Chat Is Hobbying cheating?

[cupcrazy]

Yes. your Right. My greatest challenge right now is not adding anymore into the lineup. I Was wanting to have 4 regulars But that may have to wait. Hebe from VIP is a potential But she’s younger. I tend to pick my produce from the MILF section. Ha ha

milf will be more desperate as there are abundance of milf in the industry

 

[WizardofStyle]

Anna spa just robbed again. Same guy

Damn it. You're sure?

 

[OG_funguy]

Anna spa just robbed again. Same guy

Holy fuck! See...this is exactly why they should have gone to the police. It will keep happening, I hope they understand that. And they will lose business from concerned customers too.

 

[Pay2Play]

Yes it's cheating but that doesn't make us bad people or bad husbands. Life is complicated and you can judge yourself or anyone else based on only one aspect of their lives.

The bad husband argument doesn’t hold water once she finds out!

 

[Pay2Play]

Asian woman are so hard to read sometimes

I believe that is referred to as a language barrier...lol

 

[chaychay]

I considering going to strip clubs and getting erotic massage to be a betrayal to my wife, and I am not content with it. Yet, I still do it.

I have a relative who is polyamorous, and all his partner knows that he partakes. So, for him, he's not cheating.

 

[chaychay]

Yes it's cheating but that doesn't make us bad people or bad husbands. Life is complicated and you can judge yourself or anyone else based on only one aspect of their lives.

I feel like a bad husband.

 

[cupcrazy]

Heard it from my fave

Did you mean Annie spa? They already have their mug shots.

 

[xtc27]

...s'ok, not cheating. Feel better now?

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....some elements of society just don't get... guys gotta have sex & doesn't make us bad, any more than seeking food when hungry...

...ruff truth, even if u=single, FUTURE GF will get mad if she finds out... by definition, single dude NOT cheating... but still get in sh!t...

...spas do gr8 social gd, directing that dangerous male sexual energy into harmless (even beneficial) outets...

...if u= horny male RIGHT NOW, going friggn nuts & sex not waiting for u somewhere (like @home)... going to spa = best of several dozen choices, most of them really bad...

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BASEBALL = BAD: waste of time & money, contributes nothng 2 fight against climate change & social ills (& I love it, too)

....YET...

Fangraphs, baseball website, nobody asks if baseball is bad.

==> Why do folks come to this site dedicated to THIS hobby & question its value?

...like, you're here, right? On this website? Anthropology major? Doubt it....

 

[Pay2Play]

...s'ok, not cheating. Feel better now?

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....some elements of society just don't get... guys gotta have sex & doesn't make us bad, any more than seeking food when hungry...

...ruff truth, even if u=single, FUTURE GF will get mad if she finds out... by definition, single dude NOT cheating... but still get in sh!t...

...spas do gr8 social gd, directing that dangerous male sexual energy into harmless (even beneficial) outets...

...if u= horny male RIGHT NOW, going friggn nuts & sex not waiting for u somewhere (like @home)... going to spa = best of several dozen choices, most of them really bad...

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BASEBALL = BAD: waste of time & money, contributes nothng 2 fight against climate change & social ills (& I love it, too)

....YET...

Fangraphs, baseball website, nobody asks if baseball is bad.

==> Why do folks come to this site dedicated to THIS hobby & question its value?

...like, you're here, right? On this website? Anthropology major? Doubt it....

Slow down. I’m analyzing your “New English”. You just introduced bold font! FFS!!! I’m not sure how process the underline!?!

 

[therealcole]

Of course it is. The only time it is not cheating when you are solely getting rmt massages.

What happens if you start to get hard during the rmt? You went there for a rmt and only expected a great massage. She sees your hard on and then gets naked and rides you for all that you are worth. She then pays you for being such a stud and giving her so many orgasms that she had to rest on you with her huge titties and very tight vagina quivering all over you. Just asking. It could happen. I just need to be prepared.

 

[Bustanut]

Not Cheating. I consider it the same as working out. I am working out my cock so it gets stronger and healthier

 

[ALiberman]

The fact you pay for it is precisely why it shouldn’t be considered cheating.

Every relationship is an “agreement” between two social beings so there is no cookie cutter answer here.

To me it’s a rejuvenating service to keep me physically running well just like any other physical service whether it be on my body like a foot massage or my belongings like an oil change on my car. What I do to my body physically should not be anyone’s concern, even in relationships there should be ownership of the “self”.

Romantic relationships have a much deeper connection it can’t even be compared.

 

[cupcrazy]

What happens if you start to get hard during the rmt? You went there for a rmt and only expected a great massage. She sees your hard on and then gets naked and rides you for all that you are worth. She then pays you for being such a stud and giving her so many orgasms that she had to rest on you with her huge titties and very tight vagina quivering all over you. Just asking. It could happen. I just need to be prepared.

Must be one of your fantasies. I wish i can find that rmt lol

 

[therealcole]

Must be one of your fantasies. I wish i can find that rmt lol

Unfortunately I have done everything that I have wanted to in this hobby.

 

[cupcrazy]

Unfortunately I have done everything that I have wanted to in this hobby.

so nothing excites you then?

 

[therealcole]

so nothing excites you then?

No new challenges. The bucket list is done and buried. I am not looking for anything new. Just looking for fun.

 

[Cosomo]

No

Think of it as entertainment

Have fun

 

[DarkwingDuck]

Any sexual contact your wife disagrees with, and she's said it, and has expectations you'll act accordingly is cheating.
Cheating is based on what each of you say is cheating, not what we say is cheating.

Like many here have said, it depends on the rules of your relationship.
If you're in an ethical non monogamous one like I am, then it's not cheating. She sometimes gives me money to go.
However, if it's your standard monogamous relationship, then yes, cheating.

I will say it's probably the safest form of cheating though. Girls are usually clean, and there's no chance of a relationship. Just dudes paying to get off.