Premature/accidental ejaculation

[DerekD]

Had a surreal experience the other day at a legit RMT place.

Been going to her for almost a year for my regular massages. Over time she has been much more loose with the drape (at my request) but always fully draped and no accidental touch or anything suggestive of more, although there have been times where she has liberally loosened the drape to work on the glutes. I think from this hobby im just conditioned to be horny when getting massages.

Anyways, about a week ago I went to see her for a regular massage, deep tissue. We talk about the usual and the pressure is good. As she is working on my back and pushing on my hips I get an erection. It kind of subdues and comes back occasionally as she is working on my back. This is pretty normal for me.

As she moves to my legs and glutes I’m erect and the lg is pointing downward. The way she undraped the legs and glutes was much more liberal in the past and definitely felt a breeze down there. She did a couple long stroke up my left leg and up to my glute and I got super hard and instantly ejaculated. I was still draped over my dick so I don’t think she noticed, the rest of the massage was really soft/sensual compared to the deep tissue on my back. Anyways I didn’t talk much for the rest of the massage since I was pretty embarrassed for what happened. She didn’t mention anything, so hopefully she didn’t even notice. Usually she has warm towels and I asked her for an extra one which I used to clean up the sheets as best as I could. I left the wet towel on the area and hopefully she didn’t investigate. I book directly the massage place so have no direct contact with her. I hope it’s not awkward when I see her again.



Has this happened to anyone before? Do you think she noticed?

 

[Albertaman]

I would not call this premature or accident ejaculation. It's a form of energy play. In years past, I had raised this subject on this board and another and I could see from the silly responses that most pooners didn't have a clue.

Certain masseuses have a good energy and a touch that can be used well for this type of energy play, if the client is ready. One could use the Tantra label as well. One may choose not to ejaculate and retain the energy.

Essentially the therapist is only touching the legs and spine, the bums. No contact with the penis or balls is necessary. This has worked with me over the years with the rare therapist. In situations which ended in ejaculation, it comes from so far deep within that the results are explosive and they come in waves. The therapist knows what is happening and continues without skipping a beat. Yep, there is much more to sensuality than just the obvious stuff.

Thanks for sharing the original post. Kind of reminded me how boring and mundane the usual rub and tugs are. Time to discover more of ourselves.
Cheers.


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[PingPongPooner]

RMTs are quite aware of the men getting erections and they do lots of reconnaissance. My experience is if I do, it was intended by her. Despite the professional crap of their governing bodies they are women, they are much more sensual and sexual than men, the room is dark, the music plays, they get bored, possessive of clients and need constant affirmation of their feminine capabilities.

My advice is keep going if she's willing, don't say anything unless she brings up the topic or that's the end of it. Women are all about subtle covert actions. Let her lead. Be ready for inconsistency as they are governed by ever-changing hormones.

 

[Mebad2018]

I have not ejaculated in that way. I have been able to not get hard even if being teased . Especially when I knew it was just a tease and no release. There was a masseuse that tried to get a reaction out of me. I know she will not provide anything more . I purposely decided that I would not get hard just because I know it was just a game she plays. Where I get waxed , the lady that does it is very attractive and I get hard everytime . She never would go further and I know it but she also isnt teasing she is just doing waxing. I have been close a few times with her. She has that same energy Albertaman was talking about . We connect very well on a different level. We are very attracted to each other but she is legit . She always starts with a slow sensual massage before ripping hair out of lg and the boys.

 

[DerekD]

interesting responses. Im hopefully seeing her again this weekend.

I still think it was more accidental, like getting a wet dream. Have you ever had a wet dream and ejaculated? it was similar to that feeling.

Any suggestions on how to proceed from here?

When I first saw her the draping was supper professional and tight, she’d work my glutes over sheet and the draping was tucked under my leg . In the last massage she didn’t tuck anything and one side of my bottom was draped while one whole leg/ass cheek was exposed, pretty sure past the crack. She works my glutes directly now. Again I’ve been seeing her for a year or so now.

 

[Mebad2018]

Take a cialis that way she's going to see your flag rising. She may get an ego boost and get playfull

 

[daty869]

interesting responses. Im hopefully seeing her again this weekend.

I still think it was more accidental, like getting a wet dream. Have you ever had a wet dream and ejaculated? it was similar to that feeling.

Any suggestions on how to proceed from here?

When I first saw her the draping was supper professional and tight, she’d work my glutes over sheet and the draping was tucked under my leg . In the last massage she didn’t tuck anything and one side of my bottom was draped while one whole leg/ass cheek was exposed, pretty sure past the crack. She works my glutes directly now. Again I’ve been seeing her for a year or so now.

I’ve had somewhat similar experiences with two legit ladies over the years. As she has been seeing you for a year now she trusts you and knows that you are there for a massage and not a happy ending, having said that, it seems that she is pushing the boundary of what an RMT is permitted as far as draping lines… and doing so voluntarily and with some intention- what I noticed with the two ladies was that the pressure to the inner thigh was different to the other places, definitely more sensual than pressure. I “came close” but held back.

 

[Albertaman]

When this mutual chemistry is just right, the final impulse to get one to shoot may come when she has her hands on your ankles and pressing points on the sides. She may have already massaged your bums, glutes and thighs a few minutes earlier. It's a primal force from within.


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[Eastcoastdan]

I would not call this premature or accident ejaculation. It's a form of energy play. In years past, I had raised this subject on this board and another and I could see from the silly responses that most pooners didn't have a clue.

Certain masseuses have a good energy and a touch that can be used well for this type of energy play, if the client is ready. One could use the Tantra label as well. One may choose not to ejaculate and retain the energy.

Essentially the therapist is only touching the legs and spine, the bums. No contact with the penis or balls is necessary. This has worked with me over the years with the rare therapist. In situations which ended in ejaculation, it comes from so far deep within that the results are explosive and they come in waves. The therapist knows what is happening and continues without skipping a beat. Yep, there is much more to sensuality than just the obvious stuff.

Thanks for sharing the original post. Kind of reminded me how boring and mundane the usual rub and tugs are. Time to discover more of ourselves.
Cheers.


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I couldn’t have said it better myself. There are two things at play here, physiological, and energetic.

Because of nerve pathways, the fact is when you massage certain areas, it can trigger a response from your LG, especially if you are relaxed. Most RMTs have seen an unintended erection more than once in their career.

The energetic part, so well described, is a little more nebulous. As long as you’re open to it happening, there’s no predicting what energy they bring and your response until you are there, in the moment.

The fact that you didn’t draw attention to it, and she didn’t react, shows that she maybe didn’t notice, or more likely, she’s a true professional.

As long as you’re not looking to go back with the same result, my suggestion is to rebook with her, and if she sees you, act as if nothing happened.

 

[DerekD]

I saw her again today, didn’t bring it up/wasn’t brought up.

I nothing happened this time although I tried to make some cues.

 

[ObiWanPotato]

I saw her again today, didn’t bring it up/wasn’t brought up.

I nothing happened this time although I tried to make some cues.

I curious....you mentioned the draping etc was more relaxed than usual...was this still the case or did she tighten up again?

 

[Rubmegood]

I curious....you mentioned the draping etc was more relaxed than usual...was this still the case or did she tighten up again?

(Obiwan- That's a great picture! Did you draw that yourself?? )

 

[luvsluvsmassage]

if she has relaxed draping its because of trust. if you start trying to drop hints or cues or make a deal of it, you're going to erase all of that in a second. if she is even a bit curious or whatever the other guys have said here, then you have to just keep the trust and let her do her thing. just don't be weird about it. it doesn't need to be brought up. the few times where i had a major hard-on on the flip and I apologized, the usual response is "its ok, its natural, i didn't even notice". the last one a bit deflating haha.

 

[semi4life]

Had a surreal experience the other day at a legit RMT place.

Been going to her for almost a year for my regular massages. Over time she has been much more loose with the drape (at my request) but always fully draped and no accidental touch or anything suggestive of more, although there have been times where she has liberally loosened the drape to work on the glutes. I think from this hobby im just conditioned to be horny when getting massages.

Anyways, about a week ago I went to see her for a regular massage, deep tissue. We talk about the usual and the pressure is good. As she is working on my back and pushing on my hips I get an erection. It kind of subdues and comes back occasionally as she is working on my back. This is pretty normal for me.

As she moves to my legs and glutes I’m erect and the lg is pointing downward. The way she undraped the legs and glutes was much more liberal in the past and definitely felt a breeze down there. She did a couple long stroke up my left leg and up to my glute and I got super hard and instantly ejaculated. I was still draped over my dick so I don’t think she noticed, the rest of the massage was really soft/sensual compared to the deep tissue on my back. Anyways I didn’t talk much for the rest of the massage since I was pretty embarrassed for what happened. She didn’t mention anything, so hopefully she didn’t even notice. Usually she has warm towels and I asked her for an extra one which I used to clean up the sheets as best as I could. I left the wet towel on the area and hopefully she didn’t investigate. I book directly the massage place so have no direct contact with her. I hope it’s not awkward when I see her again.



Has this happened to anyone before? Do you think she noticed?

I saw her again today, didn’t bring it up/wasn’t brought up.

I nothing happened this time although I tried to make some cues.

if she has relaxed draping its because of trust. if you start trying to drop hints or cues or make a deal of it, you're going to erase all of that in a second. if she is even a bit curious or whatever the other guys have said here, then you have to just keep the trust and let her do her thing. just don't be weird about it. it doesn't need to be brought up. the few times where i had a major hard-on on the flip and I apologized, the usual response is "its ok, its natural, i didn't even notice". the last one a bit deflating haha.

I 100% agree. You need to go with the flow. Of course she noticed what happened, but she's polite enough not to draw attention to it. Neither should you. She's in the driver's seat so you need to be cool and let her do her thing. She might be just trying to get more in the way of tips or maybe it'll lead to something more; play it cool and see where it leads. Might be nowhere, but the journey could be a lot of fun

 

[Albertaman]

Relax guys, if you have your dick pointing downwards while you are stomach down on table, the therapist isn't all that concerned. You will leave a big wet spot on the sheets and maybe some stuff on your inner thighs. Big deal. When turning back up, just have her place a towel on it for you to lie down on. All the junk on how precise the draping is .. is just junk. Stuff for newbies. I ask for draping if the frigging room is cold. Otherwise I have not had anything other than casual draping or no draping for years. Are some of you getting massages from nuns?

If so, let me suggest the blind nuns. They go easy with draping and are usually the horniest of them all.

 

[Qster]

Hehe, blind masseuses are a thing in China, apparently, they are very good since they start getting trained at a very young age.

I can't say I have had any premature incident at a massage but I was in a brief but intense relationship during covid. The first time we did it without a condom, LG misbehaved within seconds, it is amazing how my LG is so used to the latex that it forgot how to behave without it.

As for hardons at a legit massage, it happens all the time. The best story I had was with Claire in Calgary. I was hard as a rock and she just simply grab the drape and threw it away and worked around it. Super hot but strictly legit, it was great that naked hardons don't bother her at all. Then, there was this lady in Hong Kong, when she saw my hardon, she simply reached underneath the drape and provided relief without disturbing the drape and didn't charge a dime extra, what a pro.

 

[Mebad2018]

Hehe, blind masseuses are a thing in China, apparently, they are very good since they start getting trained at a very young age.

I can't say I have had any premature incident at a massage but I was in a brief but intense relationship during covid. The first time we did it without a condom, LG misbehaved within seconds, it is amazing how my LG is so used to the latex that it forgot how to behave without it.

As for hardons at a legit massage, it happens all the time. The best story I had was with Claire in Calgary. I was hard as a rock and she just simply grab the drape and threw it away and worked around it. Super hot but strictly legit, it was great that naked hardons don't bother her at all. Then, there was this lady in Hong Kong, when she saw my hardon, she simply reached underneath the drape and provided relief without disturbing the drape and didn't charge a dime extra, what a pro.

I wonder if that was her way of toftt

 

[Albertaman]

I wonder if that was her way of toftt

Curiosity does run both ways. Imho and based on my experience


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[ObiWanPotato]

(Obiwan- That's a great picture! Did you draw that yourself?? )

RMG...I actually stole it from the interwebs .. I found some well done drawings but this one reflects my inner self more accurately