Info on Pure Relaxation

[sjlovesmassage]

Has anyone had a massage here?
https://www.kijiji.ca/v-health-beau...on/1297114767?enableSearchNavigationFlag=true

If anyone has intel, would like to know if massage is good or not.
Thank you.

 

[Guy2013]

I have seen this lady twice, the picture is accurate, she is nice to look at.
She gives you the option of draped or undraped, which always makes one think there may be extras.
Massage is good, but no hint of anything extra, very professional. She did graze the LG once, but I believe it was accidental and she probably did not even realize she had.
I will go back again for the massage, who knows maybe with time things will progress, but I am not counting on it.

 

[IH8UFk3Rs]

Yes, don't count on it.
Hmmm seen me twice? Rob? I don't take clients that I find actively participating in this bullshit forum games.
I had some fucker contact me this morning about reviews on here.
I'm not a rub n tug.
I'm an honest hard worker that is in the business of healing others, I have been nice enough to let people go undraped. It only takes one asshole to ruin that for everyone.

 

[Rubmegood]

Yes, don't count on it.
Hmmm seen me twice? Rob? I don't take clients that I find actively participating in this bullshit forum games.
I had some fucker contact me this morning about reviews on here.
I'm not a rub n tug.
I'm an honest hard worker that is in the business of healing others, I have been nice enough to let people go undraped. It only takes one asshole to ruin that for everyone.

H'mmm- sounds like a real lady that I'd like to see! (not) And she must be booked 'till Xmas or she wouldn't be alienating a huge audience of potential customers!

 

[IH8UFk3Rs]

H'mmm- sounds like a real lady that I'd like to see! (not) And she must be booked 'till Xmas or she wouldn't be alienating a huge audience of potential customers!

A huge audience of potential perverts looking for extras.
GO TO AN ADULT PARLOUR IF THAT IS WHAT YOU NEED.

 

[Jelloguy]

A huge audience of potential perverts looking for extras.
GO TO AN ADULT PARLOUR IF THAT IS WHAT YOU NEED.

I'm guessing Janelle is a member of the board.

I do agree with her, it's her business and she gets to dictate the services she offers and in her new ads it clearly states now NO EXTRAS etc. We know what we know when we go in to this situation. Whether its draped, undraped or partial its her call.

 

[Bob the Knob]

I'm guessing Janelle is a member of the board.

I do agree with her, it's her business and she gets to dictate the services she offers and in her new ads it clearly states now NO EXTRAS etc. We know what we know when we go in to this situation. Whether its draped, undraped or partial its her call.

Totally agree with you on this Jello. And for your comments 1H8U, we aren't all perverts, so stating that doesn't make you look professional, nor does the way you commented and the language you use.

I respect you are running a legit business, and unfortunately offering undraped puts you in a category that suggests there may be more.

Any professional ads or therapists I have seen never offered undraped. You may want to reconsider that. And if a guy comes in and props himself on your table bare ass up, it would be prudent to lay a towel or blanket covering that ass. It would certainly send a message you are not there for anything else but a good therapeutic massage.

Good luck with your business and hopefully you will be able to avoid any requests for extras.

 

[IH8UFk3Rs]

Yes I had someone contact me this morning saying I have bad reviews etc etc on here.

I spent this morning crying and considering leaving massage for good, I canceled appointments and will reconsider my screening and booking process.

It just upsets me because I'm naturally a caring empathetic person. I don't enjoy giving or receiving "mechanical" type of massages. I offer genuine compassion during massage, I am trained in several modalities of massage and energy work. I had let people go undraped because I'm a free spirit and feel everyone should feel comfortable in their skin without judgment. Nothing in my ad was code for anything. I was trying to build up a good following of respectful clients. I have the true belief in touch Therapy and the need humans have for it, the world we live in today....people don't get enough touch. I offer caring therapeutic touch. It's a soft, flowing, relaxing massage. If someone wants deep tissue or trigger point Therapy I provide that also. But I prefer to offer compassion.

Even if I state no extras, this massage is not sexual etc....I still get grabbed, groped etc by "clients"
It's discouraging....this is how I make my living. I give my time and energy to help others feel better physically, mentally and emotionally.

I have no issues with adult parlours or sensual massage, all I'm saying is go there if that's what you need. I paid and still am paying student loans of tens of thousands of dollars to learn massage.
I'm not certified in advanced orthopaedic massage to jerk guys off.

And then there's guys who pull no shows or treat this like it's some kind of casual meet up......I book by appointment, I lose money when people do that. I don't do massage as a hobby.

 

[Guy2013]

Yes, don't count on it.
Hmmm seen me twice? Rob? I don't take clients that I find actively participating in this bullshit forum games.
I had some fucker contact me this morning about reviews on here.
I'm not a rub n tug.
I'm an honest hard worker that is in the business of healing others, I have been nice enough to let people go undraped. It only takes one asshole to ruin that for everyone.

Apparently my honest review "rubbed" you the wrong way.
First off, I clearly stated that the massage was professional with no extras. As for my comment what the future may hold, you cant get to angry at a guy for his fantasies.
As for forum games, this is a review board where interested parties communicate. The fact is that my review may well generate some business for you as many on here are looking for nothing more than a good professional massage

 

[IH8UFk3Rs]

Apparently my honest review "rubbed" you the wrong way.
First off, I clearly stated that the massage was professional with no extras. As for my comment what the future may hold, you cant get to angry at a guy for his fantasies.
As for forum games, this is a review board where interested parties communicate. The fact is that my review may well generate some business for you as many on here are looking for nothing more than a good professional massage

I not upset about your review. I'm upset at whoever contacted me. And I hold strict client confidentiality, I expect the same respect from my clients not to discuss sessions. Most on here just bounce from legit place to legit place trying to get a hand job.

 

[Guy2013]

I not upset about your review. I'm upset at whoever contacted me. And I hold strict client confidentiality, I expect the same respect from my clients not to discuss sessions. Most on here just bounce from legit place to legit place trying to get a hand job.

I am glad that my review did not upset you. As for who contacted you I cant speak to that.
Yes, many on here do bounce from legit place to legit place searching, but not everyone. Some of us have our favorite destinations for legit massage, and favorites for something extra. That's not to say that a good review does not warrant a visit to a new spot.
Overtime I have noticed on this board that the more serious of us truly respect an indiovidual RMT's limits, sure there are other that thinks happy endings should be a required part of an RMT's services, but don't judge us all by their standards.
I hope that this incident does not sour you on your chosen profession, as I stated I will come back for your massage. Nothing extra expected

 

[IH8UFk3Rs]

Thank you.
Hopefully I can continue to find clients that enjoy what I offer.

 

[bigbill]

Guys, stop ignoring the content of ads! When it says NO EXTRAS, someone took the time to write that in their ad, learn to read ya dumb fucks. I can't get over the number of posts we get on here referencing similar ads with "do you think she does extras" and so on. I can't see how a person can get more clear in their ad.

 

[Jelloguy]

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Guys, stop ignoring the content of ads! When it says NO EXTRAS, someone took the time to write that in their ad, learn to read ya dumb fucks. I can't get over the number of posts we get on here referencing similar ads with "do you think she does extras" and so on. I can't see how a person can get more clear in their ad.

I think Bill just put it as clear as it needs to be. I don't know about the rest of you but to read that a lady was THAT upset because of someone, whether from this room or not, pisses me off. The entitlement some apparently show is pretty fucked up. If what "Ih8UfK3RS", for those who can't read it's "I hate you fuckers", says is indeed fact that she has been groped the guys are lucky she didn't call the cops - that's sexual assault. People need to learn boundaries and smarten up.

 

[Bob the Knob]

I can understand "I Hate" being upset by the crazy idiots who don't get it. I sensed a more calm response from her in her later posts, but I would probably have reacted and been just as pissed as she was.

As I said, when I go to visit legit massage therapists I don't start grabbing to see if I can get some.

Hell I don't even do that when I am pretty sure the extras are available. Once I meet a lady who offers extras, I always ask permission to explore more. And no means no.

For "I Hate", I wish her the best and can only offer some advice in that, you will continue to get the idiots, so please be careful how you advertise, and where you advertise.

Too bad the RMT Board doesn't have a screened website where legit RMT's can advertise and be comfortable the crazies will be weeded out. That doesn't totally eliminate a bad client, but putting in a section for internal screening may help avoid those idiots!

 

[sjlovesmassage]

I just cant believe guys actually grope these poor RMTs.... wtf, do you not understand boundaries? I hope IH8UFk3Rs reports fools like this for harassment and gets them to think twice about there stupidity.
If an ad states No Extras, please respect that statement. I am sorry you had to go through this, i was honestly just asking how the massage was as that's what i love more than anything, a really good massage.http://massageplanet.net/members/ih8ufk3rs.64907/

 

[Old Fart]

Hmmm seen me twice? Rob?

I agree with most of what you say but this does not sound like confidentiality. I find it distasteful when guys, even on an escort review board, ask, What's her rack size?" I mean, come on, we are men, not animals.


However, if you are the free spirit you claim to be, I find it hard to believe that you label guys who are seeking a FULL BODY massage. Sounds contradictory to me, but thats just my opinion. Don't expect you to see it that way, unless your mind is as open as you claim your spirit is free.

 

[Old Fart]

is indeed fact that she has been groped the guys are lucky she didn't call the cops - that's sexual assault. People need to learn boundaries and smarten up.

Totally agreed. That is assault for sure.

 

[Rubmegood]

I know there are a lot of perverts that frequent this board but if you follow a few of the threads you will find that there is a core of us members that advocate for the respect and well treatment of therapists. A lot of us prefer undraped massages and STILL respect your rules for 'no extras and no touching'. I'd thank you for offering that option.

I suggest you turn this experience around and use this board to your advantage. Other RMT's have joined this thread to promote themselves (it's probably not technically allowed but then, there's no policing of that policy). Other than that I suggest you make your policy known to callers (texters) in no uncertain terms before they make an appointment.

 

[IH8UFk3Rs]

I didn't mean to "label" I was very upset that someone had contacted me about reviews on here and/or other forums.

Because I take my client confidentiality very strictly, so I expected clients not to discuss my massage sessions with others especially on a forum.
I do not work under an alias so I don't have that privacy screen.

It's the disrespectful ones that can't handle boundaries during a session, my massage is one way. Unfortunately I've had to end massages on a sour note. I absolutely love my regulars that are appreciative of the touch I provide.

Yes...I do consider myself a free spirit. Like I said I didn't mean to label. I have no issue with those seeking full body massage. I get full body massage undraped when I can. Which isn't often because it's hard to find a "real" massage therapist that will allow it and it would be a dream to get something extra. So I kinda get where you are coming from with this. I haven't found a clean or nice body rub place in Edmonton that I enjoy. I just had my best massage while in Toronto this past weekend. Perhaps I will leave her a good review as I see her info on here.

I will be putting up new ads next week, as I am revamping the rooms and adding new massages to accommodate this chilly weather.