "That black guy made me cum", "That white guy made me cum", or "You are too quick, I didn't even feel anything"	Lies about small things all the time	-3	-Just sucked and fucked a dude for $150? Tells me that it was just a quick handjob to not make me jealous. this has stopped however, not the sucking&fucking part, but the covering up part. -i don't mind it as It is their nature to lie about small things, a), they don't get tipped well by clients if they tell clients that "I am pretty fucking rich, your breath smells and your junk is actually very small". b), they don't like their family and relatives to know what they do so lying is a skill that is neccesary in some sense
Street smart	4	-with her help I have matured a lot (which actually helped me a lot when it comes to my business), I am very grateful for what she was able to do to change me	Her Children are Spoiled brats	-3	I don't really mind it as she stays at my place without her children, but man those children are the equivalent of devil: case in point, her daugher (early 20s) is extremely hot (her genes i guess) but if i could choose, I would pick her over her daughter in a heartbeat
Total	30			-26.1

 

[Sybarite]

Pros	Score	Comments	Cons	Score	Comments
Cooks me 3 meals a day, good meals	4	I live like a king and can focus on my own business, I also have slight "oedipus complex" and this kind of lifestyle truly suits me greatly	Older than me, with diabetes, so she won't be able to do these things when she gets old	-5	Huge downside, but I am okay with "you take care of me before I am 50" + "I take care of you after I am 50". Kindness is a two-way stream, especially when I am getting the benefit first. I won't be able to sleep at night if I ditch her the second she gets too old to cook for me.
Takes care of all regular house chores such as including cleaning and laundry	4	Cannot merge cells, same as above	Cannot merge cells, same as above	-5	Cannot merge cells, same as above
Amazing in bed. lots of pressure with my business lately and it has led to daily massage + sex	5	Cannot merge cells, same as above	Cannot merge cells, same as above	-5	Cannot merge cells, same as above
Not selfish at all, always thinking for others first	2	Unfortunately, "others" only include her own children, her parents and her relatives. I think I am getting up there but not in the club yet, it's been 2 years since we have been together	Fucks and sucks other dudes, on a daily basis	-4	-She doesn't allow bareback sex or BBBJ/kissing/DATY, she has been doing this for close to 10 years yet she is extremely clean, not only the medical tests show that, but her vagina doesn't have any odor or gross discharge. Let's be honest, girls that do those things don't last long in this industry anyway. -I still wear a condom when she fucks or sucks me just to be safe, we also don't kiss. -It shouldn't bother me because it's her job, but it does make me feel a little agitated when I hear the noisy fuck sessions from next room -Well, practice makes perfect, do you expect a regular housewife to give her husband body slide or give BJs?
Hardworking	5	-Barely slept all night (insomnia) but full service client comes at 8 in the morning? No problem, dress up and fuck his brain out -Very good work ethic overall in life, not limited to doing massages/services	Can no longer have children due to hysterectomy	-0.1	-I don't really want children, I fail to see the point of having children -My urge of having children with her is actually much more than my urge of having children with my ex-wife, well, I guess because I actually "love" her
Financially well-off	2	I still give her 3k~5k a month (i make around 10k a month, post tax), but when I have cashflow problems with my business, she would lend me 25k without blinking.	Uneducated, poor English	-1	-My ex-wife scored 760 on GMAT and is an audit manager making 150k+ a year, we communicated well, we loved the same type of music/TV shows/movies. But we only fucked twice a year towards the end of our marriage and I preferred jerking off to xhamster videos -I felt released from a prison after the divorce that ended our 15-year marriage -Conclusion: Education level doesn't mean shit, I would honestly say she is a better human-being than my ex-wife -negative score because there are "facepalm" moments given that I am highly educated, I don't mind those moments that much though as indicated by the -1 score
Very truthful when it comes to principles or when it comes to money	4	-She would never, for example, steal money from any client, or cheat on me (getting emotionally involved with someone else) -actually, she is probably not even emotionally involved with me at this point. I am unsure if these women are capable of "emotional involvement" -sometimes she is too honest, "That black guy made me cum", "That white guy made me cum", or "You are too quick, I didn't even feel anything"	Lies about small things all the time	-3	-Just sucked and fucked a dude for $150? Tells me that it was just a quick handjob to not make me jealous. this has stopped however, not the sucking&fucking part, but the covering up part. -i don't mind it as It is their nature to lie about small things, a), they don't get tipped well by clients if they tell clients that "I am pretty fucking rich, your breath smells and your junk is actually very small". b), they don't like their family and relatives to know what they do so lying is a skill that is neccesary in some sense
Street smart	4	-with her help I have matured a lot (which actually helped me a lot when it comes to my business), I am very grateful for what she was able to do to change me	Her Children are Spoiled brats	-3	I don't really mind it as she stays at my place without her children, but man those children are the equivalent of devil: case in point, her daugher (early 20s) is extremely hot (her genes i guess) but if i could choose, I would pick her over her daughter in a heartbeat
Total	30			-26.1

If you can just please provide us with some additional details I think that would make it a lot easier for everyone to advise you on the viability of this relationship...