Cousins girlfriend

[snoopdoggie]

Are you sure it's not just someone that looks like her?

 

[TheKWguy]

You can't ask someone to walk away from their way of making a living. They always know they need to stop or leave or change.

If he loves her, he will understand. At 3 months that's going to be a massive pill to swallow and a single parent with 2 kids will likely be unable to take that. He's not a hobby guy too.

The lady will make a choice. She may compromise or make a change. If she quit, would you still hold her past against her? if she JUST did HJ would you still be upset? I don't think anyone is in the wrong. You don't need to twist yourself into anything over this. She will tell him, when it gets more serious. She may ultimately just stop seeing him if she feels she can't compromise and he likely won't accept.

 

[TheKWguy]

Are you sure it's not just someone that looks like her?

he's said too much already. way too much. You can guess already, it's not a long list.

 

[Homerun001]

You’ve got us all wondering who it is?

Buzzkill.. you think this is the first time this has happened out there ?
Lots of providers read these threads and sometimes they chime in and sometimes they talk underground among there network and LE, city officials read also so we sometimes need to be careful with disclosing too much info because it could ruin some good things we have going on at our preferred places.. getting back to the original thread.. appreciate all the different views . It just seems that things may be getting a bit serious with cuz because today was the first introduction and the next will be on Canada with much more family present. Only fear now is if he does find out and one would think it will not go well she may think I told him and then say well I serviced your cousin a couple of times.. then wtf do I tell me cuz and what if cuz snaps and tells family members.. that is my fear ..

 

[TheKWguy]

Would never happen, she would have then OUTED her client and her rep would be mud. No one would EVER want to see her ever again. Discretion is what this hobby is all about.

These are adults, how is he going to find out? if you don't tell him, he will never find out in the near future.

 

[Homerun001]

Just want to tell her that if she really cares and things are progressing and she will meet more family that she needs to tell him sooner rather than later. I would never tell her to stop doing what she does that's not my business. At that we come to an understanding that we never met before. But for the sake of argument would you tell your son, brother , cuz , or best friend or confront the woman .. knowing what she does . It must be hell for these woman to try and have a normal life without being spotted by someone who recognizes them outside of their place of work . And it happened today with me .

 

[TheKWguy]

exactly, if you confront her. She will likely just drop him and spare herself the worry/hassle. She also will NOT tell him after 3 months. You have already made up your mind on what your going to do, just needed validation??? Don't make this more drama filled then it has to be, you don't have to meet her. Just get reception to pass her a sealed note and leave.

I saw you again, my cousin is a great guy. He's got a heart of gold and I love him like a brother. I would never say anything to him but I hope you don't break his heart either. I sincerely wish you guys the best.

 

[felixami]

say nothing
it takes time for new relationships to get settled into
maybe she plans to tell him if it gets serious

 

[newtothis82]

Btw what team was she supporting? The fans of Costa Rica and Colombia are so fucken hot!

 

[Dudejizz]

If you're close with your cousin and care about him then tell him, or aware him in some way. If not then who cares, this is pretty much what modern day dating is lol. It's not uncommon for sluts to have gone through 100 dicks and then find some poor cuck to wife her up.

 

[Homerun001]

If she had left the business then I would have turned a blind eye but considering I saw her 8 days ago for the second time and she is active and she has been dating cousin for 3 months and things are becoming serious now that she was introduced yesterday to some family and more family on Canada day including his 2 kids and potentially his parents there is serious cause for concern. He is a regular civilian and has no clue . Seriously I have nothing against these woman and respect them but there comes a point where they should just tell a guy they are seeing about their line of work for very obvious reasons.

 

[DurhamDuffer]

If she had left the business then I would have turned a blind eye but considering I saw her 8 days ago for the second time and she is active and she has been dating cousin for 3 months and things are becoming serious now that she was introduced yesterday to some family and more family on Canada day including his 2 kids and potentially his parents there is serious cause for concern. He is a regular civilian and has no clue . Seriously I have nothing against these woman and respect them but there comes a point where they should just tell a guy they are seeing about their line of work for very obvious reasons.

I was told by a regular at Premier that about half of the girls with boyfriends lie to them about their line of work.

 

[Homerun001]

I was told by a regular at Premier that about half of the girls with boyfriends lie to them about their line of work.

When a service provider or whatever you want to call them dates someone outside the biz without knowledge of their line of work one would think after 3 months have elapsed and family starts being introduced that they should come clean with their boyfriend and see where things go or just cut him loose instead of prolonging a potential mess. Why keep lying to him ?? Should I just let this go and hope for the best or try to let cuz know without exposing my hobby.. if she really likes him and things go to shit because he found out she may say I was one of her clients and expose me..

 

[Massxprt]

Boyfriends!?! Many MPA's are married with children and lie about it. One I know well said she panicked when she saw her husband coming into the spa on the camera, Hid in the back and sent out another girl. Heard him being serviced in the next room. Guess she did a lousy job. He never came back.

Sorry to break the illusion but I'd say the vast majority of them are attached.

 

[TheKWguy]

Sorry to break the illusion but I'd say the vast majority of them are attached.

and some used to be clients. So yes and no. People do have some level of awareness, this is why you see some people ONLY working during the day, they never do night shifts.

 

[TheKWguy]

anyways, I'm sentimental...if 2 people happen to run into each other and they can find common ground and develop feelings then I wish them all the best. No point to meddle, this is why I never ask about relationships in the room, it's none of my business. When a girl asks me, I also never try to answer (even though it's just me and the dog) because it's none of their business and they would never believe me anyways.

 

[IronHeart]

How come nobody mentioned MPA's name?

 

[newtothis82]

If she had left the business then I would have turned a blind eye but considering I saw her 8 days ago for the second time and she is active and she has been dating cousin for 3 months and things are becoming serious now that she was introduced yesterday to some family and more family on Canada day including his 2 kids and potentially his parents there is serious cause for concern. He is a regular civilian and has no clue . Seriously I have nothing against these woman and respect them but there comes a point where they should just tell a guy they are seeing about their line of work for very obvious reasons.

Why in the world do they need to tell their bfs...how many guys go to the spa on the regular and they have gfs or wifes, do they tell them cause I’m pretty sure 99% don’t . Just leave it alone, they are grown ups they will figure things out...fucken hate when friends or family try to stick their nose in my relationships, unless I ask. Remember sometime ignorance is bliss, and if you cousin is happy just let him be.

 

[joe j jizum]

From another old guy, heed the advice from KW Guy. You don't need drama and you don't need to throw fuel on the fire. The story about helping her in a parking lot sounds a bit contrived. He probably was a customer because of the divorce and they really clicked. Leave it be. At least, let him be happy FFS.

 

[L84dinner]

He probably met her at the spa and not helping her "car troubles" at Sherway. He's probably reading this.