What's with the saliva trend?

[nette]

About a year ago, and after many (too many) years of "hobbying", a SP that I had seen for a long time did something that was new for me..she spat on my **** before giving me a bj.

Over the last year, though, I have had 3 different MPA's also spit, drool or otherwise administer saliva.

Not the safest practice in the world, I expect, but not one that I could stop them from engaging in as it has always "come out of nowhere".

Just find it rather odd that, after so many years of "being dry", 4 unconnected women within the last year have adopted this practice.

 

[Cathy C]

The porn industry seems to be the forerunner here, and I guess its now going mainstream. Personally, I find it a total turnoff, and have no interest in hearing a spitting noise in the heat of passion. It ranks up there with farting during sex.

 

[juli]

farting during sex? That is having your balls blow dried!

 

[VitaminWaterGuy]

Yes kind of odd It almost sounds like you're try'in to say your a real stud....in a modest way
I'll be first to tell you that your a stallion (but Paul is still one of the sexiest stallions around)
Dude, if they spit on your dinky and if you don't like or prefer they didn't, why continue with the session? If that happened to me i'd just get up and take a shower, tip them and thank them for their time......but that's just me. I guess some just live today and see today...

 

[Krishna]

A few MPA's I've seen have used their saliva quite creatively, and I find that to be a turn-on if done properly. It's not good when they just spit and then do their thing ... I find it arousing when they let the saliva drip out slowly and then go for the hand-motion. Again, it's something I don't look forward to in a session ... it just seems to happen with certain MPA's.

 

[yet-knish!]

Saliva is actually a much safer form of lubricant. Oils
can transfer bacteria , where saliva will not.

 

[wakeuphappy]

Lubricant that comes out of a bottle is a clean source. Unless it gets contaminated, by you or by the attendent, it will remain a clean source.

Saliva on the other hand, comes from the mouth, where there are millions of bacteria that can be transfered through contact.

 

[jw2par]

.. It must be a porn trend. Two years ago I could have asked the same question but rephrased it: 'What's with all the guys wanting to stick their fingers in a girl's ass! And some even dry!!' But at the time it was a trend. It's the same as the business all around though. Expectations are higher.. guys aren't just looking for a massage anymore or just plain sex from an escort anymore.. they wanna slip their tongues in your mouth.. they want bbbj .. they want emotion.. feeling... and with massage.. they want more teasing... more intimacy all the way around I guess I could say. Boyfriends are the same too from what I hear.. back in the day, hardly anyone thought of anal sex... as soon as the porn industry broke into it... it went rampid. There are even escorts out there that will provide anal (I personally would never consider such.. too damn dangerous for me)... but now.. almost everything is based on trend.. not what a person really wants. Maybe guys and gals are searching for what they REALLY like... so they are trying what pleases everyone ELSE and not so much themselves. And then there are some things that should be kept in your personal life only. IMHO .. there are other ways to turn a guy on than spitting on him.. lol...

 

[mrcatzilla]

I would say that Jenna Jameson has had a big effect on this "fetish". Watch one of her movies and you will know what i am talking about. She is the porn star that started it all.

 

[meg09]

Sometimes Kayla I wonder how far the envelope can be pushed from exactly what you identify above, which is bang on.

I've noticed one of the most popular trends in porn is the "barely legal" niche. And, I've noticed that in certain cases the girls are made up to look much younger than 18 (I recently ordered some porn in a hotel room and fliped through a scene where the girl was playing the role as if she was a first year highschool student who was being boned by gym teacher - isn't first year highshool 15?)

kkarn/

 

[texas]

Exactly. It does feed into our wants for sure. If a guy/gal is out there reproducing acts that they saw in porn movies .. what happens to the young girls? Will it affect them in the end? Damn.. takes us into a whole new realm speaking of young girls... do they get enough attention at home.. do they feel accepted.... or do they log onto the internet to find that affection... and allow movies to be made.... to feel attractive.. it creates bait.. the home situation. More councilors in the schools, more parental interaction, on and on.. we all know what can change that.

I do a lot of reading myself. I've noticed even a trend in my books.. in all the romance novels most of the femal characters are virgins. I guess it's their way of trying to encourage women to wait when it comes to sex.. which is a great idea. Wish I woulda.

But you know what they say about prostitution.. as long as the lady stands on the street, the guy will pick her up.. and as long as there are clients.. there will be prostitutes. The only way we will ever get away from the young girls and shit that's just nasty.. is for people to stop wanting it. As long as they want it.. buy it.. there will be a market for it.

Personally.. I think that in this business in particular.. if each person was treated as an individual... and not as a factory assembly line... and the realization was there that different clients will enjoy different things ... we wouldn't have so many cocks being spit on and porn shots being reproduced.. we would have ladies reading body language to find out if the guy is actually saying, 'baby.. c'mon.. spit on me.. I like it!'

 

[Tom Graphics]

I stopped buying Hustler magazine when the girls started pissing on the floor. I can't understand it. I can see the power exchange in Golden Showers, even if is not something that interests me, but there seemed to be no point to it in Hustler. Six picutres of progressive hardcore sex, one of seeming incontinence, and two more with a money shot. Never got that either. There would seem to me to be better ways to ejaculate than all over your SO's face. Don't buy the "marking territory", either.

It seems to me that pornography, in its mandate to separate you from your money, presents more and more outlandish situations for niche consumers, hoping they catch on. Some days, I even click the "Hairy Granny" link on the movie post sites. I'm usually disappointed, but hey- Check my Nick. The rational side of me says why would you seek anal sex when there is a perfectly good vagina (laser modified or no) to enjoy, and which is better suited, nay designed for the purpose? And while the D/s factor comes into play in your personal relationships, there is little extra physical difference without roleplay in a paid encounter, so why bother? I guess I'm sold- I'll pay an extra $40 or $100, or choose a SP who provides this service over one I would otherwise pick who does not. Thank porn.

 

[kirsty_t_2007]

As for the spitting, I personally do not care for it. It's just a little too street for me. Porn really has been pushing the envelope. Now unless a girl is getting anally gang banged by 500 guys it's treated as a big yawn. It's just really getting weird. I would even say that it is getting well beyond fetish and moving into the realm of misogyny. What ever happened to just having a good normal shag with a hot girl?

 

[Anish]

LOL... Very true.. Reminds me of a song by Tim McGraw called 'Back When'

Back when a hoe was a hoe
Coke was a coke
And crack's what you were doing
When you were cracking jokes
Back when a screw was a screw
The wind was all that blew
And when you said I'm down with that
Well it meant you had the flu
I miss back when
I miss back when
I miss back when




Yeah... like how they put lottery ticket stores in poor areas. It's another stupid thing that is done. Like movies having to have more blood, gore, action, more, more, more... and if they don't... have 'more' of something.. it's not good for us. I guess it just takes a lot to get a reaction out of us.. and we are all at fault for this.

At 34 I found myself saying, 'I just want a simple life.. with a simple guy... in the country.. where everything moves slower.. and you don't feel like life has flown by you.' And I put the words from a song from Sheryl Crow in my signature, 'It's not getting what you want, it's wanting what you got'... something like that... anyways.. the meaning is there. But I have to be careful now.. because we will get too philosophical in the damn massage review forum..lmao! Point being... we all want MORE.. more of everything.. and in the service industry.. service providers... are just trying to provide... hence the spit

 

[Naughtyfox]

We all want what we do not have. If we had it we would take it for granted.

We could move to the country ... and our issues would move with us.

It is all a state of mind. And that took x number of years to create, it is very hard to develop another state of mind over night.

Porn is changing how we form relationships. Yet porn is just a reflection of our society as is everything else.

... well I am off to the mall to be a good consumer ... gotta buy more porn. Gotta live the fantasy vicariously.

 

[all right giggity giggity]

I agree, I get too upset with the current state of pornography. Most of it seems to try to gross me out as much as possible, instead of turning me on. I've been reduced to doing google searches on beautiful girls. Can't anybody make a sexy porn movie anymore? Does everything have to be close-up shots of people's red, swollen and sometimes bruised genitals? Ugh, that's disgusting.

Whatever happend to the power of suggestion? Whatever happened to teasing and personality? Girls in porn these days are hardly more than biological blow-up dolls. And i don't blame them, I blame the directors and creators of these ridiculously shitty movies. Where the hell do they come up with these abusive and insulting ideas?

Sorry to stray off topic. I don't think I like the idea of saliva either. I prefer oil and that's it.

edit: one more thing regarding porn. It should be as much an art form as anything else. People treat porn as if it's something dirty or artless. But it should be treated as a form of art. Anyone remember the movie Zazel? Now that was art.

 

[2010 :)]

Amen!

 

[Pompal 09.]

I have a cat.

 

[lozzielaws]

Agree. Actually the only person to do this to me was at your humble place of business . It was by someone whose departure was over-publicized. Had the opposite of the desired effect on me though.

You are right about the expectation levels.....which kind of go hand in hand ( no pun intended) with the prices and the alternatives I guess.

 

[TF+MG=<3]

I eat babies.