Can an MP girl really be jealous..

[Susan M]

or is it always strictly a matter of business? I have always assumed the latter, after all what would a pretty young thing want with my ugly old ass? But something happened on a Saturnight that is making me wonder. I took one of my favs from an MP to dinner, and then to my hotel. As we were about to part I happened to ask if the MP would be open on Sunday, she said yes. I asked if she would be working and she said no, then a second later she got a funny expression on her face and said that if I visited the other girls, she would cut off my pene! What was she thinking, after all she likely has several clients per day.

 

[RooSheeaua]

Can an MP girl really be jealous..

or is it always strictly a matter of business? I have always assumed the latter, after all what would a pretty young thing want with my ugly old ass? But something happened on a Saturnight that is making me wonder. I took one of my favs from an MP to dinner, and then to my hotel. As we were about to part I happened to ask if the MP would be open on Sunday, she said yes. I asked if she would be working and she said no, then a second later she got a funny expression on her face and said that if I visited the other girls, she would cut off my pene! What was she thinking, after all she likely has several clients per day.

She's just trying to find a little warm spot in your heart. :wink: Enjoy the attention while you can...

 

[step on me]

Can an MP girl really be jealous..

Yes they can and do. If youre good to them and make them laugh, they can develop some feelings toward you. Plus im sure most girls would prefer to monopolize your money.

 

[RKOviper]

Can an MP girl really be jealous..

Yes they can and do. If youre good to them and make them laugh, they can develop some feelings toward you. Plus im sure most girls would prefer to monopolize your money.

Well said

Its a little ironic, b/c you are not asking her not to see other guys - if you think about it, its nice - but crazy!

And yes , I 'm sure they like some guys more than others (think about the typical Delrey monger - stupid shirt, shorts, long stringy hair, disgusting sandals, horny yellow toenails, probably smells like smegma - yuck- enough to make you puke - contrast this with a good looking, in shape clean guy who treats them with affection and respect)

But always remember, if the dick was in your hand, versus the money, :shock: :shock: :shock: there would probably be a very short meeting indeed : :wink:

 

[Gessorelian]

Can an MP girl really be jealous..

"stupid shirt, shorts, long stringy hair, disgusting sandals, horny yellow toenails, probably smells like smegma - yuck- enough to make you puke"
That's me, except I also have halitosis.

 

[airforcewife64]

Can an MP girl really be jealous..

Graybeard, sounds just like one of two chicas at Relax! :wink:

As others have said, and or alluded to, 3 things come into play with most "working" chicas, especially those in MPs.

One, they are 'all about the money' and when a regular is with another chica, it is cutting into HER money!! :? They ALWAYS need the money; they want every penny that you spend; and they will be "jealous" to keep you from giving any of "their" money to someone else!!!

Two, yes if you are nice to them, treat them well and tip good and/or give them gifts, and if they find you to be a nice looking guy they will also be jealous of you being with another chica. Jealous does not equate to love with these chicas!! And with most working chicas age has little to do with how they feel about you--sorry young guys but it is a fact!!!. Age relates to having more money in their eyes, and often their earlier sexual experiences were with a much older guy.

The third factor involves self esteem. If you do another chica in the same MP, you are telling everyone that this chica is not satisfying you, or at the least is not giving you all you want, And that is a slap in the face to her. Most of these chicas are a very "proud" bunch and want to think they are better in bed than their co-workers!!!

And the fact that most of them are very good actresses does not hurt their efforts. Most are experts at playing on a guy's emotions; especially us older guys and our need to be wanted like when we were younger. But 99.9999% of the time they are just playing with your emotions for their personal and financial benefit ! Playing along with the game can be a lot of fun as long as you can always remember it is just that--A GAME!!! It is what it is and it ALWAYS WILL BE!!! Nothing more and nothing less--accept that and play the game and have fun, or let your emotions get in control and quickly all the fun will be gone!!!

As for Scuba's comment about us not asking her to see other guys, they look at it as it is their business and they have no choice in who they do or even whether they do a guy or not. BUT if you do another chica it is because you find the other chica desirable (maybe even more than her) and you are doing the other chica because you want to, not because you have to!! Yep, as Scuba said, it is "nice" but it is also very crazy!!!

 

[Chloe Louise]

Can an MP girl really be jealous..

Well said, all. Yes, I am very well aware that it is a game. My problem is that I want to spend more time with this girl outside of the MP setting, but I also want to get together with a couple of her co-workers, and I am afraid that would jepordize future times with her. What a dilemma!

 

[sweethoney785]

Can an MP girl really be jealous..

Hellllooooooo Hellllooooooooo

Do what you want ....its a business - there is no "future" unless you want some real tough love......Jesus.....

Truly she will not care - and when its time to peel down the 'ol foreskin....she will be right there, with her hand out for your money, and her mouth ready for your pin :wink:

Butch up!!!!!

Busting your balls a little because you deserve it with the last post you made - but to be serious just for a sec - see who you wish - it will not effect your "relationship" with her at all :wink: :wink: :roll: :roll: : : :

 

[Jerry Seinfield]

Can an MP girl really be jealous..

Yeah I agree with Scuba1, do what you want. In fact, you would be better served to spread your time with different chicas. Like BB57 said, it is a game. All will be forgiven the next time you pull her.

 

[The Spork-Tacular Xak-kun]

Can an MP girl really be jealous..

...All will be forgiven the next time you pull her...

actually I'd suggest caution here ... if you piss one of these girls off, it'd be a mistake to go back and think all is fine ... especially if you are thinking of patronizing her again.

" Hell hath no fury ..." ... ring any bells???

 

[ovjciapv]

Can an MP girl really be jealous..

When I said it was a "game' I did not mean a game without traps, obstacles, pits to fall into, detours, etc. It is like running an obstacle course thru a mine field. It is an ever changing challenge and no matter how many times you have played, every time will have a new twist or turn (the unknown is what makes it exciting for me).

The following story is in response to Graybeard in relation to his dilemma:

Just in the last few months in one MP I have had a chica (A) who was afraid of doing me because of threats (whether perceived or real, I do not know) from another chica (B) whom I had been with several times. Seems B had told all the other chicas I was hers even thou she was now suppose to be seeing and interested in a friend of mine. That is called "protecting her financial interests" :roll: !!

Chica A was seriously afraid of chica B and even hid from me. It took me 2+ months to convience chica A that I was not in a relationship with chica B. Now after seeing Chica A several times, it seems she has told all the other chicas that I am off limits!!! So as the "rules of the game' dictate and thou I am seriously into chica A (for the great sex), I have in the last few days sessioned with two other chicas in this MP to show "A" that I can and will do other chicas and do not 'belong' to her. One of the two even came to my house for a TLN and I made sure that chica A and ALL the others there knew it. And she (A) is not mad at me nor has she done anything against the other chicas!! Infact she will be here at my house Friday morning and I am getting several really sweet texts a day from her!! Is this game over?? NO! NO! NO! This is just the first inning!! :wink: In the next few days I am sure there will be another obstacle to deal with! : I LOVE IT :wink:

Graybeard, when you start letting the chica think she has you by the balls, SHE DOES!!! and she will take full advantage of the situation! and the game IS OVER!!! Over the years I have been called every foul name in the book more than once, I have been threatened, I have been told "I never want to see you nor touch your 'old C*ck' again", I have been told to never call again!!! BUT guess what :roll: They almost always (when the money is short) call me :shock: Do they apologize? NO!! Do they even act like something had happened? NO!! "SECOND INNING"!!!!!

Oh, and the last time I saw chica B she also asked when I was going to session with her again!!!! And she is now regularly seeing TWO of my friends!!! The game with chica B is still going on it seems (in her mind, not in mine!!).

And non of this is because of any LOVE or even any real emotional ties!! It is ALL ABOUT THE MONEY!!!!! Even when "THE MONEY" only amounts to $20-$30 to them once a week to 10 days!!!!

Sorry Bashful but Mattyice is more likely to be correct on this issue from my experience over the years!!!! But then again, the rules of the game can change, even in the middle of the game!!! :? :wink: :

 

[Penn]

Can an MP girl really be jealous..

Sorry Bashful but Mattyice is more likely to be correct on this issue from my experience over the years!!!! But then again, the rules of the game can change, even in the middle of the game!!! :? :wink: :

Perhaps, old friend. But I make it a habit to never lie down where I shit! I have seen too much bad stuff that women can do when they feel scorned, and I doubt seriously if Costa Rican women are that much different. Weren't you telling me about a chica that hasn't even looked at you in years, over some BS that another chica told her about you?
I think it's important to identify whether they are in the 'game' mindset when the shit falls. As for your 'A' and 'B', I know them and I've told you before that 'B' is dangerous. Yes, she's all about the money. But if you make it anything 'more' than business with these girls (even in their minds), then *when* it falls (as it is guaranteed to do) then there may not be a healthy business environment left behind.
You know that I have made two chica mistakes down there. One is sufficiently self-armored and not bound to be hurt by the play (though is well entrenched in the chica network and could create a very unhealthy reputation for anyone that pisses her off). The other desperately wants more than business, and I haven't found the footing to ease back into the 'client' mode. Of course I could just tell her to go f*ck off, but the mistake was mine ... I got too close ... so it is on me to fix the situation without damage (especially to me :mrgreen: ).
Yes, it's a game. My point is that it can be dangerous in gameplay if the two players are, in fact, playing by entirely different rules!

 

[========]

Can an MP girl really be jealous..

Hey Greybeard - stop using American logic and dating sense with whores.

In fact, become a member of the "Five Fingers Club":

Find 'em
Feel 'em
Finger 'em
F.u.c,k. 'em
Forget 'em

Or so my friend John also stated in 8th grade :

I swear we knew more about life and common sense back them than some on this board do today........ I'm not naming any names.........but if the floo shits, wear it!

 

[?gl4597]

Can an MP girl really be jealous..

I think Bashful has a point. You should proceed with caution.
How about you take your "girl" and one of the other chicas for an half hour dupla to make her understand that you like her but want some variety ?
If she feels you will not abandon her but just need to stray a bit you should be fine.
Just a thought.

 

[Ihtiyorhon M]

Can an MP girl really be jealous..

One correction: It was NOT another chica that told her lies about me!! IT WAS AN OLD GRINGO EXPAT (and CRT non VIP member) who did not like me taking other gringos to "HIS" MPs. I had/have never even sessioned with her, but have never heard anything but good about her and have never posted anything about her except where she was working one time when someone asked!! But he told her I had posted some really bad things about her and she choice to believe him rather than me. The "games" some gringos play are much worse than those played by most Chicas!!!! It has in no way negatively affected me other than I would have probably sessioned with her at some point and if she was as good as she is said to be, I would have probably recommended her to my friends.

The one thing to always remember is that though they may not always be the sharpest knife in the drawer, they seldom will do anything to seriously hurt their income over the long run. Yes they may get mad, may say they never want to see you again, may even threaten revenge, because of what you did!!! But, as with the favorita of another friend, every time he has told her how bad she is, she has gotten mad, called him names, and said she never wants to see him again because he is such a terrible man! Then as soon as she realizes some one else is getting his $$$ she comes running back acting even sweeter than before as if nothing ever happened.

If you let them into your heart, let them get control, let them think you care about what they do, then you are giving them the edge. And if you then do something they do not like they will threaten you. But they will seldom follow thru because they realize that in the long run they are more likely to be the one hurt (in terms of lost money)!! The main thing is to just NEVER let yourself get in too deep!--reason I have a new favorita every few weeks!!!!!!!!!!!!

Just remember that even if she does try to hurt your ability to see other chicas, there are 100+ places and 4 to 5 thousand chicas working in the business here! No way can she influence all of them nor even more than a small handful. You are the one with the money and she/they are the one(s)who want that money, and they will seldom do anything to seriously hurt their earning capacity!!

Finally, look for fun, look for that "special" connection, look for the chica that "rocks your world" but NEVER LOOK FOR LOVE IN A WHORE HOUSE!!!! And always remember: It is a great big ocean out there FULL of special "fish!!!! One may get away but there are always 10 to take that one's place. And all you want to do (hopefully) is "catch and return"!!!!!!!!!!!!