Session Satisfaction!

[Pompal 09.]

Hi guys!! I have a question for you, on behalf of a massageplanet.netite who messaged me with an inquiry.

In this discussion, he asked me what he could do to increase things like mileage, satisfaction, GFE, etc...Asking what he could do to better improve his session satisfaction....I answered telling him what I like in a session, what brings my guard down, turns me on, etc...But I told him I'd poll the experts!!!

So what tips/tricks have you discovered that help lead to more fulfilling sessions??

 

[Sarah Atkinson]

Give your MPA an orgasm...works every time.

 

[evirustheslaye]

He should figure out specifically what he wants and ask for it.

 

[yars63]

Nods in agreement.

 

[bsk]

Don't be in a hurry.
Don't treat her like a servant or a sex object, treat her like a lady.
Talk to her like she has a brain in her head.

One time I went to see a well known and popular mpa at a busy spa in Vaughn. She was a few minutes behind and obviously was having a hectic day. When she finally came in I suggested she take off her high heels and just lie down on the table and relax for 5 minutes with no pressure.
She looked at me like I was the best thing she'd seen all day and replied that that was very thoughtful and she accepted the offer gratefully.
I remember she said "these shoes are killing me!"
After she had a chance to just take it easy and chat briefly we had a fantastic session and she made me feel like a long lost boyfriend.

It's not rocket science guys.

 

[johnny trash]

I agree, works well for me too

 

[momof3granof1]

That's where YMMV comes into play. I agree it works, but it's not always an option, especially on a first visit.

 

[Quintus-Zadok]

well than you're seeing girls that are too restrictive! LOL I am a firm believer that mileage increases with regulars...but if a topless you can touch on top, a nude you can touch on top, a NR had better have some more mileage!!!! Otherwise why pick the upgrade.

 

[Matija N]

Show up for appointment on time so there's no rushing towards the end because she may have another appointment right after you. If you're going to be late, call to let them know. This is just common courtesy.

Whether you show up for your session freshly showered or filthy dirty, take a shower in the room. Can you imagine asking a girl to touch you if you're not clean. By showwring there, they know that you've at least showered recently. If you wash your self properly, tha's even better.

Be polite and respectful toward the ladies. They are great people (for the most part) doing a tough job and that is often underappreciated.

Most of the women I've met enjoy some conversation, even if it's just about this and that. If you don't enjoy conversing during your session, just mention that you'd rather not have a chat today, but that you'd like to relax to a blissful massage.

If you have any special preferences, speak up about them. These ladies are not mind readers. As long as you ask for things that are within reason, there's a pretty good chance you'll leave with a smile on your face. If you ask for something out of the ordinary and the lady delivers, your appreciation should be reflected in your tip. In the spirit of good communication, if you want to please the lady, don't be shy to ask if there is anything in particular she likes that you can do for her. All within the standard limits, of course.

All common sense and courtesy related actions to foster a better relationship between you and your massage provider. Good for you and good for her.

 

[Fakename]

Fourteen and TRX are on to something.Treat her like a lady, be cheerful and happy to see her!

Alot of ladies tell me they appreciate when a guy is respectful.

A sense of humour goes a long way!

Ask her about her day, bring her some dark chocolates or a timmies!

Show appreciation and give her a compliment. Nice soft hands, beautiful warm smile,
great listener, delightful personality etc.

I always offer a nice relaxing massage without the usual 'groping'.
Alot of women tell me how they enjoy a great neck and shoulder rub,
as alot of guys go straight to the 'obvious' areas first and tend to be rough.

Try be be happy around her even if it's been a bad day!
Be KIND ,thank her for a great massage and give her a BIG HUG!!

 

[no1home2day]

LOL nothing worse than a guy saying "you want a massage?" and we hop on the table and get 3 squeezes on our shoulder, and one hand goes right for our crotch!

 

[Ompa Loompa]

I've started telling the ladies that I'm Rayfinkel.

 

[rswinteller]

I totally agree with JFK on this...Be yourself and most importantly treat the lady with respect.

 

[Freddy H]

Wait a minute, so what I think you're trying to say is - chicks don't dig that?

 

[SMARTi3 - H0W U DURRiN!!!]

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So that's why you're getting such high millage???...

 

[Jsgirl]

Always Shower first!!
I always take at least 45 mins, most often 60. If things go well during the first 10 minutes, I gently touch a leg or foot to show my touching style and then offer to give a massage when she's done. That way she can pace herself to give me some time to return the favour.
The massage MUST always be a sincere attempt at making her feel good.
I usually start with the back, then the neck, then a sensual head massage before starting on the feet and legs. Again if she moans and sighs during any part of this, linger in that area and give her more (I once put Sophie of SRM"s foot in my mouth when I realized she had a foot fetish) but don't push it! As you move up her legs and gently massage her bum, watch for signs like curled toes, raised bum or spreading legs to see just where you will end up.
At this point I like to tease a little, but just as she gets warmed up, I move to her hands and arms. They really need attention after massaging others all day.
Finally I start a soft feather like teasing of her whole body.
When she turns over I always try to clean my hand with alcohol because no matter what, feet (which you just touched) are always dirty. This shows your concern for her health and your own attention to cleanliness.
After that, her own mileage limits and her horniness and your chemistry will determine where things go. Respect her limits and you'll have a great time.

 

[Dherbs]

Here is an effective demonstration of giving a massage before going in for the fun,

http://www.pornhub.com/view_video.php?viewkey=8b758c587174d462d01e
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[me40]

That's a great video buddy and I'm not even big on asian women! ; )

 

[Karmaman]

Bastard! Now I'm horny and thinking of a duo with Lee & Lynn @ SRM

 

[Mando]

My experience is almost entirely with dancers but maybe it works for MPA's as well. Talk to them before the session. Treat them like the human beings that they are. Discuss your expectations and their boundaries.

Here a are a couple of rookie questions for you seasoned MP'ers.

1) Does "talk time" before and/or after the MPA session count as billable time?
2) Is it fairly common practice to bring an MPA back to your place to carry on a private conversation?